What should I do?

Question

I thought I was making a new friend. but she made me feel really bad today. She told me I breath heavy and she went on and on about it being rude. She has done it many times in the past too. I find that very rude. And she messed up on something and blamed it on me. She is moving away on Christmas break. I don't know what to do. Should I still be her friend despite the fact that she really hurts my feelings? And yes I told her today that I took what she said really personal. But I still don't think that will help that much. What do you think I should do? What would you do in this case? Do you want to hang out with someone who makes you feel worse than you already do?
My self confidence has become stronger over the last few months but like today and other times I am with her she crushes my confidence.

Please don't be mean. And don't answer unless you are trying to help.

sorry I mean breathe
she says I breathe heavely

Answer 1

tell her tht it's getting annoying and u r hurting my feelings,i believe u wouldnt want some1 to do tht 2 u 2 then, just leave her alone and dont even talk to her until she is willing to say sorry. its not worth it having a frend like her and shes not a true frend. thts wat i would do and my frends would do tht too but my frends would be a lot meaner they would actually curse in her face

Answer 2

You poor thing! I can already tell by your screenname that you really don't feel good about yourself already. :( It's really not that nice when a friend calls you bad names and makes fun of you etc;. It's happened to me before. My "friend" told me that my other friend told my crush I loved him and what she said was a lie. I was hurt to find out that I had been decieved by someone I thought I could trust. We ended up not talking again. I hope that's not your ending. What I would do, is sit her down somewhere. Say, Dunkin' Donuts, or Starbucks. When you've got your coffee and stuff, let her know how she makes you feel when she says those things. Tell her that you really don't think best friends should treat each other that way unless the other knows that they really are fooling around. She might understand. And if she doesn't then she probably wasn't really supposed to be your bff.

Answer 3

This sorta happened to me. I hav a friend named Kaylyn and she was agnoring me. So, i did the same to her except i really did not pay attension to it. So maybe u should try and do the same if she notices than maybe u should talk to her a little more,but sound serious. If she does not seem to notice than maybe it is time to find a new friend. But try to be nice about it b/c i dont know how well u no her, but it could be b/c she is not secure with herself. So keep tryin and try and get her to talk so u can learn more about her, but if it doesnt work out shes leavin in a few months anyway. well hope u can work it out Good Luck!!!

Answer 4

She obviously is not a very good friend. + she's moving...
So why not put your interest into someone who's more polite, and friendly. Friends are supposed to comfort and be enjoyable for each other. Friends can also be there to help each other. But not in a rude and hurtful way. Hang out with someone who's fun to be around. Not someone who will drag you down.

Answer 5

I had the exact same thing happen to me last year! At the last day that she was hear, everybody was all over her, she didnt pay any attention to me. Before that happened i diceted to pretend to like her and that happend. If i could turn back time, i would tell her how i feel and that i have been nice to her all along and she has been hurting me. I did tell her on the phone and she started crying and i forgave her but then she kept on hurting me again and again. I say you tell her how you feel. She doesnt deserve you!

Answer 6

Usually when someone says something to bring you down it is because they are pretty insecure themselves, so they try to bring you down with them to make themselves feel better.

No, I would not hang out with someone who makes me feel worse about myself. You should always surround yourself with people who love you and support you, and that includes making you feel good about who you are.

Your friend was very rude. Perhaps, she thought she was doing you a favor by telling you something that she thought you could "fix," but a true friend tells you things with kindness, even those things that are hard to hear. It does not sound like she was kind.

Let her go, and work on cultivating friendships with people who treat you well. Best wishes to you.

Answer 7

Dont worry about his stupid girl. She probobly just gets her self asteem from putting down others. You dont need friends like that. Just get rid of her, dont talk to her anymore. I mean why would you want to anyway? She's mean and inconsiderate and you sound like a nice girl, so your too good for her.

Answer 8

your first step in building confidence for yourself.is to be able to speak out as a person to your friend of how she had hurt you from being rude to you.if she is a good friend ,she will listen and analysed her faults.if she doesn,t care ,then you do not need to value this friendship.as for any relationship,there need to be respect and a good bond..good luck..

Answer 9

that happen to me all the time but i don't see them that much because i inure them when she ask u why u inure her tell her i don't now if this is mean but that help me they don't bug me no more now they are may friends

Answer 10

SAY WHY DO YOU ACT LIKE TOWARDS ME SAY I'M YOUR FRIEND AND YOU DON'T TREAT FRIENDS LIKE THAT AND IF YOU WERE A TRUE FRIEND YOU WOULD TAKE MY FEELINGS INTO CONSIDERATION.