ok i called my ex a few days ago and we talked for about 30min and it was good this is like the frist time in a longtime...then the nextday i didnt feel to well and on my AIM i had an away thing that said sick and she left me a message sayin hope u get better soon. i know its something lil but it mad me happy i really care about her and i want her back and i have done just about everything i can think of. this bast week i have felt like she cares a lil but today i got on facebook and she had put up some pix with her and some other guy and now i feel like **** what should i do?
2006-10-22 14:14:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't jump to conclusions. That other guy could be annnnyyyyoneeee. Tell her you still care about her and that you want to give it another shot.
2006-10-22 14:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other guy or not, she is not married so there is still time. You have to be completely honest with her. Tell her how you feel, and don't hold back. I am not going to promise that she will fall into your arms and kiss you, but you will feel better once it is all out in the open. If she does have a bf then this will give her something to think about. She will start to question whether or not she wants to be with him. If not then, at least you can begin to move on knowing that you tried. Just assure her that you will not be mad no matter what the answer is and no matter what your feelings for her will not change and be sure to give her time. As much as she needs, and don't keep bugging her about it. Unless its like a week later and there is still no response.
2006-10-22 21:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go...she doesn't seem interested in anything other than a friendship. It is generally not a good idea to go back to exes anyway.
2006-10-22 21:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by justkeepsmiling7654 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know how you feel same thing is going on with me just that I'm the one with another guy but me and my ex talked about everything and let each other know that we still got feelings for each other. he gets jealous when he sees me with my bf but i try to back away from him so my ex won't get jealous. try your best and let her know you will be there for her when she ends up heart broken with her loser bf.
2006-10-22 21:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like she went on... maybe you should too... i am sure that yes you will find some one new and be happy again...if she just wants to be freinds and enjoys talking to you....and you can be ok with that... cool...you can also be honest with her and just say hey... can we talk again and tell her how ya feel!
2006-10-22 21:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by tamara v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go, maybe she just wants to be friends. If you don't want to then just tell her straight out, be prepared for worse case scenario. Hope it goes well for ya.
2006-10-22 21:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very simple. talk to her. if she has a new man and she doesn't want you, then move on. there will be someone else for you. if she still wants you, then get back together. easy :)
2006-10-22 21:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by koifox_104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As painful as it may be, it's time to let her go. It doesn't sound like she is interested.
2006-10-22 21:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She an ex.Why don't you go find someone else to be with?
2006-10-22 21:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋