Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

When we are together he shows interest, and he will call me out of the blue (but obciously that can be for a booty call, no I have not slept with him) but the problem is, he wont call me for months at a time, its like he just randomly gets up the courage to call, and than loses five freakin seconds later..... He is much older than me, I am 19, almost 20.... and he is well... lets just say, old enought o have kids of his own (which he doesnt) is he not interested or is he scared about the age dif?

You opinions much obliged.

2006-10-24 10:17:09 · 18 answers · asked by Indiana Jonas 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so theres this guy I like a lot. Ive even caught myself once or twice saying I love him. Hes smart, cute, athletic, sweet. But on the flip side, I recently found out that he's like...still practically in love with this girl he dated in the 8th grade! ..hes now a senior...in high school! Its crazy! Ive liked him for 1 year now and he still doesnt know how I feel. Hes shy and good at keeping his feelings away, because when we talk, all the right signs are there. Even when we're not talking I see him occasionally looking at me. I dont know what to do. I have so much to give to him, you know? Hes been through so much and I just care so much about him. But how am I supposed to take this? ITS KILLING ME! Like...everyday that goes by, him not knowing how I feel, hurts me. Sure just tell him right? Its not that easy! His Mom is my english teacher...when she teaches I get a reminder of him! Its crazy! PLEASE HELP! What should I do? Anything to look for? How should I tell him?

2006-10-24 10:13:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 10:13:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

then when shes sober shes hardly speaks to me, ffs, she doesnt like me??#

2006-10-24 10:13:45 · 33 answers · asked by Kevy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this girl in my class that's like 2 years younger than me. She'll usually looks back at me, and i sit at a table that's diagonal behind her table. Once the class was standing out in the hall, and instead of standing with her best friend, she came and stood right beside me and looked at me for a few seconds. Then she kept standing there until we had to go back in the class. I'm not lesbian so don't say i'm imagining it. I just want to get an idea of why she might do this.

2006-10-24 10:13:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-24 10:13:35 · 2 answers · asked by East 12th Street 2 in Singles & Dating

I am debating if I should ask one of the guys I like out…if the guy is 1 ½ years older then me should I ask him out or should he ask me. He is around 17 years old.Do guys like it when the girls ask them out???and who pays in this case???

2006-10-24 10:13:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that he notices me when we say hi and stuff but i want him to know i wanna be more then friends!

2006-10-24 10:12:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help!

2006-10-24 10:11:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now i've been hearing a lot about how guys want girls to ask them out, why? Honest non-generic answers would help. Thanks.

2006-10-24 10:11:17 · 20 answers · asked by toburheroine 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my partner for 2 years and i dont know whether I should get married to him he asked over a year ago and we dont really get on but have to kids dont get me wrong on times we are very happy but i want the fairy tale you know feel excited when he comes home etc but not a thing? do i dump and find my true love or stay as we are a family..??

2006-10-24 10:11:15 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-24 10:11:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've notice that men tell everyone that they have a special woman in their life but as the years goes by they never put a pretty ring on the woman's finger. Y is that???

2006-10-24 10:10:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got him a cookie but they didn't have the kind he wanted so he said i shouldn't have got him any but if i didn't he would tell i should have gotten him something else honlestly it's been a while since i've heard a real thank you from him

2006-10-24 10:10:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-24 10:09:16 · 24 answers · asked by iamadam'sgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a girl friend and i want to have a sex with him.how can i tell him him?i think(knew)he don`t like to have a sex with me. but i want to find a way to have sex with him.what do you suggest?

2006-10-24 10:08:52 · 1 answers · asked by good boy 2 in Friends

I am southern....and was wondering if any one else was and what part they are from.

2006-10-24 10:08:23 · 21 answers · asked by Dawnielle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so me and my gf broke up after 7months.things havent been going smoothly because of the beginin of skool and those dramas in high school. we have spent so many times together and stuff.we really thought we couldnt be broken up but she wanted to keep it on the low last month.all my friends have been saying to just forget her because i sometimes couldnt think why she cant stop flirting.i have complained alot of times and i have asked for forgiveness. but this time.i just went real mad with her bczu it seems like she got this othr guy in her life. so she sed..i just need some time off or sumdin.we did hella things.and we're 15. we went really far i guess.she trusted me with her body too.i dont know what to do.should i give her sometimes and see if she wants me back? or should i just give up.i always say that but i end up trying to get her back.. i dont find just giving up on the relationship worth it.

2006-10-24 10:08:22 · 6 answers · asked by itstony 2 in Singles & Dating

I am good friends with this girl that I know from before I graduated. We went to the homecoming college game together to catch up and afterward her and a friend of hers and I were walking back onto campus. While we were walking, her friend tried to get us to go up a trail through the woods then said she left something behind when we did not go. We wound up alone as a result and walked around. I was headed somewhere, but as I we were about to get to the point where we would leave each other, she asked me to come see something she was working on. After that, she asked me where we should go next - not wanting to stop talking. Honestly, was I set up by her friend? Am I missing her hints of liking me and wanting to date me? Am I thick??

2006-10-24 10:08:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was told that sometime 1906 there was a batch of Filipinos who went to hawaii to work pineapple plantations there. I want to know who these workers were, what became of them. Do they still live there in hawaii?

2006-10-24 10:07:44 · 1 answers · asked by Manueldatu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ugh i want payback my friend did awful things to me and i want revenge that dosnt lead back to me any ideas and dont say ignore her plz XXXX

2006-10-24 10:07:16 · 11 answers · asked by gina l 1 in Friends

There this guy that I've known since I was 7 years old, and we have always been interested in each other. We did break up and had our on and offs. We would always end up getting with some one else. Until today were still talking, and he is coming from the army in two weeks, and he always mentions to me that he wants to ask me to marry him when he comes back, which I'm quite nervous about, becasur I don't really feel that I'm ready to get married. I am only 19. Then he said that I never called him and that I always make our conversation short on the phone. After he finished arguing about all these little things, he told me that he was going to call me the next day, and that if I didn't answer that he was going to delete my number on his phone, and he did not call.. What do you think about this?

2006-10-24 10:06:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's divorcing her and he is telling her he wants me to want him. Hard to believe this that some one tell their mate like this. She tells me when he sees me its like magic in the air that we glue eye contact. Well we do at time but I usually blow it off as "puppy love" thing like we had in high school(at the time I had a bf and now he found out bf and I split up). Tells me today that he wants to get together. I like him as a friend but this is kinda worring me. Should I give him a chance. We were friend in high school and we r over 40 yrs old. Please read thru what I told u careful,then answer me. thank u.

2006-10-24 10:06:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wrote a letter to this girl i really like(3 letter), the reason i wrote these letters was because there was no reaction from her. then i finally go up to her today and i find out that she has a boyfriend. girls if u was this girl what would u think of me. i really hope that i didnot wreak my chances for the futer, do u think i did????

2006-10-24 10:06:12 · 17 answers · asked by etat 1 in Singles & Dating

what are the signs that a dense/shy guy will give showing he likes me?
by dense i mean he prob. wouldn't know that i liked him unless i told him and beat him over the head with a shovel. :)

2006-10-24 10:06:06 · 6 answers · asked by becca 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 10:05:53 · 3 answers · asked by serviguy40 1 in Family

I am 31 and my husband is 28. We are the reverse of the typical male/female sex stereotype. I am in the mood almost all the time, and he is hardly ever in the mood. I have always been this way. This isn't a sexual peak.

My extremely high sex drive combined with his low one causes great frustration for me. Most days I want sex while he is fine with having it only once or twice a week. There have even been a couple of times where we didn't have sex for 3 weeks!

Although I try very hard to be patient and understanding of the differences in our needs I still find myself sexually frustrated, which then sometimes leads to anger and resentment because I feel that my needs are not being met. I know that he possibly can't help being tired. I know that our 6 month old and teenage daughters are causes of stress and less alone time. My mother also stays with us at least twice a week while her husband works nights, because she watches the baby while we work.

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2006-10-24 10:05:31 · 20 answers · asked by Lisa T 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like him!! My friends don't help!! But, I do like when they say I should go out with him!!! So... what should I do?? I'm really scared to ask him out!! But, I really like him!!! Julia

2006-10-24 10:04:55 · 15 answers · asked by Julia L 1 in Singles & Dating

...and we've been going out for 2 months. She's the first REAL girlfriend I've ever had, and I feel that i've made some stupid mistakes. We're not all that close, and I think we could be closer. But I don't know what to do. We've been kinda arguing lately and she says that she's still trying "to figure out her feelings." What does that really mean? I really don't want to give up on her and I want things to be better. What should I do? If a girl is still shy after two months of dating, what should I be doing to maybe help speed up the process?

2006-10-24 10:04:28 · 7 answers · asked by sethjt1991 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother loves my husband like a son and for the past 3 years we have spent christmas with her and grandma.My husband likes her but this year he really doesn't want to go. Its only for a few hours and my sister and her husband go to liverpool over christmas and therefore there is only us to be with mum and grandma so they are not alone. Its only a few hours out of the day and we do not have any other plans for the day so we would just be 10 miles away together and they will be alone. Should I ignore the complaints and have us go, which I can do, or listen to the fact that he doesn't want to go and try and find a way to get him out of it. Its really sad actually cause my mother really loves him. Surely it wouldnt kill him for a few hours or am I being unreasonable? Any and all advice welcome thanks

2006-10-24 10:04:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships