Girls, you know what I'm talking about. All our friends have put themselves out there and found the perfect guy, and we feel pressured to do so also. So we go out with someone just to be in a relationship. Is this ok, or this is pointless like I think it is?
2006-10-15 12:37:55 · 13 answers · asked by Bethany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree, it's pointless to try for a relationship just to have one. Don't get me wrong; if an awesome guy suddenly drops into my lap, I'm not going to toss him off. I have little enough time to work and have fun. Why waste time actively looking for someone? I believe the right one will show up on the path you make for yourself.
2006-10-15 12:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by Brianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'ts pointless. Just do what i do...give up. I've been hurt so many times that one more would kill me so I stopped dating. Now I'm alone, I do what I want. I get to eat in bed, smoke in the house and when I go out, I can sit at the bar and no one bothers me with a joke or conversation all the time I'm there...it's great. (cry)
2006-10-15 19:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by Brother Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pointless, definitely. You shouldn't date just to keep up with your friends. If you genuinely want to be in a relationship, that's something else.
2006-10-15 21:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is pointless due to the fact that you are miserable with, most of the time, the person you found.
2006-10-15 19:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by cfoxwell99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is pointless. also to like a guy but then not give him a chance because of what ur friends think...we girls are pretty weird. but mostly pretty.! =D
2006-10-15 19:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by *~JeS~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's okay. I've began something similar and it just feels all wrong that I get naseous. I'd rather be the single girl... (which isn't so bad because I wouldn't date any of the men my girlfriends are with anyway..!)
2006-10-15 19:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by jami p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's pretty much pointless like you think it is.
2006-10-15 19:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by No O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why follow the leader. Do what is comfortable for yourself. If you don't want a boyfriend, tell your friends that that is not what you want to do right now with your life
2006-10-15 19:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pointless
2006-10-15 19:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do the same thing because we don't want to be single. It isn't just a girl problem
2006-10-15 19:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋