etc. It pisses me off so much! I am trying to pass the cpa exam, and I've always got other things on my mind etc., countless little tasks etc. and the only Internet connection that works is in the living room of my apartment. I can't stand the fact that my husband is ALWAYS so f'ing relaxed!!!! It makes me more stressed out that he is not stressed at all -- never ever! I am always so mad when I'm trying to do stuff because he's always so goddamn calm - and he's always watching some retarded show on fx, or "4400," or some lame *** movie that's in progress. Why can't he just be like "you know - I'm sorry you're stressed...!" I am traveling tomorrow so I'm stressed and plus I haven't studied at all this weekend for the cpa exam because of I'm so exhausted from some other things I was involved with etc. (benefit auction etc.c) -- It drives me crazy!!!!!
2006-10-22 13:59:36 · 8 answers · asked by Mishy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
But what would your world be like at home if your husband were as stressed as you appear to be. Perhaps it is a good thing that he is so calm! I am a finance person: we tend to be a little on edge - it is more our personalities that attract us to the profession than the other way around.
I think you need to learn how to relax a little otherwise you might burn out. Best of luck to you on your exam.
PS
And I am not trying to be funny - but maybe a good sexual session will make you feel a little better. Good luck again.
2006-10-22 14:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and my wife are the same. I'm nearly never stressed... she's always crossing the T's.
Most males will take a liking to destruction and action, because we're males. We must defend our households and wives, from other males. (animal instincts) And the best defense is a good offense... so we kowtow to any show that gives good examples of this.
As far as not saying he's sorry for your problems? No idea. I find myself constantly appologizing for my wife's problems that if I would have just bucked up to, wouldn't BE her problems.
But they've gotta be SOMEONES. Right? Still, a little understanding can go a long way right?
If you haven't TOLD him you're stressed because of all this shat, tell him. If he doesn't care, you married a very selfish person.
2006-10-22 14:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Kren777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You are overtaxed over worked, etc. You sound like me most of the years I worked, often overtime many hours, and tried to get my bachelors degree.
Is there anything he can do to take some of the load off of you? He should take on most all the cleaning, cooking, etc., while you are trying to get the CPA.. And I was missing sleep and extra stressed so I was extra grouchy some times--- He really needs to understand all this and be there to help you. Good Luck, too!!
2006-10-22 14:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by motohype 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and i would strangle eachother =) if that makes you feel any better
as far as the movies, we have to get into movies the same way you gals do- we like to visualize ourselves as action-types-
man, does that sound lame
btw, good luck on your cpa exam
i can tell from what little i know about you that passing wont be a problem for you
2006-10-22 14:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by bay_area_broker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're taking on too much and should learn to say no people who try to get you involved in too many other things. If you needed to study that should have taken priority, and it's none of his fault that you didn't. But now you're trying to blame him for it. I think you should probably be telling this to a psychiatrist.
2006-10-22 14:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to quit your schooling and become a housewife. Also, you might want to get something to control your hormones. This behavior is very unbecoming of a woman. Your husband is just relaxing and enjoying his weekend.
2006-10-22 14:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by sandstorm222 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to learn a few lessons from your husband and slow down and relax yourself or you will burn yourself out.
2006-10-22 14:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are just different. are you going to have kids? wait till your son is sitting right in front of you AND CANT HEAR YOU talking to him because his ENTIRE attention span is on a motorbike. you have to learn to love it or its going to kill you. if hes so relaxed he must have lots of good energy built up that he could share with you when you do take a break, HMM? they say we choose someone who balances us out. remember, YOU are choosing to be uptight, thats not good for you. its going to get harder and harder to get your own way until you stop demanding it.
2006-10-22 14:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by asiwant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋