I got a phone call from a female I have been dating now for the past couple of months about a half a dozen times now and usually talk daily now....Now, we are still considered dating due to not having the talk yet as far as going to the next stage, which I am hopefully we will have here someday very soon like within the next date or two Im thinking...anyhow, my question right now is if I call her tonight just to check in and see how she is doing....Im sure I might get her voicemail but could I leave a message saying that I am just thinking about her and checking in to see how she is doing....and not to worry about calling back if she doesn't feel up to it and that I just hope she feels better soon.
Is that too weird you think from her perspective from a dating friend right now...or is that okay. Now this morning I already mentioned to her to call and let me know if she needed anything at all...so i don't see a need to mention that again....Any suggestions are helpful.
2006-10-15 13:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by chewey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I originally talked to her this morning
2006-10-15 13:01:07 · update #1
I think this is a good time to call her and ask how she feels. It is one way to show her that she has been on your mind today even though she has been ill. Use this as a way to indicate you are ready to move forward with the relationship. Women are suckers for men who worry about them when they are sick.
2006-10-15 13:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman you know that emotions can be hard to deal with. You say that you want to call her, I would not call her tonight,because you will seem desperate. I think if she really cares for you other than a friend, then I would let HER come to YOU. If this doesn't work out, then there is alot more people that deserve you more than what she does. Good Luck
2006-10-15 20:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go with your gut. You already asked this am and maybe she is just the kind of person when she's sick she wants to be left alone. However if you call her, she will think it's nice that you have been worried about her. Don't wait too late to call, you may wake her.
2006-10-15 20:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes call. Say exactly what you just did, about thinking of her, hope she is feeling better, you are on the right track
2006-10-15 20:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by Lees' 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be obsessive......you sound like you are headed that way, so don't get all crazy or might just scare her off.
2006-10-15 20:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that seems fine.
2006-10-15 20:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call her and ask how she is doing...dont be a stalker though
2006-10-15 20:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its sweet , don't think you are smothering her! check with her next time you see her :-)
2006-10-15 20:13:15 · answer #8 · answered by chandra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋