Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

I really like this guy at work. And no matter what happens I have always tried to piece together his behavior. I want to ask him, but what if he doesn't and I will still continue to see him. I don't know whether he is being nice or maybe trying to hint me something. Like last week I went in his area of work to pick up some items for my department. And he kept on walking by and my co-worker was helping me out. He finally waved hi to me. And soon one of his co-workers came out to talk to us who was an older women. We stood there talking and he comes out of nowhere and just tries to join. He didn't say a word and left. And as we left he was there again to say goodbye. I really don't know what to make of this. And also I get nervous for some reason I can't even greet him. How lame is that? Please give me the best advice you can give me.

2006-10-16 13:50:39 · 6 answers · asked by biochick11220 4 in Singles & Dating

my boy friend cheated on me with her ex and than mouved in with her for about a year (i staied around as a " lover" cus i couldnt give him up
he alwes promissed that he's hat that girl. i knew for a fact he didnt..
in the end he left her. we are married
but i hate him for al the pain he inflicted on me for that year

2006-10-16 13:50:31 · 4 answers · asked by nickole 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I'm with him I get really shy, and that's not like me, also I feel like there is nothing I could say, he's funny and outgoing, I just sit on the sidelines, What are some things I could talk to him about, or how do I make it more obvious I like him, should I just ask him if he likes me, or is that too risky...see I have no clue here! we were so cool at homecoming, we slow danced, and now I'm shy, any advice?

2006-10-16 13:50:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my wife, we have 9+ years of marriage, she have a son. from other relationship. When we got married he was 10 years old, now he is 19. One time he told me in his innocense: i ask my mom why she got married with you? then she told him: for you, i married him for you, for your future because he can immigrate us to the USA. Now after 9+ years of marriage, last week they immigrate to the USA. Now she dont talk to me, she dont pay attention to me, and i say: why? why? why she used me? What i think is maybe she is doing it to make me be tired of her and get divorce. Im very sad right now my friends, im crying, tell me what to do please. Now i still love her and is very hard for me to get divorce. What do you suggest?

2006-10-16 13:49:30 · 12 answers · asked by El guapo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this boy that I like he is so cute and well we kind of talk but only once in a while.we always look at eachother and we both get shy around eachother do you think that he likes me?He also tries to talk me but he gets reds and none of my guy friends have done that before>help

2006-10-16 13:49:21 · 10 answers · asked by blackrose* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this girl that i've like for a while now. recently i found out that she likes me. We talked for a while and i decided to write a note, i asked her for her number in the note and gave her mine too. Next time i saw her she told me she would write me back. she didn't. 3 days after the note she told me she would call me.she didn't she said she was busy that day with a project. i wrote her another note the next day that let her know how i felt about her(that i liked her),i gave it to her the day b4 the weekend, it's monday night and i still havent heard anything from her about it. She talks to me still, and ask how im doin and stuff but i'm really confused about her right now. oh, and after she didn't really respond to the first note i didn't talk to her as much, does that have anything to do with things.

2006-10-16 13:48:45 · 12 answers · asked by storm26_b 1 in Singles & Dating

YOU GOTTA REMEBER BACK!!! u were a young teen watching cute little romantic films like Titanic and daydreaming about that stuff, but does it ever really happen? Or is that all made up stuff?!? DOES UNCONDITIONAL LOVE EXIST?!?!?!?!?!

2006-10-16 13:48:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok heres the deal. First listen to this and then ill ask the question. Ashley is my friend who i wanna help so listen.* Z (me) hey can i tell u somthin? i am really sad because... my best friend in the whole world moved to newyork... but thats not it.... i just found out this weekend that (she started to get watery tears) that his mike's (her friend) mom went in to the bathroom and found him with his arm cut (not off just cut) and his neck cut..... Hes dead


*question* what can i tell her shes sad and i wanna help. and if i cant, can u guys tell me somthin to tell her that she can do so she can get better? serious answers please:(

2006-10-16 13:47:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He's annoying, immature, plays basketball 24/7, picks his nose, and listens to R&B, rap, or anything that's on the radio. Could I act like the complete opposite of him, if not myself, to get him not to like me? thanks!

2006-10-16 13:47:42 · 5 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Singles & Dating

this year a japanese exchange student came to my school. she is the most adorable thing ever!

she always says hi to me and smiles, but never any conversation no matter how much i try.

she is only in one of my classes, the study period. the korean exchange student always talks to her, and it maks it difficult for me to talk to the japanese girl.

i really like her! i would love for her to be my gf but i dont know what to do.

i asked this uestion before but didnt get the response i was looking for, so im asking it again.

helppp

2006-10-16 13:47:28 · 8 answers · asked by Other Man 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know what to do ... i want him to know that i like him.. because then maybe he will like me back, but at the same time i dont think that he would ever because hes older then me and he may think that im just nothing to himm... and we work together

2006-10-16 13:47:19 · 6 answers · asked by JKJM 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 13:47:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hes always around other girls and he flirts with them, and it drives me insane!! i dont want to tell him who he can and cant talk to but i wish he would stop!! i really really like him, and i dont know what i would do with out him, breaking up with him has crossed my mind a few times but i think its kind of a stupid thing to break up with him about

2006-10-16 13:46:50 · 34 answers · asked by summer_lover410 2 in Singles & Dating

ok im usually good around girls that i'm into but this one is different i nervious around her i think im in love with her need help

2006-10-16 13:45:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay like I said before, I'm in high school, and well theres like these guy that likes me. I dont know what I actually feel, He is real nice, but very shy, he likes me but just wont tell me. Everybody and his best friend is telling me to go for it to make the move on him, cause his just shy and has never had a girl (i believe). I've thought about it and I guess I'll be willing to make the move, but I just dont know how to come up to him and just do it. I'm use to the guy making the first move, and well this guy has no kind of experience from what I hear. I just need advice on how to make the move and I'm thinking on taking him to prom, but he hasent asked and other guys already asked me, but I wanna say yes to "him".
I dont know I guess I would make the first move if I really wanted to be with him, maybe I dont like him that bad, his just a nice guy and I dont wanna hurt him.

2006-10-16 13:45:48 · 4 answers · asked by angelica 1 in Singles & Dating

I really want to know if they liked it i need to know 2nite

2006-10-16 13:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by fashiongrl 1 in Friends

2006-10-16 13:44:51 · 19 answers · asked by JaNa 3 in Singles & Dating

My friends erica and max started dating about a month ago. a mutual friend told Erica that I had liked max for a long time, and since then erica has deeply mistrusted me. I stopped liking max as soon as he started dating erica, which i told her, but still she does not trust me. now they are having EXTREME PDA in front of a lot of people like on lunch breaks, in hallways, anywhere! I want to confront them about it, becasue it is bothering other people besides me, but since erica does not trust me, and i am not that close with max, how do i tell them?!!

2006-10-16 13:44:30 · 3 answers · asked by Smile 2 in Friends

are you at least capable of 'faking' some interest in others? Or are you disinterested and incapable of even putting on a little show?

2006-10-16 13:44:24 · 7 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

ok like i've got i boyfriend who puts everything infront of me and it really hurts. it's like i don't even matter do him at all.
but i hate being alone. and as of rihgt know i don't have a backup. it wouldn't be so bad but we had a fight thursday and he hasn't talked to me since so what should i do

2006-10-16 13:44:14 · 5 answers · asked by confussed 2 in Singles & Dating

Let me sum it up for you as i was saying my husband spends more time answering strangers questions on this yahoo answers and takes his time to really help them out but when i ask a question either i am not asking it right or its not important enough to be answered can someone please give me some ideal!!!!!! i wouldnt be surprised if my husband answers this one since it is on yahoo answer he needs to get the points for what i have no clue!!!! doesnt pay rent!

2006-10-16 13:44:08 · 6 answers · asked by Jeanette 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well, my freind gave a note that i liked this girl in my math class, 2 days ago. And today i avoided her, rushed to get away from her so she couldn't talk to me. im way too shy in the first place, ti gather up the courage to talk to her, thats why i needed the note in the first place....

but i cant bring myself to talk to her..i start to get all nervous and freakout.....

help i wanna talk to her pretty bad...bad i can't..

2006-10-16 13:43:40 · 1 answers · asked by ThemusicalArtist 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 13:43:11 · 6 answers · asked by </3 3 in Singles & Dating

I have dated a number of guys where everything seemed to be going along fine and then they stop seeing me and it seems that very soon after they get married? I'm trying to figure what it is about me that is not marriage material? I'm now 35, a lawyer, attractive and get along with everyone. I'm truly a very likable person. I've never fought with someone I've dated. What's the deal? Some say it's that many men's egos can't handle a successful woman. I don't know if that's true.

2006-10-16 13:42:39 · 12 answers · asked by ca belle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 13:42:12 · 8 answers · asked by Vik O'Rama 1 in Family

I just asked a question a bit ago and I need to clarify. I am an attractive woman who gets excited by HOT women and men. The only thing is, in regards to the hot women, I am not attracted to women that I see in person just movies or magazines. There has only been one girl, in "real" life that I wanted to just make out with in our birthday suits. Is that weird?

2006-10-16 13:42:09 · 8 answers · asked by I Care 1 in Singles & Dating

Look,my girlfriends birthday is on the 29th,i'm 14,she's turning 15,we're both freshmans. what can i get her?,Second of all,we're going to the movies on the 29th,just me and her,she told her parents they couldn't come,we're going to see a scary movie(that should be fun). Any ideas on how to make that night better,and what should i get her!!?

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6 hours ago
when i said better i didn't mean there was anything wrong with the night,let me rephrase that,how can i make the night waaaaay better?

2006-10-16 13:41:49 · 6 answers · asked by Ramon O 3 in Singles & Dating

should i or should he?

2006-10-16 13:40:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex wife has sole physical custody of our 6 year old son. I am getting remarried in just a few months. We want to fight to get custody of my son. Is it very hard to start fighting again after I already lost custody during the divorce? Any info of suggestions would be appreciated.

2006-10-16 13:39:49 · 7 answers · asked by tmtm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my daughter of 16+ is just a nightmare, she has plenty of really nice clothes but she continues to wear her clothes time and time again without washing them,she puts nearly everthing back in her wardrobe and although it is folded or hung it's dirty or has stains on, she sleeps with her underwear beneath her nightwear her choice, but i have known her to wear the same bra for more than a week, she wears her trousers for 3 days or more.Her dressing gown has not been washed for about 5months it is filthy and smells awful just like her bedroom we have tried talking to her explaining the need for personal hygiene but she denies all saying that she does wash all her clothes, and the ones in her wardrobe are clean. the silly thing is she baths or showers every day, uses deodrant and smellies but still contiues to put on dirty clothes i have tried a couple of times to help her by washing all of her clothes for her and we did the ironing together but it makes no difference is this normal

2006-10-16 13:39:44 · 40 answers · asked by flybnite2003 2 in Family