my boyfriend and i have sex all the time but hardly any forplay an it only last about 5 min including the sex somtimes. I dont feel like he wants me he doesnt touch me like he used to he just jumps on can you please tell me why he is the only man i have ever been with
2006-10-24 11:31:03 · 16 answers · asked by christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try taking control. Give him a great something something. Make sure that whatever you do lasts at least 30 minutes. He might get the idea to return the favor.
2006-10-24 11:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not very old, then that could be it. All men are not like that. Trust me. He is being selfish and he cant control his orgasms. Younger men have more trouble with that than the older ones. The older ones understand the need for foreplay and how impt. it is to the women. Unless you have a selfish older guy who doesn't care about you or your feelings. Alot of guys say that unless they please their woman, its not worth it.
Those are far and few between and they are proud of the fact that they can satisfy a woman first....and it lasts longer too.
It may not be he doesn't want you, it may be premature ejaculation problems...there is prolonging cream for that....for him. And viagra might help him stay up longer for your sake.
Its all up to him and if he is willing to help you out or not. Talk to him.
2006-10-24 11:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by greeneyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump him and find a man who will talk to you and hold your hand. I have lost a lot of men that I "loved" because they only wanted sex. Take my advice on this. Your not a sex toy!!!!
2006-10-24 11:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by Token_Cocoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he wants you to be his sperm depository. Congrats you are some guy's bang toy!!
I mean there is such thing as a quickie now and then, but twenty minutes minimum of playing around before hand should be expected more often then not, not to mention him "going down" and getting down to bussiness frequently if you so desire...
2006-10-24 11:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be better off asking him this question than a bunch of strangers on Yahoo. I would guess he is taking you for granted, a habit most young men fall into all to easily.
2006-10-24 11:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get it up, get it in, get it out, don't mess my hairdo. Ever heard of that? Talk to him about it jeeze. Let him know that in order for sex to be more enjoyable for you, you NEED the foreplay. It's not that he doesn't want you, he just rushes to the main event because he's so excited.
2006-10-24 11:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a Di ck and you should get a real man. One that will satisfy you also not just himself.
2006-10-24 11:34:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay you are in the postion that i'm in....the sex time only last 5 mintues.......if i'm lucky.....do this.......tell him that you want to please him......but the pay is he has to please you back....it will be a night of pleasing.....tie him up and touch his body all over except his...you know....and just tease the he*l out of him....then maybe go down on him.....then right before he gets off....make it be your turn and you get tied up....then see if he will go down on you and then maybe ahve sex after all that.....it's nice.............
2006-10-24 11:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by *~*Ash*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm sweety.. Its because you let him. He is just after the physical act. its all for him. nothing for you.
I'd tell him to either put some time and effort into it or cut him off completly.
trust me.... theere are guys out there who know how to take their time and will blow your mind!!! don't settle for anything less.
2006-10-24 11:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your Sick and Discusting!
2006-10-24 11:34:55 · answer #10 · answered by cute lover 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋