what if you been with this person for 6 yrs 5 of them years was lovely and this year its been hell . he made a mistake and i took him back and i thought he wasnt never going to change so i made a mistake and he took me back and i finally got a apartment and ive been in it for 5 months and he havent spent one night with me. we broke up so many times but we right back together . he stress me out so bad . i went to the doctor and they put me on lexapro and it made me feel worse so i stop taking it and i just try to keep my head on good things but every night when i go to bed i will roll over and no one there and i would just cry cry cry and loose more weight every time i cry and i only weigh 125. WHAT WOULD U DO
2006-10-15 12:49:52 · 12 answers · asked by t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart, oh my goodness this sounds too familiar. I too was in a similar situation. My doctor put me on lexapro, i was down to about 110pounds and i cryed more than i ever did in my entire life during that time. I too thought that going to sleep in an empty bed was the worst thing in the world, until i realized that its not! So this is what you do. . . GET RID OF HIM NOW!!!! Stop taking those meds (because you dont need them and they gave me the shakes!) and get on your knees and pray to God for help and strength to get through this. Now its time to work on you! If you dont love yourself, you cannot expect anyone else to. You need to work on your self esteem and confidence. Just walk away now, with you head held high while you can! Yes it is easier said than done, and yes your gonna feel like crap for a bit of time, and yes your gonna cry alot. But this wont last forever! You need to move on and focus on you! Be strong, be beautiful, and be confident.
Men change like the weather girl, so forget about him. There are plenty more to choose from, and the right man, a good man will come along when you least expect it. Its been 2 1/2 years since my break up, and i have been blessed with a wonderful man who completely adores me. Things that i never expected are happening in my life since the breakup. So no worries sweetie, it will get better, but only if you allow it to. Good Luck. . .
2006-10-15 13:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your submitting yourself to a neverending heartbreak. save up some money and get an apartment as soon as you can, it sounds like you are there to meet him halfway and he can't physically come home to share the bed!! Also, you guys have been together long enough for him to know whether or not he wants to marry you. guaranteed you would have said yes to marriage 2 yrs ago... you are probably being used. get yourself out of this because it won't get better... i have had many friends go through this.
and when you leave, take a big breath of fresh air!! you have so much ahead of you and life just doesn't have to be that crappy.you'll find someone who will share love with you.
God Bless you and take care of yourself-don't become a pitiful self-made martyr!
2006-10-15 19:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about this man.......move on but not with another man just to make you feel better you don't need that right now!
I suggest you go out with your girls and have a girly night out...start enjoying life again, socializing with the people that matter.
Dont worry about how much u weigh once you get to your happy zone again you will put on some weight.
You will feel great after time.....time is a healer
2006-10-15 20:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by hunybuny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go find me a new man that would treat me right and say "so long loser your lose" to the boyfriend. Live and learn from your mistakes. He's probably spending his nights with his other mistakes. Once you loose that trust thing it's really hard to get back!!!
2006-10-15 19:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pray to the Lord, because that kind of hurting is not easy to go away fast, only God can heal your heart, and make things new inside you, you just have to ask him, and pray to him. He will calm the storm inside, just throw your hands to the sky, because if you are weak he can give you the strength to go on. Dont give up! if you let GOd into your heart, you will find peace and live happy.
2006-10-15 20:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by nadie entendia mi nick asi que lo cambie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a similar relationship. Trust me, just let his *** go. You two were together 6 years, that means he's very used to how you are. It's too late to change now. Move on girl.
2006-10-15 19:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by dipzet21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you weigh 125, that's ok!
Now get rid of this looser and find a new man. He's not worth crying over, so come see me and I'll make you smile, laugh and before you know it, no more tears.
2006-10-15 19:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRAY! the lord will lead you thorugh anything. i could easily say dump him but im in the same boat as you and my heart tells me differently. so all i can say is to pray about it long and hard. if that doesn't help just move on there are so many goods on still left.
2006-10-15 19:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well bay..honestly..u'll neva fill that hole in your heart unless you give your life to God....i know how u feel,, been there...but i've found out that no ones loves me like jesus...4real....thats the truth..so ur life will get right..and better and God will put the right person in ur path..who'll treat u how u need to be treated and want to be.....understand...so if u didnt kno...now u can kno that someone out there is prayin for you...cuz i am.
God bless...
Prozpera"D"....
real name Ricardo....u can check me out at my-space- the after the ,com its/prozperad
2006-10-15 19:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel so bad for you, its like you give your best and he is afraid of comitment.
well there are to good answers to that.
1) try to do somthing that will atract him, to make him pay atention to you.
2)leave him, he is hurting you.
you are worth way more then that.
2006-10-15 19:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by cyclon613 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋