So there is this girl I like?

Question

...and we've been going out for 2 months. She's the first REAL girlfriend I've ever had, and I feel that i've made some stupid mistakes. We're not all that close, and I think we could be closer. But I don't know what to do. We've been kinda arguing lately and she says that she's still trying "to figure out her feelings." What does that really mean? I really don't want to give up on her and I want things to be better. What should I do? If a girl is still shy after two months of dating, what should I be doing to maybe help speed up the process?

Answer 1

Confess to her your stupid mistakes. Show her you know how to be a man.

Answer 2

well maybe she is just a shy girl all together. It's usually a good idea to become friends first, too. So if things keep going this way, just tell you want to break it off and be friends for awhile and get to know each other better. That way she wont feel as if shes in a serious commitment with a stranger. If you like her enough, you need to give her a little space, too, if you havent already. = ]

Answer 3

First of all, give her some space, and let her think,,
Second, whats shes meaning by" trying to figure out my feelings" means,she doesnt know whether she likes you or not ,yet.
Third-dont argue, but talk to her.
Fourth-talk about things,that will make you come closer.
Fifth-sort out the "stupid mistakes",and DONT speed up the process,give some time.
im sure itll clear things out,well...hopefully!

Answer 4

talk to her and ask her how she really feels than tel her that ur srry 4 all the bad things uve done and hen make it up to her go c a movie or go out 2 dinner

Answer 5

just wait or speed it up a little and if shes still shy thats not good

god bless

Answer 6

try doing things that she likes to do

Answer 7

ask her wat she really meant by "her feelins" try talkin to her without arguin