I am the other woman and I am tired of this whole thing. Do I tell his girlfriend?
2006-10-22 14:14:04 · 11 answers · asked by justkeepsmiling7654 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes. The truth really shall set you free.
2006-10-22 14:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mommy-of-Twins 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are both the other women...he hasnt married either one of you so you both have no standing. Why do you care if she knows about you, you cant fix her can you, you cant make him be with just her can you?...you say you are tired, take care of yourself, worry about you and your healing process. You have a long haul ahead of you, with all the low self esteem and feelings of not being worthy to love, you will have to find your inner strength to bring your self out from under that slmmy rock you have been under for so long. with your slimmy boyfriend. There is no glory in being an enabler!!
Its not your place to tell her anything...you are not the one cheating on her he is, and its only his place to be honest with her. You would just be adding fuel to fire if you do it....what woman on earth wants to be told about the other woman "by" the other woman?? GET REAL...leave that woman alone! Work on making a better person of yourself!!
2006-10-22 21:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by stephanie_6234 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go so far as to say you have a moral obligation to tell.. I would if I were you though.. It's kinda' $hitty of you to willingly participate in an affair. Not sure how long you've know you were the 'action on the side', but it's pretty crap like of you to go along with it. To atleast start to even things up with karma, or just that voice in the back of your head, I'd suggest you tell her what's been going on as calmly as you can. Expect her to be upset with you so get ready to bite your tongue as it'll be only nautral for her to respond that way. Hopefully she's decent enough about it that you can get in and out of there after telling her what's been happening.
2006-10-22 21:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok, everyone sing along...
Your cheatin' heart will make you weep
You'll cry and cry and try to sleep
But slee-eep won't come the whole night through
Your cheatin' heart will tell on you
When tears come down like fallin' rain
You'll toss around and call my name
You'll wa-alk the floor the way I do
Your cheatin' heart will tell on you
Your chea-eatin' heart will pine some day
And crave the love you threw away
The ti-ime will come when you'll be blue
Your cheatin' heart will tell on you
When tears come down like fallin' rain
You'll toss around and call my name
You'll wa-alk the floor the way I do
Your cheatin' heart will tell on you
P.S. You really want to waste your love on a guy who would cheat on his own girlfriend (in a way he's already cheating on you with her).
2006-10-22 21:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please drop this man. Everyone thinks that he'll leave the wife/girlfriend for me. The reality is, if he does how do you know he won't cheat on you (yeah, I know, he just loves you too much. girlfriend thought so too), and more often they do NOT leave their girlfriend/wife and you are left in the cold. Both women in this scenario deserve better.
2006-10-22 21:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be the one to inflict all that pain on the girlfriend. If you are tired of it, give your boyfriend a chance to tell her, if he doesn't, it's time to move on.
2006-10-22 21:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no, tell him! would u like to find out ur b/f is cheating on u? on the other hand, if both if u were mad at him if cheating, which dosn't seem to b the case, u can confront him together.... its fun to get him at his game.
2006-10-22 21:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by sugars_n_spice143 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey....show yourself some respect and drop this guy. If he's cheating with you he will cheat on you. If he won't tell his other lady then you tell her of his infidelity.
2006-10-22 21:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by kizkat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't. She might get pissed, and there's no telling what she might do.
2006-10-22 21:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her. you would save her and yourself from a loser
2006-10-22 21:19:49 · answer #10 · answered by Happy Frappy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋