Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

but i am confusssssssssed, and missuesed but iam alrite.

2006-10-22 14:17:09 · 2 answers · asked by philanthropic 1 in Singles & Dating

When I was about 3 years old my cousin tricked me to have oral sex by telling me to close my eyes and drink my bootle. When I open my eyes he actually peed in my mouth, I was so confused and grossed out and I did not know what was going on. When my parents came I told them what happen but I didnt think they believed me becuase to this day my family never talked about the situation and I dont even know if they know what happened to me and Im scared to tell them. So here s my question, was I sexual molested even though it was oral sex? By the way he was 12 years old at the time if that matters :-/.

2006-10-22 14:16:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A coupla things. Why do people change when you get married, and Please DONT just say you didnt know them well enough... I know a lot of people that dated for a long time; like 5+ years; and the guy was sweet and the woman didnt have money or anything but the guy treated her like a princess and they got married and he either stopped caring or didnt want to hear it anymore, its crap!

The other thing... I'm trying to go to bed right now I'm tired as crap, my husband is staying up late, WHY cant I go to sleep without him. When we first got married... I couldnt sleep WITH him in the bed... now I cant go to sleep by myself... Sheesh! Why is that and what can I do about it? I'm getting ready to hit the nyquil, but I dont have a cold or anything... Grrrrrr!

2006-10-22 14:16:47 · 19 answers · asked by cartmansmom 4 in Marriage & Divorce

But he has money to spend on stuff for himself...

2006-10-22 14:16:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i called my ex a few days ago and we talked for about 30min and it was good this is like the frist time in a longtime...then the nextday i didnt feel to well and on my AIM i had an away thing that said sick and she left me a message sayin hope u get better soon. i know its something lil but it mad me happy i really care about her and i want her back and i have done just about everything i can think of. this bast week i have felt like she cares a lil but today i got on facebook and she had put up some pix with her and some other guy and now i feel like **** what should i do?

2006-10-22 14:14:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am the other woman and I am tired of this whole thing. Do I tell his girlfriend?

2006-10-22 14:14:04 · 11 answers · asked by justkeepsmiling7654 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have no idea how. I have looked at dating sites but they all are expensive. Any tall dark and handsome single guys out there that need a friend? Or can someone tell me how to meet someone on line?

2006-10-22 14:12:43 · 12 answers · asked by pure_24kt 2 in Singles & Dating

TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD DO!!!!!!!!

2006-10-22 14:12:17 · 15 answers · asked by summerhottie532 1 in Friends

ok i perosnally think gay marriage is soo wrong for so many reasons.The hting is it goes against religion and any religon for that matter.It says that is wrong and that men and women should be together not men and men or women and women.God wouldn't have made it where girls get pg from guys if he didn't mean they were suppose to be with eachother.A guy has his penis so he can make more people for the world WITH A WOMEN. i mean has any1 ever heard of a guy gettin pg...NO so i think gays should be together or live together.Its not a way u are born either because i have a friend who WAS gay but he cahnged because he read the bible.If it was a way u were born u couldn't change.I mean some ppl are stupid to believe that u are born that way no offense but it was just an excuse and the best 1 that gay ppl could come up with.I think if u want to be gay go ahead and burn in helland gays just came up with this to get attention from the new

so who else thinks that gays shouldn't marry?????????

2006-10-22 14:11:54 · 20 answers · asked by needs advice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I left an abusive/cheating relationship. It didn't get bad until the last year (we dated for 5 years). Lately I've been wondering if it was me, if it was my fault that I let him do that and why did I put up with it so long? Is there something sick in my head? I know I need time alone to figure things out. Why did I find someone like that? Why did it turn out so wrong?

2006-10-22 14:11:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the best way to get the fire started?

2006-10-22 14:11:22 · 8 answers · asked by Notta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She is a strong Christian and really close to her mother. I can't get her along long enough to talk to her. She's not being mean, she's just shy. I want to start out as friends and then see where it goes, but I just can't talk to her around a bunch of people. What are some ways to get her comfortable around me and get that conversation started?

The biggest problem is that I only see her at church once a week and if I blow that chance, I have to wait a whole week to see her again.

2006-10-22 14:11:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been dating someone for almost 2 mths and in this short period and find him to be jealous and controlling. i mean i get phone calls from other guys that he knows i've been intimate with in the past and he gets so angry with me like it's my fault they call. my question is .. does he have the right to get angry or is he just being childish .. he's 38 and separated.. i think he has some major trust issues .. how do i talk to him about it without getting into a heated debate about phone calls from other men...

2006-10-22 14:11:10 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I met this guy at a bar. Got wasted and went back to his place. You know how it is. We spent the next day together, hungover. It was really great. Watched a movie, had some beers that night, and slept over agian.

I really think we have chemistry together. The only thing is that he is 5 or 6 years older than me. I want to text him, but I don't know what to say. Its been about a week since we hooked up so I don't want to seem clingy. I dont want to say anything to cheese either, like "how was your weekend?"

Any suggestion on what I should text?

2006-10-22 14:10:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

THE GIRLS NAME IS MIRANDA. YES SHE'S WHITE, SHE GOES TO MY SCHOOL. HE REALLY LIKES ME AND WAS GREIVING FOR 2 WEEKS AFTER WE BROKE-UP. HE IS UGLY BUT HE'S GOT SOMEWHAT OF A GOOD PRSONALITY.

2006-10-22 14:10:05 · 14 answers · asked by BABY QUARTNEY Q. 1 in Singles & Dating

this is for all my yahoo ladies..im sure it's not just me.. yes i know it's jealousy..what girl wouldn't get jealous?

2006-10-22 14:09:56 · 9 answers · asked by Beautiful T 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 14:09:47 · 3 answers · asked by philanthropic 1 in Singles & Dating

my best guy friend, jessie, likes me and wants to go out with me but i like someone else. well, i love someone else. i've grown up with jessie and i really like him as a friend and i would never do anything to hurt him, how could i tell him i want to stay close friends? thanks a ton.

2006-10-22 14:09:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are the stages to cheating?
Do u ever think about your spouse before having sex with the other person?
Do u think about the other person when having sex with your spouse?
Do u feel guilty?
Do talk to that person about your spouse?
After getting caught y do u claim to have alway loved your spouse?

2006-10-22 14:08:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yes im asking the same question agin basically. i need more points of view.

Do you guys like it more when a girl plays hard to get? or when she flat out tells you she likes you and make sures you know it?

the answers i already got All said they liked it when girls told them flat out.

I did that, but he continues to chase a girl whos playing hard to get.

SUGGESTIONS?!

2006-10-22 14:07:49 · 15 answers · asked by lindsey m 2 in Singles & Dating

what age-range female do you think a 44 year old man should stay within for dating ? & long term potential ?
Also, What is your age, & what age range would you consider dating ?

2006-10-22 14:06:56 · 30 answers · asked by Justin 3 in Singles & Dating

Technically I am not a Virgin Virgin, did it twice and that is it.
My question is Do girls care if I a guy is virgin or not? (sorry I meant if a guy is experienced or not )

2006-10-22 14:06:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad 4got my b-day and and x-mas of last year he yelled at me cuz i told him i did not want to stay the night. He basicly called me a brat and almost made me cry. I have NEVER cried in frount of my dad. He also told me on that same day that he had gotten married 3 MONTHS PRIER! i am sad and depressed. if i tell me mom she will take me to tharipy. But i dont want to be grouchy. PLEASE HELP ME B4 I GO INSAIN!!!!

2006-10-22 14:04:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife of three years and i are getting a divorce. In the idiotic state of NC, we must wait a year. We have 90 days left and counting, and she tries to lure me back in. She tried to entice me with one last ****. I saw through that and refused. She said she wanted to start over as bf and gf after the divorce. I said no. She even tries to have phone sex with me. Still no. Now she likes to talk on the phone to me about some of the good things that were in our marriage. There weren't that many good things. In fact what started this whole thing was her screwing around and getting me in trouble with my commanders(military). She also has a restraining order on me. She also accused me of marital rape. Yet I get constant phone calls from the private number, which is her. I don't want to stay married to her and thanks to the restraining order, i've been a free man for 9 months. I've gotten more booty in the past 9 months than i've gotten in years. How do i get this monkey off of my back?

2006-10-22 14:04:16 · 9 answers · asked by Thomas K 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-22 14:04:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what i like about them is mostly they are carefree, and relax you. easy to entertain
so yeah i LOVE playing with them. at school its so nice and warming to see a world (theirs') where cliques, nasty rumors, and false gossip dont exist.

no rude answers, please! thank you.

2006-10-22 14:03:49 · 12 answers · asked by I'mhavingagoodtime 4 in Friends

If you really like a girl, does it matter if she's a mother or not?

2006-10-22 14:03:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 14:03:43 · 5 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 14:02:37 · 25 answers · asked by Iket 2 in Family

(any mean,or insulitng replys will be reported)

2006-10-22 14:02:28 · 14 answers · asked by Tweetybird 1 in Singles & Dating