not paying child support for our 2 sons that i fukky take GOOD care of. he left the state because he said he couldn't take the fact that i moved on and am seeing someone whom respects me and my boys and we are enjoying it. to date he has not given me any support for them this year. i do have a cout order, sometimes i am soooo angry because he is not helping. he calls them 1x per week fro 30 seconds a piece. what should i do?
2006-10-15 12:54:40 · 8 answers · asked by blackbeauty1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Been There for 16 years with EX !!!!
He's not very smart because that child support is just accumulating and he will owe you the back support if he's old and your boys are over 18. Some states won't renew his drivers license if there is a large arrearage and bench warrant on him!!!
Just remember...it will catch up to him!!
Try not to think about it..You will probably get lump sums from when he goes to jail or his income tax.
Never talk about him in a bad way in front of your boys; they will see for themselves when they are old enough!
If you can get addresses for his home or employers; get them to your F.O.C. enforcer and work with them!
They're your only hope for getting the child support!!!
Let them know you want enforcement for his non payment!!
When they set a court date for a show cause hearing they will either A. Put a bench warrant out for him failing to appear or B. demand $ right there or he'll go to jail!
There are alot of dead beat fathers out there, your not alone!!
Good Luck to you..
2006-10-15 13:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out from the courts what you can do about the deadbeat. Surely they can take his income tax refund or garnish part of his wages. One thing though, speaking as a male who pays support try to leave the guy with enough money to have a life. It'll save tons of bad feelings down the road.
2006-10-15 13:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact the state office of recovery services, they will need a copy of the court order. Once they open a file on him and locate him they will start trying to collect the money/garnish his wages. They can also seize tax returns and also seize bank accounts. Good luck but remember after you are done being bitter, he IS your kids' dad and they will remember how you deal with him.
2006-10-15 12:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect you cant take to the store are pay bills with dont throw that up to him about the other guy talk with him and let him know you will if need to in force the child support how ever you cant force him to call are visit good luck
2006-10-15 13:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a court order, talk to your attorney. He could be held in contempt of court and his wages could be garnished (sp). Don't let his cheat his boys out of things because he's too cheap to voluntarily sent a check. The courts will be happy to get the money from him and send it to you.
Good luck
2006-10-15 13:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go through the system. It's the best way if he skipped to another state. They will find him no matter where he is as long as he has a job.
2006-10-15 13:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the child support division- the can garnish his wages
2006-10-15 12:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by gabby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel similar situation even though its been 4 years since we departed he still does the same crap but there is something that gets me through--------------------GOD PLEASE JUST KEEP PRAYING FOR your kids and yourself
2006-10-15 13:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by lilsis2576 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋