heres the deal i went out with this girl for a couple of weeks and then she broke up with me because .. she just wasnt feeling anything... but its been a month or so now and weve become really close friends .. last night i had a party and she laid in my lap for over an hour and then we ended up making out.. and turns out which was kinda funny to me ... im the first guy shes ever kissed.. we ended up laying cuddled up the whole night in my bed .. but im not sure if she wants a b/f or not right now and i dont wanna ask cuz i dont wanna ruin what we DO have .. was she just not thinking last night .. i mean would she really give all that to me if she didnt really want me? or does she not want me .. im confused .. i need help .. i want her but does she want me ?
2006-10-21 16:25:35 · 6 answers · asked by alone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You would not at all be in the wrong to approach her on this. Give it a few days though. If anything even close to being you know what comes up again definitely ask her if she thinks maybe you guys didn't give each other enough time the first go. Leave it at that, then the ball is in her court and it's on her mind not your. Don't let her keep playing with you though if she's not being sincere. You don't deserve that, I mean I'll admit those are nice but lets not be selfish girl. If she is not thinkin of you in that way though you should let her know how all those things are making you feel.
2006-10-21 16:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i got an idea this may sound stupid and silly but listen take her out on a park or do something romantic with her take her out and get her most favorite flower and give it to her and write a letter to her saying that how much you want her and why you want her once you do that she stop and think about you a lot and dont worry stop having doubts to becuz if u do and u might stress your self out and and its not going to work out so try this this is i would do
2006-10-21 23:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time. If its meant to be it will always happen. Eventually you will have to talk about your feelings to her. Just wait until you think its time because only you will really know when its time
2006-10-21 23:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by Annie W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep hanging out with her and don't act funny. Call her today, don't wait.
Hang out and try to kiss her again.
2006-10-21 23:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't know what she wants either, and if you try and try ...... she;ll use you up and you'll never be secure enough to meet anyone else, when you finally realize that you don 't want her....
2006-10-21 23:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her that you support her and ask her to marry you.
2006-10-21 23:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jose S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋