my boy friend cheated on me with her ex and than mouved in with her for about a year (i staied around as a " lover" cus i couldnt give him up
he alwes promissed that he's hat that girl. i knew for a fact he didnt..
in the end he left her. we are married
but i hate him for al the pain he inflicted on me for that year
2006-10-16 13:50:31 · 4 answers · asked by nickole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My God.....so he not only cheated on you, but he moved in with another lady, and kept seeing you on the side......then you married him?
Did I get that right?????
Talk about self sabotage!!!...............Hunny this is a horrible situation to put yourself into .....but honestly............YOU let him do this to you.
You are going to need to talk to a professional, this will take a long time to overcome, and your hubby doesn't sound like he will compassionate or supportive enough to help you get through it.
I hope it works out for you .....Good Luck
2006-10-16 14:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is a thing one never forgets or forgives, he did hurt you and take it for what it's worth it isn't over yet. once a cheater always a cheater,and you didn't get too much when you married him, it's best to just move on when this happens, because it's not worth the pain of having to go through this again. leaving and moving on was the hardest thing i ever did in my life, and it was one of the worst things ever done to me in my life, so no one doesn't forget, or forgive, in time it get's easier and you don't think about it as often but it's still there in our minds.
2006-10-16 14:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either go to therapy or sleep with someone behind his back. Either way, get over it and move on.
2006-10-16 14:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Kimma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on. It was brutal. I got over it and had my own affair, which was ten times worse than what she did to me.
2006-10-16 14:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋