Now i've been hearing a lot about how guys want girls to ask them out, why? Honest non-generic answers would help. Thanks.
2006-10-24 10:11:17 · 20 answers · asked by toburheroine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i cant speak for all my homies out there, but according to me YES im afraid of rejection.
2006-10-24 10:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, people in general are afraid of the R word. But you what's funny? Being turned down by a girl or guy is not really what rejection is. We, as humans, put way to much importance on rejection whehn it comes to being turned down for a date etc. Real rejection is being stood up at the altar. Think about it.
2006-10-24 10:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It must be pretty scary to ask someone out. You're setting yourself up for possible rejection when you do. It's pretty hard on the ego to be told "no" by someone you like. Someone not quite sure of themselves could shy away from asking altogether if said "no" to a few times. How does it feel when someone asks you out even if it's someone you don't want to go out with? It makes you feel good to know that someone wants to be in your company. So a guy would feel the same way. Just steer away from guys who think that by being asked out by a girl, the girl must want sex. So make some guy feel good about himself.....ask him out, select where you're going, pay his way and take him home. He'd love you for it.
2006-10-24 10:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Rejection is difficult to digest
but not everyone is "afraid" of it; while some are.
The best way to stick your toe in the water without drowning, is to not LEAP into a relationship. Start it out as "friends" going for a meal, or to a function. Do this for several outings, and see if more develops...if the "attraction" is there, the "more" part will happen very quickly, and it will be clear when each one wants to advance the relationship.
I wish you love
stw
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2006-10-24 10:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
EVERY human is afraid of rejection to some degree or another.
But, it's also part of growing up.
Two things to keep in mind:
1) rejection may "hurt" a little emotionally but it won't kill you, and
2) spectators never win...it's always the participants that win
Good luck and best wishes
2006-10-24 10:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm totally afraid of it. I probably would not ask a guy out because of that fear, and I know there are many things in my life I do not do becuase of that fear as well. I want everyone to like me, so I try to stay as neutral as possible, and blend into the background. (Just a psychological analysis of myself).
2006-10-24 10:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by noambition 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Deep inside everyone dosn't want to hear NO when they anticipate on something regarding someone they take intrest in.
2006-10-24 10:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by missdontgivafukusa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes...especially guys b/c 98% of the time it is the guy that gets rejected....when you hear her say no, or sorry but (or something like that) it feels like someone hit you in the stomach with a baseball bat....
2006-10-24 10:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by someguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those men are lazy and lack confidence.
The true nature in men propels them to ask women out if there is a) attraction
b) reasonable chance of success
Men have been hunters historically and that part remains in our psyche. If a man doesn't ask you out it either means he thinks you are too out of his league or he is not that into you.
2006-10-24 10:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by Existentialist_Guru 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
every1 is afraid that they are gonna b rejected cause they dont wanna feel like idiots if they do get rejected. it feels horrible ive been through it!
2006-10-24 10:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by ~DKB!~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋