how do you do that so he wont ever cheat on you?
2006-10-24 11:25:07 · 9 answers · asked by marie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be the biggest freak you can. You need to sit down with some good porn and take notes. As I guy I can tell you that we like y'all to mix it up. I am not saying it needs to be super freaky every time but surprise us every once and a while.
2006-10-24 11:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by slaphappypimp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After some time together, there is more to it that just the physical sex; if you really love each other, then the sex has many deeper aspects for both of you. This is not to say that one of you can't get board though. So, if you feel this happening, try things: try doing it different locations -- add the element of surprise, do things you haven't done before, maybe dress up a little; whatever inspires you, and him -- explore your fantasies... Also, engage with each other by talking about sex and feelings that you have. I think men will always appreciate the physical attractiveness of other women who are really hot, but keeping your man just for you is something that must come from the relationship that the two of you have together, not just from your efforts alone. If a man cheats on you... out he goes! This is the best way (in my opinion) to avoid a long drawn out breakup of patch-up followed by patch-up, followed by eventual break. (All this coming from a very heterosexual man!)
2006-10-24 18:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lancelot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure both of your fantasies are fulfilled. Dont be afraid to try new things. It doesnt matter what you do for him sexually if he's gonna cheat he's gonna cheat and there is nothing you can do but break up with him because you dont deserve that.
2006-10-24 18:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Candace T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mix things up a little, one night be the innocent little girl, the next tie him (loosely, like with scarves) to the bed. try it romantic with candles in the bubble bath.
rent a porn together (they make me giggle, but if i can keep a straight face, knowing he likes it, i'll get a little turned on) then...distract... him from it.
buy a sexual position book and read it together, don't forget to laugh about silly positions, or when you can't get into them! sex is a bonding experience, not just about orgasms. he wants you to be hot, but also real and fun.
try little role play games. one time i pranced into my boy's bedroom naked and announced "oh, mr police officer, someone stole my clothes!" and then got him to show me how to work his "gun"...
and finally, talk about stuff. when you say "i liked it when you..." then he will be able to say stuff too, and then you will KNOW what he likes!
2006-10-24 18:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by jumpoutjane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experiment, always try to have something new and fresh on the agenda, maybe even a little role playing, keep him wondering what you're going to do next...it will keep him on his toes and interested. ---Duane
2006-10-24 18:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by duane b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change it up. keep it interesting. Show him new tricks & treats you've learned. Theres no garentte that he won't leave you, but if you keep him satisfied & interested, things should be cool
2006-10-24 18:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he likes! If you can be everything he ever dreamed about, why would he look elsewhere?
2006-10-24 18:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by Zooya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like doing things that are spontainious. that way he never knows just what is coming!!!
2006-10-24 18:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure he is plenty satisified all the time... just be very sexual to him.. all the time... take all his time up having sex with him...
2006-10-24 18:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋