He's divorcing her and he is telling her he wants me to want him. Hard to believe this that some one tell their mate like this. She tells me when he sees me its like magic in the air that we glue eye contact. Well we do at time but I usually blow it off as "puppy love" thing like we had in high school(at the time I had a bf and now he found out bf and I split up). Tells me today that he wants to get together. I like him as a friend but this is kinda worring me. Should I give him a chance. We were friend in high school and we r over 40 yrs old. Please read thru what I told u careful,then answer me. thank u.
2006-10-24 10:06:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a hard think about if you might want to be with the guy if that is what he proposes. Why did he and his wife seperate? Questions like that. There is no harm in meeting him but a relatioship on the back of his seperation may be risky at best. Either way, try not to let the situation ruin your friendship. Also I would personally be very wary of the ex telling me things like this. It sounds a bit odd. Good luck with it all.
2006-10-24 10:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that not only is he going through a change of life but he is wanting to get some of his lost youth back. That's where you come into the story. I had a similar experience with a girl I had a huge crush on in high school. We met some forty years later and I thought I wanted to get with her again, but after getting with her I found out she was only a fantasy girl from my past and she was no different than my wife I divorced. I would let him know up front your not interested in him. Good luck to you.
2006-10-24 10:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance, then if you don't think things would work out after a few dates just tell him.
Guys it seems like they all make mistakes and cheat atleast one time, when they are either married or have a girlfriend. But life goes on....Seems like he must really think you guys can work something out. Good luck!
2006-10-24 10:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by Wishineverynight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends husband likes you right...is that what youre saying here? Ok..Ive never been one to date guys from my friends ...youre over 40 ..so what is the problem? You do what you feel ...just Go for it! But if it was me...NO..I wouldnt..
2006-10-24 10:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by celine8388 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being honest that he made a Mistake and he's correcting It by being with You, He know that his Marriage didn't workout and you are Ms. right to Him, his wife wasn't, you should be very happy right now.
He did It for you, He Loves You.
2006-10-24 10:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by tfoley5000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they divorcing because you and your boyfriend split up??
Sounds to me like he really likes you.. alot! I guess you could give him a chance because what do you have to lose? but then again, are you good friends with his wife/exwife? careful..
2006-10-24 10:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by C-Baby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should give him a chance, just go out on one date.You never know if he's different now.
2006-10-24 10:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by B rabit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say go for it...what have you got to lose? Who knows maybe the timing was never right and now it seems to be..maybe this match was in the stars! Sounds really romantic to me!!!
2006-10-24 10:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't get free problems. Stay away from relations of his type.
2006-10-24 10:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by Suzy Gee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your actually considering its okay to hook up with a guy thats divorcing his wife bec hes in love with you, yeah weird
2006-10-24 10:10:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋