If you really want her but she is hard to get, does it drive you crazy, and you always remember her as the only girl who didn't give in easily, or you hate her for the rest of your life ?
2006-10-21 16:20:46 · 13 answers · asked by jlangeforever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. I think that she is stuck up and I go talk to someone more lively and fun.
On the other hand, someone who is too eager to meet me seems desperate, and that can be a turn off too.
I suppose that someone who is mildly interested, but not too interested, catches my attention. A little indifference can go a long way.
2006-10-21 16:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are those who play hard to get, then there are those who really are just hard to get. I think it's fine to play hard to get, but if you keep making the guy chase you, and you like him, never give anything back or show any modicum of interest, then you should probably expect the dude to give up at some point. I think for the most part, guys, just kind of forget about the person and move on, unless she was really special of course...
2006-10-21 16:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by remys 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a busy man. I don't have time to play mind games. Hard-to-get girls are so annoying. It should be illegal. So, yes, the frustration does engender a form of hatred. It's slight though and she's eventually forgotten.
2006-10-21 16:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by dyauspiter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That whole "hard to get" thing falls under the category of "playing games." Whatever you choose to call it, it's immature and stupid for whomever engages in it. The best of relationship are based on trust and mutual affection, not head games.
2006-10-21 16:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by Rckets 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing ive learned about hard to get women is the they are easy to give when they already got: )
2006-10-21 16:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its kinda keeps men going to get you but if you keep it up for a very long time its stressful and then they leave because it seems like you gave them false hopes so just do it for a while but don't over do it thats all am saying
2006-10-21 16:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sure most of like a hard to get gal.....that gives us a real challenge,,, And if we really like them then we don't give up....
Never hate anyone for any reason.....
2006-10-21 16:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I don't go crazy over it. Of course if I didn't get her I wouldn't hate her.
2006-10-21 16:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what i learned in middle school forget them the reason why is forget them becuz there is no point of getting a female that dont want you if she dont want you then forget her and move on dont look back at her no more just forget her
2006-10-21 16:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!
2006-10-21 16:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Eugene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋