to his children as warning signs? Would you even date someone like that? He has no contact with his kids becuz his ex's took them away and instead of fighting he filed bankruptcy and gave up custody? This sounds bad doesn't it?
2006-10-15 12:36:30 · 11 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a loser...for real!
2006-10-15 12:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't take this guy and neither should you. Three failed marriages, filing bankruptcy, and giving up his parental rights are very strong waring signs. If this man had wanted to see his children then he could have. People divorce everyday and not give up parental rights. This man gets married, have children then don't want neither. He gave up his parental so he wouldn't have to pay child support or be obligated to his children in any way. and filed bankruptcy so he wouldn't have to make a settlement with any of his wives and now he's blaming everything on his ex's. He doesn't know what love and committment is. This not only sounds bad, it is bad. This guy will mistreat you the same way. If you don't want to get hurt and used then stay away.
2006-10-15 13:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would see it as a warning flag if this guy has been married 3 times and gave up his parental rights, first of all if he was a good guy and nothing was wrong with him underneath then why would he be divorced 3 times. His x must have a good reason for not allowing contact between him and them, it's irresponsiblity he gave his rights up and he obvisouly didn't love them because he didn't try and fight for them from what your saying. This is bad and would leave this guy alone before you get any more serious with him. I have a good example using myself, I was dating a guy for 7 months and he did tell me he was a father of 2 sons and have been divorced once or twice I forgot which he said but come to find out while we were dating he was married and in the middle of a divorce with her and the prior marrage was with his sons mother but she left him, and I see now why, he is a cheater not only was he married but he cheated with 4 other people, so he was telling me how terrible she was when in fact he was the reason why the marriages didn't work out.
2006-10-15 12:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seem this guy has issues still to deal with he might feel the kids are better without him in their life but later they may dislike there father for what he did. He also can't seem to keep a relationship going another red flag hes got to take care of him before he can get into any relationship for the future. He might be verbal abuser gotta be reasons why they divorced him if hes unfaithful run fast and good luck finding the right man.
2006-10-15 12:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by wildrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing his kids has NOTHING to do with 'custody'. Unless the courts removed his parental rights, he still has visitation. If he a: chooses not to see them or b: the courts DID remove his parental rights, he sounds like a total loser.
Just remember, those could be YOUR kids with a dad that doesn't want to see them in a couple of years.
2006-10-15 12:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"If he supplies up his parental rights does he might desire to pay toddler help?" That relies upon on the state he lives in. In California the respond is certain, giving up parental rights does no longer mean giving up helping the toddler except somebody else helps that toddler (like if a mom remarries and her husband adopts the toddler). the only element this "buddy" can do is to be certain his felony expert, might desire to have achieved that countless years in the past of course. in spite of the indisputable fact that he needs to bear in mind that toddler help isn't value for visitation. only because of the fact he pays toddler help would not immediately recommend hea receives visitation. lower back he has to communicate this together with his felony expert whidh is what he might desire to have achieved approximately 9 years in the past...
2016-12-16 08:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by mcgeehee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep it does sound bad! You have to look at someone for who they are....but you also have to look at the choices they make. Because ultimately the choices we make steer where our lives end up. There may be history and circumstances with his situation, but honestly......it takes a bigger man to fight and stand up for what he wants than to run away & palm off responsibility. And it looks as though this guy is running.....the phrase 'commitment-phobe' comes to mind....dont sell yourself short - find a man who is worth investing your time, feelings & trust in.
2006-10-15 13:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by bellajezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um..sounds like a loser.like he doesnt have his stuff together.the fact that you are questioning it should be enough validation, you think?dont end up the 4th ex wife with kids.im sure you can do better.thats too messy
2006-10-15 12:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by cherokee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely take these as warning signs.
2006-10-15 12:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run girl, this looser might be contagious!
2006-10-15 12:40:19 · answer #10 · answered by heyitsdrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋