Family & Relationships - 15 October 2006

If I were to strike up a conversation with a man a few years my senior... what topic should I bring up?? If you were a mid 30's man, what would you find easy to talk about with a woman that you don't know very well?

2006-10-15 12:53:55 · 8 answers · asked by carlaerickson 5 in Marriage & Divorce

the church has put a knew roof on his house,given him a car. firewood,fixed his water pump,and now are going to fix his house up.i have another friend who is homeless living out of his van with a dog.i asked the church to help him.they said they could not and told me to send him to the red cross.he is 60 yrs old and was crying today because he has helped so many people and when he is down and out nobody cares.what would you think of this situation

2006-10-15 12:52:20 · 4 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I parked my car in front of their house (on a public street) and I would not move it when they told me I had to. They told me it is their parking space because it is in front of their house. When I told them I would not move my car becasue it is parked on a public street. This happened about a month ago and they are still egging my house and car, and throwing nasty notes in my yard ever since. I've called the police twice when they were standing at my front gate harrassing me, and the police came and talked to them, but said they really could not do anything unless I was injured or my property was damaged. The neighbors also put oil on my front steps (I think so I would slip). The police suggested a restraining order, but I cannot afford one. Help! What should I do?

2006-10-15 12:51:22 · 10 answers · asked by animallover 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a crush on my schoolmate, he's nice...he also likes me but idont know what to do coz i told my best friend that i dont have a crush on him and never will i..... how will i tell the guy thet i like him also?????
and how will i xplain 2 my best friend?????

2006-10-15 12:51:13 · 3 answers · asked by anna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

its nearly 1 am, i am at the comp now, as i cant bloody sleep my neighbours at it again , banging away, and howling i have had enough its driving me mad i need to get up early for work. i like them but how can i tell them without offending them? please help

2006-10-15 12:50:59 · 21 answers · asked by diane c 3 in Friends

and do you , like , get p*ssed off if they take ages to reply??? i know everyone is busy , but how often do people check their e-mails? once a week? once a fortnight? i find it hard to think its not just lack of manners!!!...coz when i get an e-mail from someone even if i'm busy i still e-mail them back within a few days!.........i'm in an impatient mood today!!!

2006-10-15 12:50:40 · 16 answers · asked by chandra 6 in Friends

im in love with a guy but we brock up almost 6 mounths ago what do i do ask him out again or replace him.if i replace him how do i know what guy i should go with help ........

2006-10-15 12:50:14 · 4 answers · asked by jennifer s 1 in Singles & Dating

what if you been with this person for 6 yrs 5 of them years was lovely and this year its been hell . he made a mistake and i took him back and i thought he wasnt never going to change so i made a mistake and he took me back and i finally got a apartment and ive been in it for 5 months and he havent spent one night with me. we broke up so many times but we right back together . he stress me out so bad . i went to the doctor and they put me on lexapro and it made me feel worse so i stop taking it and i just try to keep my head on good things but every night when i go to bed i will roll over and no one there and i would just cry cry cry and loose more weight every time i cry and i only weigh 125. WHAT WOULD U DO

2006-10-15 12:49:52 · 12 answers · asked by t 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 26 and I have known this guy for 18 yrs and when we were in HS he asked me out several times, did and said sweet things to me. I turned him down in fear that I would lose my best friend. A few months ago he got out of a 4 yr realationship with a female that cheated and stole from him, but I was very happy in thinking now is my chance, were older and I know now that I would never lose him as my friend. However I wanted to give him space and time. He to has had feelings for me all these years, that is coming from people that isn't just "intuition". He has shown many signs of interest, but he is very shy and not a very forward person, I suppose that is partly my fault for turning down his advances in the past. Anyways he slept at my house a month ago for a week while my mom was out of town and he was very respectful and we were both so shy. I am not a shy person normally but am around one I really like a lot.

2006-10-15 12:48:54 · 13 answers · asked by Pam 5 in Singles & Dating

what age can you leave a child alone for in a house until a parent comes home from work this might be til 10.30pm but the child will also have a nieghbour looking after her. But she wants to stay in the house alone? Do you think 12 years old is ok

2006-10-15 12:48:51 · 47 answers · asked by oldshoespoetry 2 in Family

I had to quit my job 3 mo ago.I was diagnosed with severe tendonitis and my doctor didn't recommend surgery due to having to cut from wrist to shoulder,both arms,and it could possibly make it worse.I want to go back to work because I'm scared we won't make it on one income,but my husband tells me we'll be fine and not to worry,but I want my girls to have a good life and give them things I didn't have growing up.I need advice,what would you do?

2006-10-15 12:48:27 · 2 answers · asked by holliela 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He broke up but will take me back it seems if I can prove to him that there will be a change, i.e. being less argumentative and more sensitive to his needs. I'll do anything to have him back, and I want to change to be a better person, what do I have to do to prove to him I love him enough to change for him?

2006-10-15 12:48:26 · 2 answers · asked by honu1818 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm quite confused, frustrated and Insecure by my penis size. I'm 6 inches or just a little more. Why didn't God make us like women whoose vagina's in general come in a standard size. When my gf's vagina is tented or stretched I estimate she can hold at least 9 inches maybe as much as 11/12 or more. It expands I know. My medical knowledge suggests that the standard vagina can easily accomodate 9 inches long by 1 I/2 wide if care is taken during sex and the vagina given time to expand. It bugs me that I'm just 6+ inches and Tommy Lee is 16+ inches. If I was 8 inches; why is the great 'Porn King' 18 1/2 inches. Yesterday I heard a woman singing of 21 inches. Several years ago I guy told me he knew in Africa of 22 inches. Last week I saw a black guy's semi-erect penis and I'm sure it was 12 or 14+ inches.

Rasputin' s penis is reportedly 11or12+ inches, John Dillinger's is reportedly 14/14+ inches. Dennis Rodman's is 12 or more
inches. John Holmes 12-15 inches. How do you see it?

2006-10-15 12:48:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She wouldn't stop talking nonsense and nagging during a re-run of the Soprano's and made me miss most of it. After several warnings, I finally was forced to slap her a few times to shut her up. Then she called the cops and got a restraint on me for spite. Should I forgive her or just get even. She is a good cook and great in bed when her mouth is shut.

2006-10-15 12:46:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I looked in my lock box and both of my kids and my ss cards are gone and i need to file for it again and i dont know how. Please Help!!!

2006-10-15 12:46:48 · 13 answers · asked by Big Mama 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so I decided to take my friend to the Homecoming dance at school and when I asked I said just as friends, thing is she seems to like me more than just a friend, (she was constantly trying to get closer to me and I would step a little away), now we come to the problem, I've had a crush on my other friend (her best friend for awhile(around 6 months or so)), her best friend how ever is currently dating some one else so I obviously didn't ask her. Now I'm wondering if I should pursue this relationship with her, or back off gently let her down and wait until her best friend is single again.

2006-10-15 12:45:35 · 21 answers · asked by Paul M 1 in Singles & Dating

for example, they ONLY date white or black guys.
they look down on asian men, including their own fathers.
they refuse to have anything to do with asian culture, and actually insult asian culture. why? whats wrong with them and why do they do that?

2006-10-15 12:45:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He uses their child to get to me. He ruined the best thing that happend to her and now she is divorcing her. But its going to take a while be cause they have so many thing in both their names. Hes making her pay for the divorce. What should i do.

2006-10-15 12:44:49 · 8 answers · asked by Roy H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-15 12:44:47 · 11 answers · asked by DAFFEH S 1 in Singles & Dating

I've talked to my bf so many times, but he still won't tell me the truth. My cousin's girlfriend is my boyfriend's sister, so I even asked my cousin to talk and spy on my bf. And my cousin, who is more like a brother to me, always tell me everything, but he can't seem to get anything out of him. Plus, my boyfriend doesn't even have time for me anymore. What should I do?

2006-10-15 12:44:09 · 24 answers · asked by beford95 2 in Singles & Dating

and i'm not saying she's cheating - a date which i set up for her to go on.

crazy?. the idea actaully orriginated by her. we went out for a year, broke up for a year, and got back. while mending we were very open about all of these wild fantasies we had. one of hers was that she's go out and explore her sexuality with somebody with alot of experience and then blow me away (to this day, i have a signifigant edge over her in the belt notch department).

once we stablized we stopped talking about most of it, and pretend like we never told each other. but we've often talked about this one, and it drives us both wild.

so a freind of mine from college is going to be in town until tuesday, and it seems perfect. he's 'cute' and a ladies man. he won't be in town for long and live far enough away not to be a long term threat. and he's agreed to my conditions (protection and no rough housing)

now i'm home, and she's out, and i have no plans. my mind is racing! what to do?

2006-10-15 12:42:44 · 13 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Singles & Dating

Im just wondering if any asian girls would date a Latino. There is this girl at work who is Filipina, and well, I get mistaken for asian all the time. Anyway, I was wondering if any asian girls would go out with a Latino.

2006-10-15 12:42:44 · 10 answers · asked by tilthetidecreepsin 1 in Singles & Dating

why do men like to have sex in a hurry and then say to their partner i will catch you next time. Don't you all know that we get horney too?

2006-10-15 12:40:04 · 18 answers · asked by twinki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-15 12:39:47 · 7 answers · asked by QA559 1 in Family

My best friend for over a year, who I was madly in love with and the same with him.... Can't talk to me anymore due to health reasons, he has moved away... The pain is so bad it feels like it will never go away because I lost my best friend. I never lost anyone before, how do I get through this? Sometimes I just want to give up on life because there is nothing that makes me happier than being with him.

2006-10-15 12:39:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my crushes like another girl and what should i do
this is not CC
it is bebopalobop@yahoo.com

2006-10-15 12:38:06 · 1 answers · asked by Softballis2cool 2 in Singles & Dating

Girls, you know what I'm talking about. All our friends have put themselves out there and found the perfect guy, and we feel pressured to do so also. So we go out with someone just to be in a relationship. Is this ok, or this is pointless like I think it is?

2006-10-15 12:37:55 · 13 answers · asked by Bethany 2 in Singles & Dating

you do what you want, like date other guys, walk all over me and make me worship your feet.

2006-10-15 12:37:18 · 10 answers · asked by footcleaner 1 in Singles & Dating

after 24 yrs old marriage ............it is over he cheated.......now i cry not all the time but at times......i feel lost and alone and dont want to meet anyone just yet........but how do i not feel this way anymore.......and why was it so damm easy for him to move on?

2006-10-15 12:36:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to his children as warning signs? Would you even date someone like that? He has no contact with his kids becuz his ex's took them away and instead of fighting he filed bankruptcy and gave up custody? This sounds bad doesn't it?

2006-10-15 12:36:30 · 11 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating