What do you do when you are unhappy in a relationship because it is one sided. I mean I love my BF and would do anything for him, but by the way he acts it is obvious he just doesn't care about me! I am realizing that I was just a roof over his head type thing. I am so sad,Irather devistated! I gave almost everything I had up to be with this man! I don't know what to do or were to begin. I feel severely depresed! How do I get my drive back?
2006-10-24 11:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by 2-bossy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
mhm i gon thru the same thing. almost the exact same thing. i realized that my man jus didnt seem to care anymore and later on i found out he was dating some other girl... but then again, thats just me. it's just one relationship out of the many in the world we're considering right now. try talking to him... if you love him and he cares for you, he would at least listen to you. you can't have a good relationship if you can't even have a simple discussion. just ask what's going on and if he's not interested in you anymore, so be it. it's not a good thing to be in a relationship where only you're madly in love with someone who could care less. hope this helped somehow. i tried.
2006-10-24 11:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by BeautyBunny<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that and so sorry, it is a horrible feeling to feel used and be misled in a relationship. Right now the most important thing is you. Of course you will need time to heal and put closure to dumping him but you deserve better. A one-sided relationship does not work, one person giving and the other taking doesn't work. Be glad you found out now instead of investing many more years with him. I know it is easier to say then do but you have to pick yourself up, and start again with more knowledge from your experience and of course keep your guard up. Self confidence is important. Get up in the morning, make yourself up, dress nice, look in the mirror and say something nice to yourself and get out there. Someone better is out there for you. I have had many relationships getting hysterical over and it's not worth it........use your energy in a positive way for yourself. Good Luck
2006-10-24 11:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by bonbon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl go out & find another fish in this huge sea we live in. I know much easier said than done. I put up with a relationship that damaging for 8 years...& I am sooooo glad it is over. I thought I would never heal from the wounds, & I am still dealing with trust issues with my current man. But it was worth the pain that it caused to be a strong woman & leave. He is only bringing you down. Look what he has done already.
Maybe start taking guys up when they ask for your number or if they can take you out. Take their offer & spread your wings, get back to who you really are. It does not mean you are jumping into a relationship, you are just getting started again. Have patience & find a way to find you again...look at it like this. One day you will look back on this & see what all you trully learned from this piece of sh*t. But mainly that day you will have no more tears that way, you will be well down your road if not with someone that trully loves you. & dont feel bad this was not your fault. You had dreams of love & companionship that you thought you could apply with this guy...hold on to your dreams one day the man that will share these with you will walk straight into your life.
good luck girl, time heals ALL
2006-10-24 11:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by PURE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your heartbreak. Get all dressed up sexy like and go out with your friends to clubs dancing and drinking LOTS of drinking. Been there...Done that...Had a great time doing it...Met someone else in the process....Now we are married...
2006-10-24 11:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words: dump him. If you are severely depressed then it means something is very wrong. Get rid of him and you'll start feeling like your old self again in no time.
2006-10-24 11:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not physically tied up, leave him, break-up. No one should be forced to stay in an unhappy relationship. Your soulmate is out there looking for you.
2006-10-24 11:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well next time dont jump into something so fast, sounds like that is what happened here...Find a man who wants what you are, not what you got for him...
2006-10-24 11:30:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. What else can you do?
2006-10-24 11:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋