Do you think it's wrong for a married woman to have a sexy ONLINE conversation with someone?
2006-10-24 11:34:21 · 41 answers · asked by No Name Joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-10-24 11:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Marriage is a commitment between two people. If you wanted to see other people or even have sexy online conversations with them, then why did you get married in the first place? You should be having sexy conversations with your husband ONLY.
2006-10-24 11:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by J C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not so easy to say whether it is okay for married people to be involved in sexy conversations with non-spouse-type people. It depends on boundaries.
Some people can't become involved in such a conversation without building it up (at least for themselves) into something more. If a married person is of such a type, then she is risking her vows, and I would say it is at least foolish, if not outright wrong.
And in a marriage there are other people to consider, too. Even if it really is harmless for one spouse, we have to ask also if it is harmless for the other! Some men become jealous, insecure, or hurt by such things. And it is a poor thing indeed to harm your spouse for a bit of entertainment.
On the other hand, some people who engage in sexy talk only become worked up and motivated to participate in passionate behaviours with their spouse. Some, too, like to survey the field to better appreciate how well they have it at home (and hopefully they do!). In circumstances such as these, I would say that it's not only not wrong to have sexy conversations with other people, but it's probably a very good thing to do so. Excepting the aforementioned situations, of course!
2006-10-24 11:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Doctor Why 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online sex is cheating. It is emotional cheating. When you talk about having sex with someone it is cheating. It may seem innocent to you because you have not touched someone physically but you have touched them mentally. It is emotional cheating. Eventually you will want more. All things move forward, if you have a good habit it will get better, it you have a bad one it will get worse. After a while that computer will not be enough for you. You will want to touch. What you put in your mind, you mind will make happen. Don't fool yourself, don't lie to yourself. It is wrong. Pure and simple. Someone is going to get hurt. Stop it while you can. Before anyone gets hurt. Online conversations can be very addicting. Try having some of those conversations with your hubby. Get him into what you like and what you like to talk about. It might put some pep into your marriage. That is what you are really missing. You are missing the fire you had with your hubby in the beginning. This conversation is new and exciting; it is not about bills, kids, and what's for dinner. LOL. Try to start going out on dates with you husband, make things new again. You deserve it, the passion, the excitement, but with your husband. Let him know, hey, I am bored. We need to spice things up. I need you to talk to me like you did in the beginning. You also need to do the same for him. Spice things up and you will get the excitement that you have been missing back. Best wishes!
2006-10-24 11:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by ME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you like your husband having a sexy online conversation with a saucy little minx online? If you don't have a problem with that, then there's no problem as at least you're not a hypocrite. I personally would prefer to have sexy conversations of any sort with my wife.
2006-10-24 11:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by John P 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Would you like it if your husband had a sexy on-line conversation with someone??
2006-10-24 11:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by jt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about wrong. But do you realize that sometimes those things lead to contact? To affairs? To cybersex? Where do you draw the line? What is missing from your marriage? Sometimes one person cannot fullful all our fantasies and needs. Then we look outside the relationship. Have a talk with yourself. Say "Self". . . . . and get real with what you need. If you think your husband can take care of those needs, then talk to him. If not, well, you are probably aware that all actions have consequences.
2006-10-24 11:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter what I think -- what does your husband think? That's the only opinion that matters. If he doesn't like it, and you do it anyway, then that shows you don't care about his feelings. Same thing goes for a husband who has sexy chats on-line with another woman, if his wife doesn't like it, he should stop.
If your husband is fine with it, then by all means go ahead. If he's not, why do you want to deliberately hurt him?
2006-10-24 11:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well you sound like myself i think? I also married and if you know of any sites i can visit to meet a nice man for conversation and some sexy chat please email me and let me know! If you are like me i suspect you are not happy in your marriage and crave some lovin and well if its on line your safe enough its not as if your down the pup messing with other men, is it. dont forget to email me. good luck
2006-10-24 12:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by brownie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You should only have relationships online that you could talk to your husband about ... this does not sound like the case here.
2006-10-24 11:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by J.Z. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong if it's with her husband. With anyone else it could lead to trouble. I don't object on moral grounds; I simply think that it is likely to cause problems between husband and wife.
2006-10-24 11:36:18 · answer #11 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋