Well, i was curious because ive noticed some girls go for assholes and others for the nicest person in the world.. But, i personally am a mix of both, respect women alot, yet, i can be an *** (in playful ways).. it seeems that thats always served me perfectly.. but what exactly do you girls see in somone that treats you like garbage i never understood that.. yet a few girls i know have fallen for that...
2006-10-15 13:04:45 · 10 answers · asked by re33b9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason girls like bad boys, is because they seem to be emotionally strong, adventerous and not needy. That is the important part, needy. Bad boys typically don't need anything from a girl expect some action. That is what really attracts them to Bad Boys. Girls don't like guys that need them, it is ok to want them, but there is a fine line before you become the guy that needs her in your life.
They really don't like guys that are *******, they like the fact that they don't pretend to be nice to them to get close to them. When they treat them bad or talk down to them, it shows they are not needy and are emotionally secure with their life.
There is nothing worse than a guy that tries to be a bad boy to get chicks.
Your best approach: Be nice, be a gentlemen but treat a girl like she is lucky to get some of your time, like you have plenty of girls that want to go out with you, but you just want to know more about this one. you DON'T NEED to be with her.
And don't forget that, just because she is showinig you extra attention. Keep that attitude until you know for a fact that she is 90% into you and wouldn't leave you for some other dude, then you can show her your good guy emotional side.
2006-10-16 05:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion i think that for the most part some girls don't feel that they deserve better, and some may feel that some attention even bad is better than no attention at all. If a man really cares about you he will treat you with respect. But you have to respect yourself in order to get respect
2006-10-15 13:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Thumper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some of us like bad guys that are good. Meaning he would kick someone *** if needed, but then he is good to his women. They don't want a man who is good to them, but then he's a punk and scared to take up for her.
2006-10-15 13:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by Heaven 2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it has to do with opposites attract, if a girl sees a bad boy, she might what to see what he's like, and why he acts the way he does.
i'll admit i've treated a few boys badly, im not going to hide that.
2006-10-15 13:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it depends on who their father is. If you have a good father youll go for a good guy. If your father treated your mother like S*** than theyll probably go for that because thats all they know.
2006-10-15 13:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by katie t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the girl and where they are in their life. if they really are looking for a long term relationship they'll generally go for the nicer guy who seems more likely to stick around and treat her well, also a guy who won't bore he to tears.
2006-10-15 13:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lil bit of both
and i would never go for a guy who treated me like garbage
2006-10-15 13:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chicks like bad guys whats more romantic then riding in the back of a police car together....
2006-10-15 13:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a stupid glad in females. They go after the bad guys thinking they can change them.....What Fools!!!!!!!
2006-10-15 13:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good girls like bad boys
some one though me that and u can't change them
they are dumb that's how they are
2006-10-15 13:22:36 · answer #10 · answered by Oscar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋