help...what should.....i do....now....?

Question

well, my freind gave a note that i liked this girl in my math class, 2 days ago. And today i avoided her, rushed to get away from her so she couldn't talk to me. im way too shy in the first place, ti gather up the courage to talk to her, thats why i needed the note in the first place....

but i cant bring myself to talk to her..i start to get all nervous and freakout.....

help i wanna talk to her pretty bad...bad i can't..

Answer 1

Your choices and their main advantage/disadvantage are:

A) Run away and hide.

Advantage: You will not have to face the problem.

Disadvantage: This will set a really nice avoidance pattern for the rest of your life. Hope you like being a lonely doormat.

B) Decide you actually have a backbone, approach her and talk to her.

Advantage: You find out that she actually likes you and has been just as scared to approach you, or not, as if that mattered.

Disadvantage: You may get rejected and for a very brief period you will want the earth to swallow you whole.

Side note: my guess is that you been there before (wanting to disappear). Guess what, you survived it and now that you look back at it, was it really that bad?

You have the power to turn this into a life changing moment by simply finding your backbone. I promise you it is there, it is just that most people choose not to use it. Ask yourself what is the worst possible thing that could happen? Go for it!