yes im asking the same question agin basically. i need more points of view.
Do you guys like it more when a girl plays hard to get? or when she flat out tells you she likes you and make sures you know it?
the answers i already got All said they liked it when girls told them flat out.
I did that, but he continues to chase a girl whos playing hard to get.
SUGGESTIONS?!
2006-10-22 14:07:49 · 15 answers · asked by lindsey m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think i answer this question before if you keep on playing that hard to get game after while they will move on and have the girl that was playing that hard to get game looking very stupid so it like playing with fire you never know when the other person gets tired of that and moves on so maybe you have chance if he get tired of her doing that
2006-10-22 14:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You generally need to fall somewhere in the middle. If you lay it all right out there, you've removed the challenge that for some reason people seem to need. But, If you play TOO hard to get, You risk him moving on to someone else.
2006-10-22 14:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by Justin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he probably is after the other girl.
And I think it depends on his age. If he is a teenager I would say playing hard works, but for a real mature relationship it is cool to be open.
By the way, Are you sure he knows that you are interested?
2006-10-22 14:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand head-games. The "hard-to-get" act suggests a seriously immature woman, and one who's probably going to be high maintenance if you do have the bad luck of getting her. I don't date game players, and honestly, I probably wouldn't look at such a woman twice. If she wants something, she should be woman enough to just come out and say it. If she can't do that, then I wish her luck in snagging the right kind of fool who will put up with that nonsense, because it's not going to be me.
2006-10-22 14:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by solarius 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be kidding. There's nothing more infuriating that a girl who does that. I only ask once, and I know that I'm a rare find for a man, one who is totally respectful, so I ask, but I don't chase. That's very unmanly, and the ones you're able to sucker into your game aren't really worth it.
2006-10-22 14:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like a girl that tells me that she likes me then plays hard to get
2006-10-22 14:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like when a girl lets you know flat out that she likes you
2006-10-22 14:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not that i am a guy... but found it interesting.... yes girls play hard to get but ya know guys do the same... this has been a game played for yrs and yrs...before i married my hubby... now of 8 yrs i played hard to get and it was fun.... does make the game fun...and later he married me!
2006-10-22 14:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by tamara v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are the same, maybe you coud let him know you like him than suddenly take it away from him and forbid him anymore, he is probably one of those guys who only wants what they can't get.
2006-10-22 14:13:29 · answer #9 · answered by Luis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already told him you like him, and he's still going for another girl... he REALLY likes her, or DOESN'T like you at all.
As a guy.. I can tell you this... we're ONLY hard to get, if we DON'T like you. If she's playing hard to get, and you're not, and he's still going for her... it's obvious... he's for her and her only.
But he's still a guy. Sex rules... so if you REALLY want him, put sex in his face, especially if you're both still young. He'll come crawlin'.
2006-10-22 14:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by Kren777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋