Okay, so here is what happened, we are in our mid twenties and we have been together for about 2 months. My boyfriend, his best friend (A MALE) and I were all hanging out at my b/f house having a good time when my b/f was just like ‘lets have a threesome’! I mean he had me dance with his friend while he recorded us on his phone, he kept encouraging me to kiss his friend (which I finally did, on the cheek but his friend later kissed me by surprise on the lips with a little tongue – yuck!!!) We didn’t have the threesome, I said maybe later, and when his friend finally left I told him that I didn’t want to have a threesome and that I was kind of upset he’d ask (although I would have been more offended if he’d asked to include another girl instead of the guy). I mean he said that he’d never done anything like that before, and that he’d never wanted to but for some reason he just thought of it, but then he was like, well you went with it – because his friend and I had kissed. I mean I have met a good portion of his family, and most of his friends but I am still kind of unsure whether he really respects me or if he just wants to pass me around. I mean it was only with that one friend that he said we could do that. I don’t know, what do you people think about all this.
Oh and later on in the week I asked him if he really cared about me and he said “ya, even though you kissed my best friend” and he said that it was a test. But I don’t know about that because why would he have waited until I asked him if he cared to tell me that. And also, if it really was some sort of test wouldn’t I have failed it?
2006-10-22
13:51:13
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