my brother always criticize me it hurts my feelings i feel like i can do nothing right wat do i do(sob)?

Question

i got him a cookie but they didn't have the kind he wanted so he said i shouldn't have got him any but if i didn't he would tell i should have gotten him something else honlestly it's been a while since i've heard a real thank you from him

Answer 1

I wish i knew when I was young that my brother would not be around when I grew up. He killed himself at age 17 and now I regret all the petty fights we had and how I never appreciated him like I should. Cherish every moment with those you love. I wish I could talk to your brother and convince him to appreciate you like he should. He will one day, I hope. Remember, cherish EVERY moment.

Answer 2

It sounds like your brother is controlling, hurtful and ungreatful. If he cant appreciate what you do for him, simply dont do anything. You do not have to cater to him just because he is your brother. You do things for people out of the kindness of your heart and if he cant appreciate that, then dont do it. He is not your father. If he says mean hurtful things to you, then try your best to avoid and ignore. If you cant stay away from him, ignore him as much as possible. A person looks really stupid if they are arguing and talking to himself and no one is listening. Eventually, he should shut up with you ignoring him, and that should hopefully make him realize that if he doesnt treat you better, you have nothing to say to him until he does. You have to put your foot down because nobody else will do it for you. Remember that. Take care of yourself and that includes your feelings as well.

Answer 3

Your brother thinks that if he shows any positive emotion towards you it'll be misinterpreted as weakness. He has some esteem issues that he's trying to push off on you. Remember, when he says that kind of crap that he's really, deep down inside, talking to himself, and because he doesn't like who he is, he attacks you to make himself seem more like you. If he believes that he is fat, he will attack fat people to make them in his mind the same as he is. It's the only weapon he knows against hating himself, and rather than push towards being mainstream (normal if you must), his mission is to get everyone else in his state of mind, so that becomes mainstream (again, normal if you will). Your best bet is not to take it personally and understand that he is the one with the problem. (He must think you're pretty amazing to be attacking you and trying to disguise his own inadequacies by foisting them off on you).

Answer 4

Grab the cookie back, eat it then tell him go ahead and tell. He's lucky you offered it to him in the first place and next time he's on his own to get his own cookies.

Answer 5

quit doing things for him out of niceness!!! once he sees this he might appreciate you more>>> don't worry sweetie,,, my brother and I was like that and now 40 years later were still BEST friends

Answer 6

tell him that he hurts you when he is nasty to you, if that does not work stop doing things for him until he learns how to be nice, because you deserve to be respected just like he does..

Answer 7

tell him he should be happy with what u get him and if he still doesnt care get into a boxing class and kick his a ss

Answer 8

start putting faith in yourself
and
NOT
what others think of you?
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Answer 9

Kick his ***!!!!!!!!!!!!!