I am debating if I should ask one of the guys I like out…if the guy is 1 ½ years older then me should I ask him out or should he ask me. He is around 17 years old.Do guys like it when the girls ask them out???and who pays in this case???
2006-10-24 10:13:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoever asks, pays. 17 less one and a half years is 15 or so. I think you may be a bit too young for him. Ask reall off-handed, like you don't care what his answer is.
2006-10-24 10:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask, you pay. Then perhaps from there on you could pay dutch; i.e., each pay half. As far as whether guys like it, of course they do; it's a real compliment to them!!
Would your parents approve of the age difference? Perhaps you should give that some thought before you ask him out. Because, if you end up in a relationship, you want them to be behind you in a supportive role.
Have you known this guy long enough to really know enough about him to ask him out? If not, cool it for a while and learn more about him.
Good luck! Linda
2006-10-24 17:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by bionicbitchofbytown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person who offers the invitation pays, though I would hope the boy would not allow that. I personally think he should ask you. Be a prize he needs to win, not an easy target he doesn't even need to try for.
2006-10-24 17:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually no.they fill cheated nd very cheap when a girl tries it.they also fill embarased when,when they discuss with thier friends,and thier friends ask them when or were did u find dis girl,they fill ashamed.
certainly the girl has to pay because,she asked him out.
2006-10-24 17:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by fyne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy ask you out he pays, If you ask him out you pay!
2006-10-24 17:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy should pay.
or come to an agreement during purchase.
2006-10-24 17:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by NYC-BIGCAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋