Family & Relationships - 15 October 2006

I just got a BF!!!! So exciting and I need pet names. We are both 11 and we are not too young. No sex or kissing (maybe on the cheek) but it would be like on group dates to Friendly's or something.


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2006-10-15 13:06:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my guy have dated for almost 3 months now. It seems like he gets more flirtacious, attentive, and affectionate with me the more we have been together. He even has done little things that I didn't expect like getting me roses for every month we've been together and just recently took me to an aquarium, a concert, and a zoo in a two day period (a vacation he called it) and got a hotel with a jaccuzzi in it. If a man is like this when dating, does it usually carry on into marriage or does it usually stop?

2006-10-15 13:05:44 · 10 answers · asked by computergirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 13:05:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my question isnt what i should do obviously that is nothing. my question is should i feel bad...........and why or whynot

2006-10-15 13:04:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, i was curious because ive noticed some girls go for assholes and others for the nicest person in the world.. But, i personally am a mix of both, respect women alot, yet, i can be an *** (in playful ways).. it seeems that thats always served me perfectly.. but what exactly do you girls see in somone that treats you like garbage i never understood that.. yet a few girls i know have fallen for that...

2006-10-15 13:04:45 · 10 answers · asked by re33b9 2 in Singles & Dating

so how do you know?

2006-10-15 13:04:21 · 8 answers · asked by Migumi 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in about 7 weeks and we have not yet bought our unity candles for our ceremony. Is it okay to use my sister's unity candles that she used at her wedding a couple of years ago?

2006-10-15 13:04:19 · 18 answers · asked by Tiffany P 2 in Weddings

What should I do if this guy likes me but I dont like him and I dont want to tell him because I dont want to break his heart??????!!!!!!!!

2006-10-15 13:03:43 · 15 answers · asked by Jasmine 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for four months and i love him. I just got out of a six year relationship but my new bf wants us to move in together. Im not ready..reason being i just want to give myself time before moving in with someone new. he does travel with his job and only four days a month but i honestly dont even want to share a household with him. he feels im holding back feelings and refuses to accept i dont want us living together right now? what should i do? ive suggested we both get our own places and still be a couple but its like thats not good enough for him..and he is saying he wants TO BUILD something with me...im really confused..what should i do guys?

2006-10-15 13:03:32 · 6 answers · asked by confusedinlove 1 in Singles & Dating

I lived in one city for a while and got very attached to it. Then suddenly my parents forced me to move to this new place because the schools are supposedly better. And all the while I've been here, I can't help but notice everyone is fake. This city has a reputation for being high class, but all the kids at my school pretend they are real gangsta and act like hoodlums.

The previous area I lived in wasn't a ghetto or anything but it was a lot more lower-class. Even the people there didn't try to act as hard though, so I can tell these people are just acting. These people are made of $$, but they refuse to act like who they really are.

I know this doesn't sound like a crisis, but being a teenager, sometimes these things matter. My parents say my main priority should be school and there shouldn't be anything else to worry about. But I can't cope with these idiots anymore. I don't fit in.

Am I just being judgemental or would you be irritated as well?

2006-10-15 13:02:33 · 4 answers · asked by lmiitsoslx3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months. Neither of our parents live in the same city as we do. His live about 12 hours away and mine about 8. With the holidays coming up, I'm just wondering if I should expect an invitation to go home with him? If not, should my feelings be hurt?

2006-10-15 13:02:28 · 3 answers · asked by jacket1996 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 13:02:05 · 7 answers · asked by candy 1 in Singles & Dating

I made a promise to myself ever since I was a young girl to remain a virgin til I get married, but I'm starting to question it. I'm 21 and I have not even gone past kissing. I think I'm starting to get more curious... I always get hit on by guys who think I'm beautiful and some don't even believe me when they find out I'm a virgin. I guess cuz some guys have said I have naughty eyes, big lips, and curves. I still wanna be picky with guys, my last boyfriend ended it and I think the "no sex" was probably a factor, I liked him a lot and I was hurt. Should I start to go past kissing & eventually lead to sex with the right guy or should I just save sex for marriage?

2006-10-15 13:01:38 · 30 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

I started talkiing to this amazing girl like 2 months ago. We met on myspace and we started talking on the phone after the first week. We have many things in common and we love talking to each other. She lives like 5 minutes away from me, but she goes to college like 11 hours away. She is coming back this week for a four day break. We are going to go out and i was trying to think of ways to make a good impression. I'm going to bring her flowers, but i want some other ideas. I really like this girl cuz we have alot in common and i love talking to her. i will take in suggestions on what to do or where to go. It doesnt matter. Thanks

2006-10-15 13:01:08 · 2 answers · asked by RYAN 1 in Singles & Dating

I got a phone call from a female I have been dating now for the past couple of months about a half a dozen times now and usually talk daily now....Now, we are still considered dating due to not having the talk yet as far as going to the next stage, which I am hopefully we will have here someday very soon like within the next date or two Im thinking...anyhow, my question right now is if I call her tonight just to check in and see how she is doing....Im sure I might get her voicemail but could I leave a message saying that I am just thinking about her and checking in to see how she is doing....and not to worry about calling back if she doesn't feel up to it and that I just hope she feels better soon.

Is that too weird you think from her perspective from a dating friend right now...or is that okay. Now this morning I already mentioned to her to call and let me know if she needed anything at all...so i don't see a need to mention that again....Any suggestions are helpful.

2006-10-15 13:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by chewey 2 in Singles & Dating

Where would you put it on a scale of 1-10?

2006-10-15 13:00:23 · 28 answers · asked by 6-Pack? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have had bad relationships in the past where the men I was with told me that I was fat and ugly, and now when my husband tells me I'm pretty all I can say is yeah right your lying. What can I do to build up my self esteem?

2006-10-15 13:00:06 · 13 answers · asked by Cathleen Spencer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy and hes been doin sum nice stuff 2 me lately and im not shur if hes telling me he likes me or hes just bein nice

2006-10-15 12:59:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we was together 4 a month then he just stopped talkin 2 me or sayin hi 2 me in da morning it kinda made me mad and pissed off so i don't know what is happening with my relationship.

2006-10-15 12:58:41 · 12 answers · asked by Angelic Blue Princess 1 in Singles & Dating

I just got out of a 3 year marriage. I stopped loving my husband 2 years ago. My highschool sweetheart and I had a serious relatinship for 9 years on and off. So he came over 2 months after the divorce.
I told him I wanted to try our relationship again, we had a love that was like a movie, and he's single and I'm single. He responded by saying"the man u knew is dead. I am a new man, and I've been hurt too many times and I don't want a serious relationship".
So, he spent the night after our talk(we did not have sex), and all night long he held me in his arms. I am still so in love with him, and I want to be with him. He left this morning, and hasn't called since. Should I just move on, or keep trying to get my man?
He said he just wants to be friends, but I know there's more to us.

2006-10-15 12:57:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am dating this guy and we love each other but we seem to always have bumps in the relationship as far as arguing sometimes he does have my back whenever I need him and he great with my son, Basically I am wondering if there is so many obstacles is this relationship worth going any further or do I need to just be patient .....Help

2006-10-15 12:56:38 · 23 answers · asked by Neek-Neek 3 in Singles & Dating

only serious replies please

2006-10-15 12:56:20 · 31 answers · asked by CaramelSundae 2 in Weddings

my bf and i broke up like 6 months ago. while we were apart i found out that in the wayyy beginning of our relationship, he slept with some girl. i was really angry bc even tho at the time he "cheated" we werent exclusive i had stayed exclusive bc i liked him a lot and i had thought he had too..

current day: he begged for me back, and i told him i didnt really mind anymore about everything, and now we are talkign again...

the thing is, even tho i told him i dont care, im mad about it, and i get upset almost everyday when i think about it.. picturing them together etc. i dotn want to make a big deal of it again bc last time that happened we didnt talk for motnhs.

i guess my questions are 1) what should i do and 2) how do i get this anger and sadness about what happened to go away?

2006-10-15 12:56:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What would she be like?

2006-10-15 12:55:59 · 4 answers · asked by teeny r 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Say the offense wasn't a serious one and they were only in jail for 2 years.....do you think they have a chance of being a better person for spending time in jail?

2006-10-15 12:55:14 · 29 answers · asked by Janet _agnetha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy that wouldn't leave me alone, so I told him to leave me alone and he did, kind of. He left me alone but then asked my ex-boyfriend a whole bunch of questions about me (ex: what's here phone number? where's she live? does she have a favorite resteraunt? etc.) What should I do? I mean, isn't that not leaving me alone? The guy also used to stalk me when he could and kept on staring at me. And yes, I know directly from him that he likes me and (quote) "can't stop thinking about me." Please give me any advice or opinions you have pronto, I'd really appreciate any help at all. Thanks in advance.

2006-10-15 12:54:53 · 5 answers · asked by Brecka 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Halitosis is the grossist. Right?

2006-10-15 12:54:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not paying child support for our 2 sons that i fukky take GOOD care of. he left the state because he said he couldn't take the fact that i moved on and am seeing someone whom respects me and my boys and we are enjoying it. to date he has not given me any support for them this year. i do have a cout order, sometimes i am soooo angry because he is not helping. he calls them 1x per week fro 30 seconds a piece. what should i do?

2006-10-15 12:54:40 · 8 answers · asked by blackbeauty1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was in a teen nightclub last night with friends and a group of austrailian army guys (they are here for 3 weeks) came and danced with us. the guy i danced with was sweet and respectful. he stayed with me for hours dancing and talking. i really regret not giving him my number or anything, and i didnt even catch his last name. is there any way or hope of finding him again? thanks!

2006-10-15 12:54:21 · 4 answers · asked by lizzyb 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 12:54:03 · 9 answers · asked by khalifa 1 in Singles & Dating