So.....I'm in 7th grade and I like this 9th grader.....Is it possible for a ninth grader to like a seventh grader??? Just wondering?? He's cute and he's nice most of the time....and I've known him since I was in third grade and he was in fifth grade. After 3rd grade I went to a different school and I didn't talk to him at all until this summer when I was babysitting for my mom's friend....who is also conviniently the kid that I like's neighbor! So I started talking to him while the kids were playing outside. This was in early August. The first few weeks of school he talked to me and was really nice and funny....then he kind of stopped....after one time when he waved to me from across the hall and I just put my head down. I really like him....is it possible for him to like me???
2006-10-22 13:55:18 · 16 answers · asked by bball_rox_lots 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, get over yourself. First of all, you clearly do like him so why bother asking if it's possible? Just accept it. There is no stigma to liking a younger guy. In fact, it opens up the dating pool quite a bit more for you if you don't limit who you like to an age. Secondly, you need to never again duck your head when he waves. He probably thought you did like him but, boy, you sure sent him the message that you didn't in a very hurtful way, no less. This makes you appear both insecure and shallow. Don't be that girl. Be the one who maintains the courage of her convictions. Be brave and stand by your own thoughts and feelings, not crappy anti-social high school rules.
2006-10-22 13:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very possible for a freshman to like a seventh grader. Last year my brother was a freshman and started going out with a seventh grader. Their 1 year anniversary will be in December! Next time he waves, wave back!
2006-10-22 20:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by hillari_08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so possible. Hun, just keep doing what you are doing because I am in 9th grade and there are some cute 7th graders. Good Luck Sweetie!
2006-10-22 20:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isn't a problem, he's only 2 grades above you. If he's driving your parents may have concerns. He may like you but remember to not push yourself on him, let him notice you and make the first move.
2006-10-22 21:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by ddy'sgrl77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anythings possible.2 years difference is no biggie at least not in the adult world.my friend lives with a guy almost 10 years younger than her.
2006-10-22 21:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he would like a ninth grader
2006-10-22 20:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible. but it might be a little easier for you two to try dating when you are both in the same school ie. high school.
2006-10-22 20:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's possible
2006-10-22 21:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok its like grave robbing if he does like u and date u. im sorry.. its just scary, least where i live thats middle and high skool dating.
2006-10-22 21:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by shortsagitarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible....but you dont know how he views you.... i wouldnt take the chance of being hurt from a crush...
2006-10-22 20:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by Shoopedoop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋