Why is it so hard for me to meet new people? What are the best places to meet people? I'm getting real lonely, any advice?
2006-10-21 16:26:50 · 10 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are you looking for... and are you looking in the right place...
When God shut a door... he opens a window...
Things happen for a reason
2006-10-21 16:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Simon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow..i'm surprised at how insensitive some people are....Please overlook approximately all the different comments the impolite people desperate to leave on right here. i do no longer know why they problem! in any case, i'm very sorry you had a complicated formative years and that i wish that sooner or later you would be waiting to seek for the peace which you deserve. Now which you have a daughter the excellent concern you're able to do is love her and make valuable she by no skill has to go through the way you probably did. (Which i'm valuable you're doing). i could propose telling the daddy via fact he has a top to renowned. of direction there is an threat that he will leave his spouse yet in spite of the result, the only guy or woman which will and can earnings from that's your daughter. in case you do no longer prefer to be romantically in touch which includes your ex then determine you tell him, despite the fact that if he desires to leave his spouse after that's his selection. Please merely think of approximately your daughter and her destiny. i'm valuable you're a gorgeous mom yet merely think of how lots it could help to have her father in her life. I wish you the excellent! "despite the fact that your destiny is, despite the fact that the hell occurs, you're saying, "that's what i prefer." it ought to look like a break, yet pass at it as though it have been an threat, a project. in case you carry like to that 2nd—no longer discouragement—you will locate the ability is there. Any disaster which you would be able to survive is an progression on your character, your stature, and your life. What a privilege! that's whilst the spontaneity of your own nature might have a great gamble to flow. Then, whilst looking lower back at your life, you will see that the moments which gave the impression to be great failures accompanied by way of wreckage have been the incidents that shaped the life you have now. you will see that that's relatively actual. no longer something can take place to you that's no longer valuable. despite the fact that if curiously and feels on the 2nd like a adverse disaster, it extremely is no longer. The disaster throws you lower back, and once you're required to exhibit power, it comes." ~ Joseph Campbell
2016-11-24 22:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by melancon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how did he treat you. Is your self esteem low? Are you still in love with him? Are you still not over it and possible depressed and are you just putting off getting out there and trying again? Maybe you are afraid of being hurt again. If you want to date you have to get out there. Don't be afraid of being hurt. If you don't open up you could miss a great opportunity. You have to be willing to take the risk to have a full and meaningful relationship. I know what lonliness feels like. I feel for you. I'm married and sometimes I am still lonely. He isn't the most sensitive guy but I love him regardless. I finally realized that if I loved him I had to accept him as who He is and not try to change him. I would never want to change him anyway. Anyway, that is off the subject though. i feel to really answer this question I would need more info from you. If you want to talk, email me. Take care.
2006-10-21 16:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jules 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been divorced for 13 years now. Dang 13 years!!! It is difficult to start over because when someone spends time with someone else and they have children, anyone else that you meet you will compare them to your ex. You may not want to but you do, beleive me. I have done this lots of times. You need to get out. That's the best way to meet people. If you stay home all the time with your children then you will never meet anyone. If you are religious go to church functions. I don't prefer to go to bars but so do.
2006-10-21 16:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dragon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did your ex leave? You need to tell yourself everyday that it was not your fault. You deserve to be happy. You need to have confidence in yourself as a single person. Move past your image of you as a couple, and pull yourself up by your bootstraps and get out there. I don't really have an answer for where to meet people.... I am married. Keep your chin up enjoy your kids and move past the hurt left by your ex. You are a shining spot in the lives of your kids and they love you no matter what. Be at peace with yourself before you try to find someone.
2006-10-21 16:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by shetaz5360 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really do need to get a step daddy for that baby.Go places like the mall and park find a guy who likes kids.
2006-10-21 16:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by **snowflake** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cause u have a child
2006-10-21 16:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Yulia V 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where do you live?
Email me to talk. the_saint1963@yahoo.com
2006-10-21 16:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you have a child so you have to be home taking care of your child......
2006-10-21 16:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
ask your friends to hook you up with a guy
2006-10-21 16:28:47 · answer #10 · answered by arti 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋