My boyfriend flirts with my best friend and other people, what should i do?

Question

Hes always around other girls and he flirts with them, and it drives me insane!! i dont want to tell him who he can and cant talk to but i wish he would stop!! i really really like him, and i dont know what i would do with out him, breaking up with him has crossed my mind a few times but i think its kind of a stupid thing to break up with him about

Answer 1

kick his cheating a s s to the curb!

Answer 2

Sometimes flirting is a personality trait and he may not even realize he's doing it. But if it's excessive flirting, where it's come to the point that he completely ignores you, and goes as far as playfully touching or teasing other girls, then that's where I'd draw the line. Tell him how this is making you feel. If he continues this behavior, I'd reconsider if this is the guy you want be with. There are so many great guys out there. Don't waste your time on someone that doesn't treat you like a queen! If breaking up is the road you must take, let him know that you deserve better and that you're done with him. This will make him think and hopefully make a lasting impact on his future girlfriends. Good luck and I hope this helped. :)

Answer 3

Some flirts are harmless and others will take it a step further; what do your instincts tell you about your boyfriend? He flirts with your best friend, is she the type that may betray you? Will he flirt with your mom, sister, aunt? If he also flirts with people he can't possibly be interested in then it's probably just his character, some people like to flatter people and make them feel good. If he only flirts with friends and younger women then you might have something to worry about. Anyway, go by your instincts.

Answer 4

It's not a stupid thing to break up over. Flirting could someday turn into cheating. However, first talk to him about it. Tell him what he does that makes you upset and why you feel that way. See what he says- he could be turning on the charm without realizing that it will make you jealous. Give him a chance to change his behavior. If he doesn't, or isn't willing to listen to you, then think about breaking it off before he hurts you more.

Answer 5

Well darling not sure of how old you are but in adult circles flirting really isn't all that big of a deal. If it bothers you call him on it, let him know it makes you uncomfortable, you would prefer he gives you the attention and most definitely deserve the energy he's applying to the chicken heads. If this doesn't work I'd dress a bit less predictable to get his attention
if you know what I mean. If this doesn't get his attention either...dump him for a less popular guy...not for a relationship just for companionship. I am sure there is some one in the mix...checking you out from afar.

Answer 6

Wow i jsut had to deal with this situation with my bestfreind her man was the same way and she never wanted to be"controling" by saying who he could and couldn't talk too.Well giving him soo much freedom just led to trouble he flirted with a girl who decided to flrit back and do alil more. a 5 year relationship down the drain. It isn't about telling him what he can and can't do it is about respect. if he respects ur feelings and knows it upsets u he would stop. U can come to understanding where he can hang with friends but in a kind matter especially in front of u.Becareful when u say i don't want to tell him what he can and cant do because a man might use that against u .tell u ur being controlling when u aren't ur jsut expressing ur concerns and feelings. in the end hun it is all baout respect and trust. do u have it?

Answer 7

He probably doesnt know he is flirting. My boyfriend thinks I am a flirt but I sometimes get so interested in a conversationi that I get carried away. I also am naturally a very touchy person I love giving hugs and being nice. Sometimes that can be seen as flirty. But if you trust him and you know his thoughts are with you and he isnt interested in other people. But anyway all it comes down to is trust. If you really want a lasting relationship trust him. If you think he cant be trusted and he is really flirting then dump him.

Answer 8

No, I think you should break up with him. Cause if he is doing it now and if you get married to him . He will still be doing it. And how would it make you feel . Would it make you feel unwanted that they have something that he likes and you don't. You see when a man looks at another woman . That means he isn't satisfied what he got. So let him go . He will figure it some day. That the best thing he had got away.l

Answer 9

If he is flirting with other people break up with him. I no you really like him but i think it is for the best if you dont u might end up really hurt. If he is flirting with people he might be a cheat and that just isnt right, in my opinion u should dump him.

Answer 10

I would just tell him that it bothers you that he flirts with other girls. Tell him that you don't care that he talks to other girls, but there is a line between being friendly and flirty. Girl, I had a bf like this one time and I finally had enough. I told him if he is with me then be with me, and if he wants to flirt take a hike. Put yourself first. There ARE other guys out there that aren't that disrespectful.

Answer 11

actually it really isnt a bad thing to break up with him over. BUt if you really want to stay with him, talk to him and tell him you dont like his behavior. If he really cares for you and is not a player, then he will stop flirting with others.