I know that he notices me when we say hi and stuff but i want him to know i wanna be more then friends!
2006-10-24 10:12:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might want to be patient.If you haven't known him for a long period of time I would wait until you know a little bit more about him and so he knows something about you.It would be awkward just barely befriending him and you already want to be his gf when he doesn't know what type of person you are.But,if you have known him,try to tell him one step at a time when you feel you are truly ready.
2006-10-24 10:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by peacejump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like it when you make the first move so go up to him and actually start a conversation instead of just hi. If you guys talk a little maybe he'll catch the hint and if not ask him to hang out sometime. If youre afraid of rejection, think about it this way; youll never know unless you try, so go for it. It's a 50/50 chance he likes you too. Believe it or not, guys are probably more nervous that girls!
2006-10-24 17:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with him, and tell him that you would like to see if you can take your frienship a diffrent direction. If he freaks just say that it was something you wanted to explore further to see if there was any additional feelings there. If he reacts good, well press on and see what changes could be made, like going out on your own, instead of with friends, or invite him over for dinner and then go to a movie, or rent a few and watch them together. Baby steps, and progress from there. It is better to take the first step, rather than see what happens.
2006-10-24 17:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Liza R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IVE BEEN IN UR SHOES! Keep going with the hi thing. Thats how its supposed to start off. Keep this going, and then one day just take him by suprise and start conversation with him. He'll love it! Hes not going to get the impression at first how you feel, but he'll know a friendship is underway and then just take it from there! Good luck girl! Im sure ur creative u'll think of something else great to do!
2006-10-24 17:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by mtjiji_021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get his attention just be really nice. Be yourself and don't be something your not. Try talking to him more! After awhile, when you get more comfortable, ask him. Don't know how??? Just say, I like you and more then a friend, so do you want to go out??? Remember, the worst he can say is no! Hope this helps!
2006-10-24 17:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by emachines916 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off HOW OLD ARE YOU?
OK if your old enough for a boyfriend you should already know these tricks...
stuff like ..just smiling at him and looking him directly in his eyes..
how about while you walk up to him and smile, and just before you say anything to him..you tilt your head and flip your hair...
then start talking to him...
how about gently grabbing his hand or arm....
hey this is enough for now..
make sure your always showered, and your hair is all done...and you have a little perfume on ( not a lot..you do not want to make him cough from to much perfume )...
face make up...well ..some guys really do not like it when girls have to much on..very little is better than to much for sure...
good luck
OH ..be yourself too...........and if all else fails..tell him how you feel....
2006-10-24 17:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could try being honest and telling him hey I really dig you and I would really like to spend more time with you then ask hey could we maybe go see a
movie or just try inviting him somewhere you think he'd enjoy going thats always a nice way to open things up
2006-10-24 17:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by snaggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him sum where as friends first. in a conversation if he says sumthing funny, u can bring it up, let him know u want to b more than just frends. if he feels the same way, he'll let u know.
2006-10-24 17:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up and start a conversation with him. start out as being friends but always lend in a hint that you want to be his girl
2006-10-24 17:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by Marsha N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to smile and go some big time flirting. He may be shy.
2006-10-24 17:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋