ok there is this boy that i have like for almost three years, and this summer we had finally started talking. then we went to orlando together with our church, and we fell in love (well at least i did, but im sure he did too) with eachother. i mean like we went to a movie and he heald my hand =] and we were flirting with eachother alot and we were with eachother the WHOLE week. it was super fun. AND the BEST feeling in the whole world, when i was with him, sitting with him on the plane. after orlando, we were still pretty much in love. he had almost asked me out, but then a few weeks ago, he sent me a text saying that we should just be friends (no details on why) but for his reason why, i was super confused, and still am. we havent really talked since then, and i cannot handle seeing him every sunday, friday, and wednesday without talking but a couple days ago i tried to "fix" our friendship, because i miss it terribly. but i ended up making a mess. advice?
2006-10-24 11:33:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we had a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship for almost 2 months. he went from "i love you" to "lets just be friends" within less than a week
2006-10-24 13:44:24 · update #1
You guys sound like you're still pretty young. Let me tell you something from a Christian perspective, since I am one and you said you went to church. God has a person in mind for you. That person will be a man who loves God first and loves you next. Whe God thinks you are ready for such a relationship, he will bring the right person. Boys mature very slowly, and much later than girls. They often are not emotionally ready for a relationship at the same time that we girls are. If this is the man God has planned for you to marry, there will be NOTHING to stop you two from falling in love and getting married when the time comes. I say, wait and pray about it to God. He will calm your heart with an answer. Try that. Close your eyes and pray "God, I put all my hopes and dreams in you, and want to ask you if this is the boy/man that I will marry in the future. If he is, please help us grow in Christ and learn about love through you, and eventually learn to love each other as your timing wills it." I guarantee that something good will happen. You have to remember that even if this is not the man you will marry, there probably will be one that God has meant for you. And if there is such a person, don't you want to know who it is? :-) Good luck and trust God with your life, girl!
2006-10-24 11:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by reba 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
again another question i can relate to... about you... YOU know that YOU fell in love with him, coz well, you're yourself. but the other guy, maybe he was just intending to be friends the whole time. just because you guys have fun together, spend a lot of time together, flirt and all don necessarily mean that he's in love with you. i liked this guy who SEEMED to like me and we had the same kind of experiences (and its refreshing to know im not alone in this experience) and stuff but apparently he never liked me and only looked at me as a friend and he later ended up dating someone else. hope this helped. i tried...
2006-10-24 11:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by BeautyBunny<3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confront him and ask why he changed his mind its your right as the other individual in the relationship to know his reasoning for not wanting to go out with you. tell him your confused as the why he did it and that you were wondering if its something you did. unless hes a real un savoury character or very insecure hell answer you
2006-10-24 11:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by thetruth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question doesn't have enough premises to draw a satisfiable conclusion from.
2006-10-24 11:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by HK3 Soul Smash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why he decided he wanted to be 'friends' after all that you did together, and say you want to remain close, but he doesnt seem to want that...
good luck
x
2006-10-24 11:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Queenie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wasnt "in love" with you if the "realtionship" lasted for week,
and neither were you, its called puppy love for a reason.
2006-10-24 11:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him why he sent you that message!
2006-10-24 11:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by cute lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh
2006-10-24 11:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by HELP! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he get in your pants?....if so maybe he thought you were too easy...if not maybe he thought that you were too hard...... lol
2006-10-24 11:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋