she said that my brother did really something but it is not true!
2006-10-22 14:01:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Even though this sounds all lame and parenting, the answer is no. If she is around just to make other lives miserable, then who says she won't make yours miserable too? I am sure that you can find much better friends who are trying to decide the same thing. She probably just wants to add more to her number, so she can make more lives awful.
2006-10-22 14:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by peace ♥ music 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sort of depends. Does this person mean a lot to you? Do you trust her? If you care a lot about her and trust her, then you should tell her that you don't appreciate the fact that she spreads rumors. She might not know this bothers you, and she might think she's just joking around and not bothering you.
However, I think you are unsure of where you stand with this person, because you are wondering if you should stay friends or not. If this seriously disturbs you, dump this girl. She isn't any use to you if she is hurting you in any way. Just stop hanging out with her and concentrate on other better people. Good luck.
2006-10-22 21:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Misscheerios2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
If the person is passing bad rumor's about your Brother that you know aren't true. They just want to cause trouble & they will probably start spreading things around about you! I would stay away from someone like that.
2006-10-22 21:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by Sadies papa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because if she passed a bad rumor about your brother then just think if yall became friends and she got into your personal life she just might pass a bad rumor about u
2006-10-22 21:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by kris_robinson_7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand the situation. I have boundaries, everyone does. One of my biggest no no's is gossip. I do not gossip nor do I approve of it in anyway shape or form. The only thing to do is let the rumors fly. If your innocent it will be known eventually. Whom ever believes the rumors wern't friends to begin with and hopefully never will. dont let people push you around with rumors then be their friend. that is so wrong.
2006-10-22 21:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by springreed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the rumor is bothering you resolve the problem with this person first before deciding to become friends with this person because if you become friends first and this cloud is still hanging over you two then the friendship will be fake.
2006-10-22 21:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by kittywiz28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think??? If this girl is spearding rumors about your own brother you shouldn't be hanging out with her because the next thing you know there's gonna be a rumor spearding about your secrets...I wouldn't trust this girl with any of your secrets and I wouldn't hang out with her if I were you..
2006-10-22 21:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Friends should be someone you can trust not some one who may not be so trustworthy. Put simply if you don't trust them with your personnel info, or your afraid they may hold it over your head.
Get out of that friendship now.
2006-10-22 21:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by matt v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that person is not a friend...or a very nice person. blood is thicker than water. she'd be lucky if i didn't beat the h e l l outta her.Thats no friend and no friend anyone needs.
2006-10-22 21:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would make her set the rumor right befor u even think about talking to her.
2006-10-22 21:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by animal lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋