Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

havent been together long but we care alot about each other, i want to get her something that shows her how i feel but at the same time i dont want to rush or push her away

2006-10-21 16:30:54 · 21 answers · asked by firstknight 2 in Singles & Dating

I go to school with this guy who is a very good friend of mine, but lately our friendship is being heavily tested. My friend uses every chance he gets to bring up his gf. I don't mind talking about her or hearing about her, but my friend takes it to the extreme. I've already had a talk with him a few months back about it, and he apologized, but it seems to be getting worse again lately.
The other day I was very worried about this other guy I go to school with because he posted on him blog that he was having extreme depression problems. My friend is friends with this guy, so I told my friend about my worries and asked if the guy was ok. Not only does he dismiss my concerns, but he also suddenly asks if Grey's Anatomy is almost over, cause its his gf's fav. show, and after its over she'll be able to chat on the comp. w/ him. I found this rude and insensitive. Alot of things like this have been happening lately and its wearing on me. What should I do? I care about my friend, but he doesn't seem to care back. Any advice? Thanks!

2006-10-21 16:29:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The only person I feel comfortable being around is my boyfriend. I feel anxious alot. I don't know what to do. My boyfriend wanted to have friends over tonight. And I didn't want to (we pretty much live together so the decision is the both of ours). And its fine that he did. But he didn't take what I wanted into consideration. It was like he already made up his mind that they were going to come over, and and didn't care how I felt. I don't like being around people, ever, ever, ever. Unless it is my boyfriend. I hate it when I walk to class (on college campus), or go to the cafeteria, parties, walmart, anything. Anybody else feel this way?? Like they just can't relax, ever?? And they need time to do it, on the weekend, without people there...because they can't relax with the people there. But he wants them, there, so I feel like I never got that recuperation relaxation time I need to face the next stressfull week of school, or being around people again.

2006-10-21 16:28:54 · 13 answers · asked by Green Tea Happy 3 in Singles & Dating

I confronted my sister and told her about herself but my mom got upset because i did she said i was wrong i was right should i tell my best friend who the other woman is. but the bad part is my sister may be pregant i need some advice i feel like i am in the middle

2006-10-21 16:28:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-21 16:27:36 · 7 answers · asked by super alica 1 in Friends

I haven't seen my brother in many years and I would like to locate him. Of course I have his full name but our mother will not give me any other information (such as: health/personal/SIN#) If anyone could lead me in the right direction? I have tried Google, People Search, etc.
Thank you for your help! Contact me - Tanya@artlover.com

2006-10-21 16:27:34 · 4 answers · asked by Mzz_Mulatto 1 in Family

I need a little advise about a situation that I'm in, There is a man that is sweet and caring and loves being with me, but unfortuately I have stronger feelings for another man who I'm very much interested in. He also enjoys my company. but is scared to take it further.

2006-10-21 16:27:13 · 11 answers · asked by kay 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 16:26:56 · 51 answers · asked by arthur_devara 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it so hard for me to meet new people? What are the best places to meet people? I'm getting real lonely, any advice?

2006-10-21 16:26:50 · 10 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Singles & Dating

Keith and I where in a relationship for 2 years and I feel that he got scared of being in a commitment, then suddenly he called one day to tell me that we have completed our circle, and I know that that was the end, , my response was: If this is something you wanna to do, then I'll respect your decision, then Keith hang up the phone on me....I called 20 minutes later and left a message to said: hey I think we got disconnected so I was calling you back...and I hag up...he send an email on my b-day wishing me a happy b-day after that I have hear anything from him... and I alwayls wonder, cause we were very close friends, lovers etc, and travel all over the wrold, It hurt really bad for the first 2 months then I got over it, and I still believe that Keith is the man that I want to spend the rest of my life with...Keith is 44 year old man that have never being married, or have kids, I'm a 30 year old smart, attractive and succesful woman, I hope you can answer my question?....

2006-10-21 16:26:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

heres the deal i went out with this girl for a couple of weeks and then she broke up with me because .. she just wasnt feeling anything... but its been a month or so now and weve become really close friends .. last night i had a party and she laid in my lap for over an hour and then we ended up making out.. and turns out which was kinda funny to me ... im the first guy shes ever kissed.. we ended up laying cuddled up the whole night in my bed .. but im not sure if she wants a b/f or not right now and i dont wanna ask cuz i dont wanna ruin what we DO have .. was she just not thinking last night .. i mean would she really give all that to me if she didnt really want me? or does she not want me .. im confused .. i need help .. i want her but does she want me ?

2006-10-21 16:25:35 · 6 answers · asked by alone 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so theres this guy at work who i REALLY like. He came up to me and started talking to me on the first day. We work in different departments, but whenever he sees me he always says Hi. How can i get his attention to be more than just friends?

2006-10-21 16:25:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 16:25:19 · 23 answers · asked by SuzyRed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to a dance recently and my friend kept asking me if I was going with anyone, hr knew I wasn't going with anyone. Then he kep asking me to dance and sing with him and told I him "No" the first 2 times and the third I agreed, then later I went to go hang out with another friend and he seems mad/jealous because I hung out with my other friend and not him. We are best friends and seems like he wants to be more than friend. Everyone thinks we are going out and that we make a cute couple. Am I right on the way he is showing his feelings for me or something else? Please NO rude comments.
Also when ever ppl try to ask him if he likes me he always say no, but he always smiles and purposly bumps me in the hall ways @ school and at the dance. Is he lieing because he really means he doesn't like me or to cover up feelings?

2006-10-21 16:24:36 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle 5 in Singles & Dating

why do married men smetimes tell single men not to get married??? they always tell me and my friends not to they say " don't get married son enjoy life" or something like that....i can't remember word for word....??

2006-10-21 16:23:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my best frined and i look alike blonde hair tall skinny ok anyway she wants to start a group with 2 other girls one of the looks like us but brownhair the other girl looks nothin like us she is nice but were not really good friends like the other two girls and me should i tr to be her friend or tell my best firend i dont really like her???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

2006-10-21 16:23:28 · 7 answers · asked by visgirl802 1 in Friends

If so, why?

2006-10-21 16:23:24 · 5 answers · asked by ★Greed★ 7 in Singles & Dating

Is our world spinning out of control because of the broken homes and kids that are left behind? If parents actually listened to their kids and were involved in their day to day lives would our kids be more adapted an less antisocial?

2006-10-21 16:23:19 · 16 answers · asked by shetaz5360 3 in Family

Have you ever made out with another girl? was it a turn on?

2006-10-21 16:21:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 16:21:06 · 10 answers · asked by Mircea P 1 in Singles & Dating

If you really want her but she is hard to get, does it drive you crazy, and you always remember her as the only girl who didn't give in easily, or you hate her for the rest of your life ?

2006-10-21 16:20:46 · 13 answers · asked by jlangeforever 1 in Singles & Dating

if the guy calls you when he says he will and wants to go places with you but just broke up with his girlfriend just a couple days ago does that mean hes using you as a rebound even though youve gone out and talked while he has gone out with his GF?

2006-10-21 16:20:43 · 2 answers · asked by minier 1 in Singles & Dating

Seriously

2006-10-21 16:20:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is your dream wedding like?
(big or small wedding, location, daylight/night, by the water, etc.)

2006-10-21 16:19:47 · 13 answers · asked by blahblah10 2 in Weddings

Last year I found an old friend online and sent him an e-mail. We were really good friends as children, but we didn't stay in touch after I moved away 31 years ago. I went to high school, married, and have 4 kids. He went to a seminary and is a Catholic priest. Except for our childhood years I don't think we have anything in common. Except for a couple of e-mails we haven't had any contact. On the one hand I think it would be awkward to have a priest as a friend(I'm a catholic too) but on the other hand we were the best of friends for years and the only reason we didn't keep in touch was because when I moved I wasn't old enough to drive so I couldn't visit him, and in those days people just didn't make long distance calls unless there was a real good reason. I guess we could have written leters, but I'm not real good at it. Anybody else have a clergy person as a friend? Does it seem strange at times? I know they are just people too, but different,you know?

2006-10-21 16:18:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-21 16:18:45 · 34 answers · asked by lbellanycgirl 1 in Friends

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2006-10-21 16:18:39 · 3 answers · asked by feeling hopeless 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Answer me and tell me wut to do.BECAUSE I AM REALLY SAD!!!!!

2006-10-21 16:18:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Once a week I dressup for school/ not like geeks/ but like Justin Timberlake in sexyback (the song inspired me anyway). What would you or most people think. Cause most people even teachers tell me that "You're looking smart", "You look very nice today" etc. One of my classmates said that it was overkill and too flashy. what do you think?

2006-10-21 16:17:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 16:17:01 · 14 answers · asked by idk 3 in Other - Family & Relationships