My dad 4got my b-day and and x-mas of last year he yelled at me cuz i told him i did not want to stay the night. He basicly called me a brat and almost made me cry. I have NEVER cried in frount of my dad. He also told me on that same day that he had gotten married 3 MONTHS PRIER! i am sad and depressed. if i tell me mom she will take me to tharipy. But i dont want to be grouchy. PLEASE HELP ME B4 I GO INSAIN!!!!
2006-10-22 14:04:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your dad is mean and wrong he's using verbal abuse...He shouldn't be talking to you like that and he also shouldn't be forgetting presents for you on your birthday or Christmas either..Your dad should be the one going to therapy...Your not crazy or anything it's all that sadness and madness that's building inside of you and one day your gonna pop like a soda when you shake and then open it, it explodes so you need to stop going to your dad's house and letting all that anger out on a doll or something...
2006-10-22 14:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry you're hurting. But it's important to understand that not all of us end up with the greatest parents in the world. And when a parent causes you pain and zaps all your energy the best you can do is "let 'em go." Don't waste another teardrop on this man. What's truly important is how you live your life. Find a career path (one you'll love) so you can focus on your education in the years to come. Strengthen your friendships and have fun. Be 'polite' to your dad - but don't expect too much. Despite his childish behavior, you are clearly an intelligent and loving person.
2006-10-22 21:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your dad has a problem but do your best to just stay at home and not think of him because he clearly makes you mad and sad my dad is like that but he not married though and he don't call me name but he lies alot and he never comes around much so i would just take that and learn from it now i can not even worry about him anymore he just another man in my eyes all you have to do is stay home don't talk with him and then eventally he will be just another man
2006-10-22 21:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with going to therapy. It may actually be a good thing to go and talk to someone.
2006-10-22 21:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a good trip!
2006-10-22 21:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋