Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

My boyfriend is 23 and he only wants to have sex 3 or 4 times a month....he is a healthy male and we have been together for over 4 years. Is there something wrong with our relationship or is it normal not to want to have sex more often than we do? When I talk to him about this...he tells me that it is him...not me....What do you think?

2006-10-24 11:34:29 · 4 answers · asked by illusion_03420 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, but he has turned out to pretty much be a jerk. But, his brother has been super nice to me lately. His brother has been talking to me, sitting by me and every one and awhile he accidently touches my hand or skin in some way. But, I like the guy who is kinda being a jerk, so I guess I have two guess. Should I give up on him and is his brother starting to like me?

2006-10-24 11:34:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think it's wrong for a married woman to have a sexy ONLINE conversation with someone?

2006-10-24 11:34:21 · 41 answers · asked by No Name Joe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what could possibly be wrong with me?

2006-10-24 11:34:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so me and my bf are still and that kinda akward stage .. how do we get out of it .. we talk and hang out with friends a lot but we never do a bunch by ourselves or r e a l l y talk about stuff. now he's starting to kinda be weird .. and he asked if i was avoiding him yesterday .. i wasnt and i told him i wasnt but today he was acting weirder and i wanna talk to him but we're still kinda akward and i dont know what to say .. or even if he was being that weird .. i just want to be able to really talk to him.

2006-10-24 11:33:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok there is this boy that i have like for almost three years, and this summer we had finally started talking. then we went to orlando together with our church, and we fell in love (well at least i did, but im sure he did too) with eachother. i mean like we went to a movie and he heald my hand =] and we were flirting with eachother alot and we were with eachother the WHOLE week. it was super fun. AND the BEST feeling in the whole world, when i was with him, sitting with him on the plane. after orlando, we were still pretty much in love. he had almost asked me out, but then a few weeks ago, he sent me a text saying that we should just be friends (no details on why) but for his reason why, i was super confused, and still am. we havent really talked since then, and i cannot handle seeing him every sunday, friday, and wednesday without talking but a couple days ago i tried to "fix" our friendship, because i miss it terribly. but i ended up making a mess. advice?

2006-10-24 11:33:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in luv with a guy and he is great and funny and sweet and cute. but me and him are 2 much of friends. i mean im really not sure because we joke around and hes like you hav the sexyest ears and im like well u hav the sexyest hair and he blows me kisses but i think its all just like a friendly joke and also hes a year older than me and alot of over girls like him. WHAT DO I DO

2006-10-24 11:33:14 · 4 answers · asked by sassy mamma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he has a cucumber in his pants.....would you go out with him?

2006-10-24 11:32:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a guy i like!He knows I like him!Today my friend was talking to him about that I like him!
He talked to me today,i dont really know what he said,he kinda mubbled,he said like what's up,or something like that!How can I get him to like me?I really want a bf bad,i'v nevr liked any1 as much as I have liked him!Nevr been in a relationship 2!

2006-10-24 11:32:32 · 6 answers · asked by ♥steven♥ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are in the same class and sit right next to each other, I'm in six grade. I really like her and I think she likes me. Today, when I was going home she grabbed my neck and said Hi. Does this mean anything. Theres this prom comming up because of our graduation, should I ask her out for the promm or should i do that now. How do I know she likes me. I am usually really good at this and now I am so lost. She asked me for my number, does this mean something to, she hasnt call me yet. How do I know she likes me. Please help.

2006-10-24 11:32:06 · 12 answers · asked by David 1 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have sex all the time but hardly any forplay an it only last about 5 min including the sex somtimes. I dont feel like he wants me he doesnt touch me like he used to he just jumps on can you please tell me why he is the only man i have ever been with

2006-10-24 11:31:03 · 16 answers · asked by christina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom just called me and said that my aunt just died who lives 3000miles away from her...she was hysterical and was saying how she really needed to go home for a few weeks. i called my brother and he said no and i have a newborn and i really dont have the money...but, even if we had the money ...we dont know if we would help becausemy mom has this new boyfriend back home and its like her to use a tragedy for alternate means... ...i have a feeling that even though she is grieving, she maybe also trying to go see this man... ...the history of my mom is that she has always let men be a reason for her to not be responsible... ...i hate to think that this is what she is doing this time but, its hard not to..she is asking her job for 2wks off with or without pay.. ..she cant afford that and she doesnt need 2 weeks to grieve for her sister in law that she hasnt seen in over five years... ...am i being mean and could she really be this hurt about this death with no thought of this man?

2006-10-24 11:30:29 · 8 answers · asked by Carmen 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

so hes in my health class--hes my ex-- and i like him, he knows, and i dunno if he likes me... i told his freind to tell him tht if he really likes me he should stop being a p*ssy and ask me out. so in health he was like "nice note lizzie" i was like "yea" everythime he passed my desk he pointed to somethin and said thts weird... (we were doin a project) & then i was sittin @ the beggining of the row and he was sittin 2 seats behind me--a person between us-- and he would hide behind her and look @ me and then when i would look at him he would go back behind her again and then look at me and smile playfully. & i was thinkin tht 2marrow maybe i should go up 2 him @ his locker and say "are you gonna keep on being a p*ssy or r u gonna ask me out? then i'd kiss him--u kno really softly and heart-felt-- should i do tht is he likes me according 2 u guys?--2marrow i wont have health anymore--

2006-10-24 11:29:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every quarter (9 weeks) my school has a dance. It is for everyone in my school except for 5th grade. Well, the guy I like is in 7th grade and I'm in 8th grade. And when a slow song came on my friends went up tp him and asked him to dance with me, but every time he said no. Why did he do that? Because during the dance (even before they asked him) he was looking at me, and when we pass in the hall he is looking at me. But, we've never talked. Does he just not like me, or what?

2006-10-24 11:29:31 · 15 answers · asked by froggie_babe_13 1 in Singles & Dating

my step sister sexually molested me for 5 years. I have told cps and everything and it is now a court case. she is "punishing me" now for telling by not letting me see her daughter (my niece) who i really love. she has even turned some of my family and best friends away from me...what do i do? why is she doing this?

2006-10-24 11:29:26 · 6 answers · asked by r f 1 in Family

im asking the girl i like out on saturday at a party... and these are the ways ill do it.. - - walk out with her into the cold-a-sack, (circle of street) - and hold her close by her hips... or a note on a napkin or something.

2006-10-24 11:29:05 · 16 answers · asked by Brendan 3 in Singles & Dating

my husband is a muslim and drinks aswell but does not want me to have a drink

2006-10-24 11:28:53 · 43 answers · asked by angie 3 in Family

2006-10-24 11:27:56 · 64 answers · asked by tazgyrl513 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I thought I was making a new friend. but she made me feel really bad today. She told me I breath heavy and she went on and on about it being rude. She has done it many times in the past too. I find that very rude. And she messed up on something and blamed it on me. She is moving away on Christmas break. I don't know what to do. Should I still be her friend despite the fact that she really hurts my feelings? And yes I told her today that I took what she said really personal. But I still don't think that will help that much. What do you think I should do? What would you do in this case? Do you want to hang out with someone who makes you feel worse than you already do?
My self confidence has become stronger over the last few months but like today and other times I am with her she crushes my confidence.

Please don't be mean. And don't answer unless you are trying to help.

2006-10-24 11:27:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What do you do when you are unhappy in a relationship because it is one sided. I mean I love my BF and would do anything for him, but by the way he acts it is obvious he just doesn't care about me! I am realizing that I was just a roof over his head type thing. I am so sad,Irather devistated! I gave almost everything I had up to be with this man! I don't know what to do or were to begin. I feel severely depresed! How do I get my drive back?

2006-10-24 11:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by 2-bossy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this habit of popping bumps (pimples, blackheads etc.) on my husbands back, and for a long time I thought I was the only one. It wasn't until I started seeing this same behavior written into movies and tv show that I realize its more than a personal thang.... can anyone out there relate?

2006-10-24 11:27:25 · 7 answers · asked by cleotis 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

please tell me if u want 2...... =]

2006-10-24 11:26:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

the question is one of the question from my report. i don't know what the teacher wants us to do. how the hell should i know what society expects from a marriage.

so i'm asking the people of the internet. help please.

2006-10-24 11:25:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as i asked earlier on how should i ask my friend to the dance.well i had my friends to ask what type of girl he likes and everything he said is the complete opposite of me.then my so called friend overheard my conversation and went to go tell him it was me and asked him to the dance for me and he said no that i wasnt his type. i felt really bad but i didnt let him know that he hurt me. should i go with him and friends and take turns dancing with him??? or shouldi ask him again and try to change my personality to fit his description on how he likes his girls???

2006-10-24 11:25:18 · 13 answers · asked by aohottie 2 in Friends

how do you do that so he wont ever cheat on you?

2006-10-24 11:25:07 · 9 answers · asked by marie c 1 in Singles & Dating

says he likes me alot but already has a girlfriend and there not serious and i want him to break up with her 4 me how do i get him to do that?

2006-10-24 11:23:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how are u suppose to know if u want to stay with your boyfriend. this morning i tried to test my boyfriend by breaking up with him to see if hes worth being with and he said we can stay friends. and then later i told him the truth and he freaked out but told me that he wants to stay with me but i cant decided what to do. how am i supose to figure out and i am a sophmore so lifes not easy

2006-10-24 11:23:24 · 8 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked a girl out and she said no. So I moved on. But now everytime I see her, she looks with interested eyes and always tries to start a conversation. Is she now interested? b/c I'm not. People, analyze this situation

2006-10-24 11:23:09 · 18 answers · asked by str8trisor 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my girlfriend for only about 2 months, but we were "seeing" each other for about 6 months before we made things official. We've been friends for over 4 years. During the time when we weren't official, she would ask me from time to time questions regarding marriage and hypothetical questions about engagements, proposals, marriage, etc. And from time to time she asks me questions now about these kinds of things, and I enjoy sharing about my thoughts and asking about hers. Do girls usually ask questions about marriage related issues with any guy, meaning girls just like to flirt with the thought of marriage and will ask any guy friend or do you think she's asking these questions because deep down there is something there, whether she realizes it or not. She has never said anything like "if we got married..."-- everything is left fairly open and general. It'd be nice to know if these questions meant something deep and not that she was just asking "for fun". Any thoughts?

2006-10-24 11:21:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok theres this boy and we sit next to eachother in 2/3 classes. were friends and we talk all the time (i even got detention cuz we were talking so much) but i dont know if he likes me. we have alot of the same interests but im just not sure if he likes me. so wut do u think?????

2006-10-24 11:21:32 · 9 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Other - Family & Relationships