Family & Relationships - 14 October 2006

2006-10-14 03:20:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 03:18:25 · 14 answers · asked by Bubbles 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is a guy, but we still do normal best friend stuff, like sleep over eachother's houses. Well, a lot of the time, after the light is turned out, I can hear him masturbating in his sleeping bag. Should I just ignore it or....what?

2006-10-14 03:18:11 · 14 answers · asked by Jessica 3 in Friends

2006-10-14 03:10:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi my name is Jen and iam 15 years old , my crush's name is Nick and he plays varsity football.... He was new to my school and he was only in my morning metting room.. So on his first day i said hi and asked him where he was from.. Then he told me if I could show him around school.. so ofcourse .. i did..... Then 2 weeks passed and he saw me cleaning the teachers desk and since then he teases me and calls me Janitor... we usually flirt around by dissing each other but we laugh and we always keep eye contact.. One day we were playing around and he came over to me and said iam going to beat u up and choke u.. but he was just playing... he went over to my desk and put his arms around my neck but it was more like a hug...Then that same day he arrives at my locker in the afternoon and i turned around and i said u freaking scared me so he said oh so u dont want me to be here and i said no i didnt say that.. Then he said see ya around... b/c he knows we live one street away... He asked me if i was going to the football game and i said maybe.. i just dont have no one to go with.. so he said if i wasnt playing in the game i wouldve gone with u to spend time... so then today night was the game and i saw his couch screaming at him but i realized he was looking at me instead of the coach.. so he was staring at me and i stared back......next week.. i was trying to talk to his friend and he kept interrupting me... and i told him your so mean and he said .... Iam sorry.... The he told his friend that i wanted to ask him out.... then his friend said i know who u wanna ask out and he turned red..
Do u think iam the person he likes? but therefore iam not sure if he does b/c he gives me mixed signals.. like today he said ... oh u say hi to my friend but u dont say hi to me.... but then he calls me a tellytubby.. in other ways isnt he calling me fat? iam confused.... well today... i wrote him a note saying if he could encourage me to run. and he said well i have football everyday but ill try. Then he asked his friend and said should I or should i not? and his friend said idk. so then he said maybe on sunday. so i said how will i know? and he said why do u want my number ..... and i said no.... Then i saw him in the hall way and i gave him a note with my #... So what do u think?? he's gonna call or not?
well guess what he called me... and we were getting to know our interest in things... and he wants to come over my house to play video games.... also we were playing around and i was like why dont u make me shut up.. and he said the only simple way of doing that is if id kiss u... and i said why do u want to ... and he said only if youd let me... so today iam going to call him and said that it is k to come to my house cause i asked my mom and she said yes... :)

2006-10-14 03:10:21 · 5 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

who is petite and small chested or a bigger girl with a rack to match?

2006-10-14 03:08:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

help me by how to talk to a boy cuz i do not like to tell a boy that he is cute but i think i am rady to start so tell me how you like a gril to tell you that you are cute

2006-10-14 03:06:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend and she's nice, but she sometimes tends to get bored while im with her...as we are two12 year olds, we're not allowed to go on a walk together or anything and she hardly goes to the pub , (they allow kids)... and i've also had a sleepover and it wasn't awfully exciting.. what can I do to build up a bit more excitement between us? and what fun things can we do?

2006-10-14 03:06:21 · 19 answers · asked by ♥HELLO♥ 2 in Friends

I just broke up with my fiancee because of diferences, arguments, etc. We are both in pain from this & both still love each other but know now is not the time for US. I miss being intimate with her & really want to have sex with her. How do I talk to her about this without giving her any implications that I want to get back together with her right now, or without offending her? Should I just walk away & forget it for now? I know this is part of relationship withdrawal but I can't stop thinking about the times we were intimate and it is driving me crazy. I want her so bad. HELP!

2006-10-14 03:06:15 · 15 answers · asked by fletcher333 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Where i'm at it's Saturday morning and I'm stuck at work :S...i wish i wasn't here. What are you guys up to today besides being on Yahoo Q/A...

2006-10-14 03:05:23 · 23 answers · asked by Miss Thang 6 in Friends

Me and my wife dont have kids. We are steadily losing our friends however, because we are at the age where they are all having kids, and whenever we get together now all they can talk about it their wonderful children. Some of them also dont discipline their children at all, and I find it very annoying, which is why we stopped visiting. We cant have kids, but we are both professionals working with children. We certainly dont expect other people's children to be perfect little angels, but we feel that our friends have stopped paying attention to our friendship. We find that because we dont have kids we always have to compromise and visit them "because its easier". Even though they have kids, and I know its not easy, shouldnt they also make an effort?

2006-10-14 03:04:02 · 5 answers · asked by shakespear 3 in Family

anyone know about custody cases or went thru one?
OK I HAVE BEEN CUSTODIAL PARENT FOR 10 1/2 YRS HE HAD PARTIAL HE ONLY WANTED TO BE WITH HIS KIDS ON HIS WEEKEND VISITS NEVER WANTED THEM MORE...HE WAS ONLY PAYING ME 50 AWEEK FOR FOUR BOYS FOR 10 YRS ,THE REASON WHY I ONLY RECIEVED 50 AWEEK WAS CAUSE HE TOLD ME HE WOULD GIVE UP HIS RIGHTS TO OUR BOYS I DIDNT WANT TO BE THE BLAME FOR THE KIDS NOT TO HAVE THERE FATHER SO I AGREED TO WHAT HE WANTED TO PAY .SO I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED FOR CUSTODY I GOT CUSTODIAL AND HE GOT PARTIAL HE AGREED TO EVERYTHING.IT WAS EVERY WEDNESDAY AND EVERYOTHER WEEKEND .WELL HE STUCK WITH IT FOR ABOUT A MONTH TOLD ME HE WAS DROPPING WEDNESDAYS CAUSE IT WAS TO MUCH.I GUESS IT WAS INTERFERING WITH HIS SINGLE LIFE I DIDNT CARE I HAD MORE TIME WITH MY SONS...I DID EVERYTHING DOC APPTS DENTIST ,ER RUNS WHEN THE BOYS GOT HURT I WOULD CALL HIM AND TELL HIM I WAS AT THE ER HE SAID WELL JUST CALL ME I AM SORRY BUT IF IT WAS ON THE OTHER END MY BUTT WOULD BE THERE .(RUNNING OUT OF ROOM WILL BE WRITING MORE)

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17 hours ago
LIKE I DID EVERYTHING AND STILL DO I TOOK CARE OF ALL OUR SONS NEEDS CLOTHES ,FOOD,SHELTER,DOCS,TOOK CARE OF THEM WHEN THEY WERE SICK WENT WITH MY ONE SON TO ALL HIS SURGERIES ETC....HIS FATHER DIDNT GO CAUSE HE SAID HE COULDNT GET OFF WORK TO BE THERE BUT THEN THE WEEK AFTER HIS FATHER WENT WITH HIS GF AND HER SON TO GET HIS FOOT CHECK BUT COULDNT BE THERE FOR HIS SONS SURGERY ON HIS KNEE AND IT WAS BAD.THIS IS THE FATHER AND GF THAT ACCUSED MY SON OF FAKING HIS INJURY WHOM HAD TO HAVE MAJOR SURGERY,ALSO THERE FATHER GRAB OUR SON BY THE THROAT AND YES I REPORTED TO THE DOCTORS AND SO ON HOPING THEY WOULD REPORT IT CAUSE I AM AFRAID OF MY EX HE WAS ABUSIVE TO ME WHILE WE WERE MARRIED I STILL FEARED HIM SO I WENT TO THE DOCS KNOWING THEY HAD TO REPORT IT .I DIDNT NEGLECT MY SON I HAD HIM CHECKED OUT AND TOLD THE DOC.JUST SO EVERYONE DOESNT THINK I AM A ROTTEN MOM I WANTED TO HURT HIM FOR HURTING MY SON .WELL MY TWO YOUNGER SONS STOPPED SEEING THERE FATHER SO HE STOPPED PAYING HIS CONTIN

17 hours ago
SO WHEN HE STOPPED PAYING HIS BIG 50 AWEEK WHICH DID NOT RAISE FOUR SONS I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED HIM FOR THE SUPPORT MY SONS NEEDED AND DESERVED WELL HE TURNED AROUND AND IS NOW TRYING TO SUE ME FOR CUSTODY WE WENT TO A COURT MEDIATOR WHO ORDER A HOME EVALUATION ...WE BOTH HAVE TO PAY 1050 WELL I PAID MY HALF ,HE DIDNT WE ARE GOING INFRONT OF A JUDGE THIS FRIDAY CAUSE HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT,,,,THIS IS A MAN WHOM IS STILL MARRIED TO HIS SECOND WIFE WHOM HE LEFT ONE NITE WENT TO A BAR AND NEVER WENT HOME LEFT HER WITH THERE 2 YR OLD SON AND SHE WAS 5 MONTHS PREGNANT...NOW HE IS SHACKED UP WITH HIS GF AND HER 2 KIDS IN A 2 BEDROOM HOME SHE HAS A 5 YR OLD GIRL WHOM SLEEPS IN THE BEDROOM WITH HIM AND HIS GF AND THE GF'S SON HAS HIS OWN ROOM HE IS 10 AND MY BOYS ARE ON THE LIVING ROOM FLOOR ...THEN WHEN HE GETS HIS SECOND SET OF CHILDREN FROM HIS WIFE THEY SLEEP IN THE BEDROOM WITH MY EX AND HIS GF ALSO THEY ARE 3YR OLD AND 1.

17 hours ago
MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM THE WAY HE FELT NOW THEY DONT SPEAK MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS EVERYTHING FROM WHAT HE DID TO ME AND MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS WHEN HE GRABBED HIM BY THE THROAT CAUSE HE WANTED TO QUIT BASEBALL,AND HE TOLD HIM HE REM WHEN HE GRABBED ME AND ALMOST CHOKED ME TO DEATH INFRONT OF HIM HE SAID DAD IF I WOULDNT HAVE SCREAMED YOU WOULD HAVE KILLED HER ,WELL MY EX TURNED TO HIM AND SAID YOUR MOM BEAT ME MY SON LAUGHED AND SAID DAD YOUR 6 1 300 PDS.MOM IS 5 6 160 AND I WAS THERE I REMEMBER IT ALL ...THEN HE TOLD MY EX ALL HE CARED ABOUT WAS HIS NEW GF AND HER KIDS WELL HE TOLD HIM THATS RITE THEY ARE MY LIFE NOW I HAVE NO OTHER LIFE THEN THEM .WELL THEY HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE FATHERS DAY....THEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF ABOUT HOW HE FELT TELLING HIS DAD HE DOESNT THINK ITS RIGHT FOR HIM TO TRY TO TAKE THEM FROM SOMEONE WHOM HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR THEM AND THE WOMEN WHO TOOK CARE OF US ON HER OWN FOR 10 YRS WITH NO HELP FROM YOU .

17 hours ago
I WAS SCARED WHEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF I SAID MAYBE YOU SHOULDNT HAVE SAID THAT THEY MIGHT USE THAT AGAINST ME MY SON SAID MOM HOW CAN THEY I SAID HOW I FELT...SO I CALLED MY ATTORNEY SHE SAID YOU CAN NOT CONTROL WHAT COMES OUT OF YOUR 14 YR OLDS MOUTH...WELL HE DIDNT PAY HIS HALF OF THE HOME EVAL SO HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT ,,I PAID MINE THAT SHOULD GO TO SHOW I LOVE MY KIDS AND WILL DO ANYTHING FOR THEM ....I WENT TO ALL THE SCHOOL MEETINGS AND WENT TO GET ALL MY BOYS HELP THAT THEY NEEDED ,,I HAVE TWO SONS WITH ADHD SO THEY STRUGGLE SO I GO TO THE SCHOOLS GET HELP OF COURSE HIS FAVORITE SAYING IS THEY DONT NEED ANY HELP THEY ARE JUST LAZY AND THEY NEED A FOOT IN THERE ***.

WELL ON XMAS VACATION LAST YR I ASKED FOR ANY KIND OF HOMEWORK THAT WILL HELP WITH THERE GRADES YOU KNOW MAKE UP WORK IT WAS STACKED FOR ALL MY SONS SO I ASKED AHOLE IF HE COULD HELP YEA HE HELPED I GOT A CALL FROM THE SCHOOL STATING THEY WOULDNT BE GETTING CREDIT I SAID WHY NOT

17 hours ago
CAUSE THE SCHOOL SAID THERE FATHER DID IT FOR THEM THE ONLY TIME IN 10 YRS I ASKED FOR HELP THAT IS WHAT I GOT...I AM SCARED I AM A GOOD MOM I DONT DRINK I DONT SMOKE I DO NOT GO OUT PARTYING UNLIKE HIM I STAY AT HOME WITH MY SONS THAT IS MY PLACE THAT IS WHERE I BELONG..THEY ARE MY LIFE....SO DO YOU THINK HE HAS ANY CHANCE...THANKS

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1 day ago
IM SORRY BUT I NEVER DID ANYTHING WRONG HE SUED ME CAUSE I SUED HIM FOR CHILD SUPPORT ..HE ONLY PAID ME 5O AWEEK FOR 10 YRS FOR FOUR BOYS THERE OLDER AND THEY NEED MORE ..I DID IT ON MY OWN FOR 10 1/2 YRS IF HE THINKS HIS BIG 50 AWEEK RAISED HIS SONS HE NEEDS TO GET A REALITY CHECK

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3 hours ago
MY KIDS AGES ARE 16 14 13 SORRY IF I DIDNT ADD THAT,,,THANKS

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4 days ago
well we were suppose to have a contempt hearing against him for not paying his half of the eval he never showed up neither did his attorney the judge rescheduled it for him to give him a second chance which i think is bs he started this cause i sued him now he wont pay the eval and didnt show up tellin the court he never got notice of the hearing come on his lawyer got it why wasnt he there.dont you think its kinda funny there is proof at the court house that his lawyer got the letter.

4 days ago
now the new date is oct 18th 130 pm lets see if he shows up

2 days ago
im sorry if some ppl think this question is getting old i would just like different views from ppl some ppl didnt get to see my post...i am sorry for the ones that keep ready my post...i am a mom worried about her kids someone that has taken care of them since 1996 then you have someone that didnt bother them all theses years that wants to take your kids from you cause you want child support cause they need more things as they get older ...im sorry if i got on anyone nerves with my posting

2006-10-14 03:03:09 · 11 answers · asked by tinalee1972 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need help with two gift ideas:

1. Wedding for my brother. Long Island Wedding. I am the Best Man as well and my wife is a bridesmaid. How much should we give for a gift? Should we provide a supplemental gift as well such as a crystal or just the cash?

2. Engagement party for an acquaintance/friend. I've known the guy for about a year. Never been to a engagement party so any help is appreciated.

Thanks for your help!

2006-10-14 03:02:16 · 12 answers · asked by AirDevil 4 in Weddings

My husband started working for a roustabout crew about two months ago, and he finally quit about a week ago because he has been diagnosed with general anxiety disorder and the job was too stressful because he was getting yelled at for everyone elses screw ups and tools were being thrown at him. anyway, when he quit the ex-boss and his wife went around town spreading rumors about him and about me. and they don't even know me. i barely even met them about two weeks before he quit. now, i am suppose to go and pick up his last check on monday and i am not sure if i should confront, just get the check, keep my mouth shut and walk away or what i should do. help me out guys, please. because i am not one to start a fight or really finish a fight unless i have to. what should i do?

2006-10-14 03:02:02 · 10 answers · asked by glamour girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm Having trust issues...my wife walked out last year saying she wasn't sure what she wanted anymore, she was gone for 3 months. This year we have moved into a new home, I have a new job and things seem to be going well, but I keep worrying she will go again and feel myself starting to brace for it...preparing for another split...how can I learn to trust her again, ive spoken to her and she says shes not going anywhere and not to worry...but if she done so once...help!

2006-10-14 03:00:35 · 26 answers · asked by Neil M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is a girl (i'm a guy) and we get on great, but some days in school we dont even talk. We are both 15 if that matters, and there have always been rumors flying around about us. Today for example, I only talked to her during the last 3 classes, before that we barely said hi. Also, the thing is that when we do talk she seems to be more honest with me, like if I ask her how she is she will tell me if she isnt feeling great (whereas with most other people she will just say fine or something). So, why do we not talk at all so often? With other girls whom arent as good friends with me, I can joke and mess with whenever I see them, but with her it is only if an actual conversational chance comes up, like if we are standing in the same group. (We don't just shout out hi to each other from accross the room--which I would with other people) Despite this she is my best friend, but I am just wondering why it is awkward sometimes.

2006-10-14 03:00:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl and im like really close friends with her but i want to make it more and i dont know if she is into me or not. here are some details....she is 14 i am 15 i talk to her on the phone every night i call her but if she doesnt answer she will always call me back. when we see each other neither of us cant help but smile. I get a ride to school but b4 i did (like 3 weeks ago) she always told me to save her a seat on the bus.we walk together to most of our classes. but the major problem is her boyfriend. this is the part that has me confused.... when i talk to her she always says how he never calls her and how mad it makes her. she also makes fun of him continuously...... i keep on giving her hints that im into her what do u think

2006-10-14 03:00:12 · 8 answers · asked by Tyler J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 02:59:42 · 13 answers · asked by Leah * 3 in Singles & Dating

there is a guy he has proposed me but how do i say him that i do not love him
he is doing engineering and i am a 8th std girl

2006-10-14 02:57:56 · 26 answers · asked by tannu 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 02:57:21 · 26 answers · asked by ladydunraven 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-14 02:56:07 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 02:55:57 · 18 answers · asked by Mike R 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i hava a bf. and i told him that if hu ever hangs up on me that , that would really hurt my feelings right . so 2 days ago he hung up on me .in da beginning of our relationship i told him what will happen if he did(witch would be not talkin to him 4 lika a couple of months or mayby a year depending on the person). he said he hung up because he was tired of what i had kept saying. but i told him theres other ways to deal with dat .. so i plan on calling him on da 1st of november. so is he wrong or am i wrong

2006-10-14 02:54:58 · 24 answers · asked by beautiful 1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-14 02:53:47 · 14 answers · asked by ashley_tisdale_12 1 in Family

Well,I'm jealuos but i have a friend named ashley she kind of looks like Ashley tisdale but even prettier well youknow pretty like my best friend is pretty i'm not leb.Anyways she catches all attention on boys (the mall,beach anywhere?And i do too but not as much as her cause she has biggggg boobs i told her and she said come here lets go to the beach and go swimming i said ''ok then let me go change''So me and her went to the beach and my friend was yelling at every boy in the beach to come to her i was out of it she is a dare devil,And she flashed to everyone SHE EVEN TOOK HER TOP AND BOTTOM BKINI OFF EVERY BOY WAS TAKING PICTURES,and she called out to me and said comehere look my nipple is getting bigger?________Should i be friends with her now???Do the boys like it?How would you feel if you were there?and watching her?Oh and she showed her hairy pajana it's so sickk

2006-10-14 02:52:21 · 24 answers · asked by srdutton12 1 in Friends

my wife always complain of her vagina hurting after we make love. why is this happening?

2006-10-14 02:52:07 · 3 answers · asked by werht 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi my name is Trevor and I am 24 years old. I always have trouble talking to girls. and if one day I meet the love of my life I really need to learn how to talk to a girl. So girls can please help me with how to start conversation with a girl and what do I talk to her about. Thank you.

2006-10-14 02:50:55 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I am planning to visit the USA sometime early next year and want to meet new people specially girls I am 26 and was wondering how do women from the USA find South African guys.I am light skinned (brown) and here we call ourselfs coulered it is not a racist remark here so please do not attack me but please answer the question

2006-10-14 02:50:41 · 2 answers · asked by Swordfish B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my daughter is nearly two. when ever we are around my husbands family eg his cousins, some aunties, and his brother and his fiance they make comments about my daughter. it is very fraustrating and when i go home after seeing them i am very stressed out. they seem to pick on her. they say things like temper, temper, temper! you wouldn't want anymore children with her. be nice! my daughter is a good kid but is very active i just dont understand why they all say these things she is very affectionate and does tend to like her hugs and this seems to scare some kids. there kids arent perfect so why is it that everyone will sit there and say nasty, stupid comments about my daughter and not others? is it cause they don't like her, or me or is it because they are jealous. i just feel that they all watch her like a hawk and then point out everthing she does. why dont they do it to the other kids that mis behave, dont share and cling to there mother or just winge for no reason.

2006-10-14 02:49:30 · 12 answers · asked by majjenta010 1 in Family

What i Mean is there tradition or costum in expressing their love...

2006-10-14 02:49:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating