I've talked to my bf so many times, but he still won't tell me the truth. My cousin's girlfriend is my boyfriend's sister, so I even asked my cousin to talk and spy on my bf. And my cousin, who is more like a brother to me, always tell me everything, but he can't seem to get anything out of him. Plus, my boyfriend doesn't even have time for me anymore. What should I do?
2006-10-15 12:44:09 · 24 answers · asked by beford95 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've talked to my bf so many times, but he still won't tell me the truth. My cousin's girlfriend is my boyfriend's sister, so I even asked my cousin to talk and spy on my bf. And my cousin, who is more like a brother to me, always tell me everything, but he can't seem to get anything out of him. Plus, my boyfriend doesn't even have time for me anymore. What should I do? I just really really don't want to leave him. Any ideas on how to find out if he is without breaking up with him? Him and I don't go to the same school, so yeah. He lives in Winfield, KS and I live in Wichita, KS. But we see each other all the time.
2006-10-15 12:53:47 · update #1
I just really really don't want to leave him. Any ideas on how to find out if he is without breaking up with him? Him and I don't go to the same school, so yeah. He lives in Winfield, KS and I live in Wichita, KS. But we see each other all the time.
2006-10-15 12:54:11 · update #2
It doesn't seem like you have any "real" proof that he's cheating on you. So you need to get over it until you do, because PARANOIA WILL DESTROY YA.
If you honestly feel he's cheating on you, leave him... why even think about staying with someone who is? There a million more guys out there.
2006-10-15 12:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by PrettyProblem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know it seems like you want him to say he is cheating, because after countless talks with him about it, and you sending your cousin to spy. Nothing has turned up, and you said it yourself. "He won't tell me the "truth"." Well it seems you want the truth to be that he is cheating on you. I mean I haven't heard you say that you believe him, and if he want to believe that he is cheating on you, and nothing else then why bother asking the question "Is my boyfriend cheating on me". I mean no offense, but it doesn't seem like you are leaving another option of him not cheating.
2006-10-15 13:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him! you deserve better, dont waste your time on someone that doesnt respect you enough to tell you the truth. Let him go, and move on. Yes its easier said than done, but you dont want to end up miserable and depressed later. You have to do whats right for you girl and he is obviously not!! Good Luck!
2006-10-15 12:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that you know the 'truth' why bother asking him. You havent said what makes you think he is cheating on you. If he has done it before chances are he will do it again. It sounds like you are using so much negative energy in this relationship...it cant be healthy for you.
2006-10-15 12:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by sass_blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is cheating, but I am in my thirties and don't know what goes through a teenagers mind these days. He may just want his space for whatever reason. Try telling him that if he's cheating it's ok..you would just like to know. If he confesses then he's a fool, but at least you'll know.
2006-10-15 12:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by crazylifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with what your heart tells you.If you two have been together for awhile then you should know him better than anyone.Your cousin wont tell you anything because he does't want to hurt your feelings.
2006-10-15 12:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by angelicsunrise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he's just busy, but more than likely if you feel suspicious about his infidelity, I'd be willing to bet that you're right. Ask him. Don't send spies out on him. Call him out on it.
2006-10-15 12:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by lakeviewcubbiegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you have no time for him either, send him to H#%& and find another boyfriend that will appreciate you more than the punk you dayte.
2006-10-15 12:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by Nikolas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think that you might have pushed him away with the accusing him of cheating guys are really sensitive when it comes to that and they are not really cheating because theu see it as you see them like everyone else
2006-10-15 12:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new cousin, and a new boyfriend. Well you can keep the cousin
2006-10-15 12:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by nemraC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋