I just broke up with my fiancee because of diferences, arguments, etc. We are both in pain from this & both still love each other but know now is not the time for US. I miss being intimate with her & really want to have sex with her. How do I talk to her about this without giving her any implications that I want to get back together with her right now, or without offending her? Should I just walk away & forget it for now? I know this is part of relationship withdrawal but I can't stop thinking about the times we were intimate and it is driving me crazy. I want her so bad. HELP!
2006-10-14 03:06:15 · 15 answers · asked by fletcher333 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you care about her feelings at all, you won't have sex with her. you need to focus on something else besides sex. get a new hobby, meet new friends and your feelings will subside.
2006-10-14 03:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going threw the same thing but i have kinda already moved on with another guy and my x that i have 2 kids with still wants be back . I understand that if you are not getting any and you want some you will keep thinking of her u have to eigther work it out and make it work or move on. So you can have a clear mine of things. Sex is needed but dont let it control u Maybe fine a new sex partner but i think you guys should try to work it out 1st before you try something new. You can always take a cold shower lol. have a great day .
2006-10-14 03:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by ms hot and sexy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you both still love each other,as you say , she may be wanting it too. Sounds like neither of you are ready for a committed relationship for one reason or another. Just Invite her out for a casual dinner and see where it leads!
2006-10-14 03:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by ptt_pntr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am trying to type but my tears get in the way, sob........ attention!!!! We men have no affiliation with this person. Wait a sec. you're asking ME if I want to have sex with your ex-fiance?? That's what is says, right? Not if you were. I'll bet you even broke into song with this one.
2006-10-14 03:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO!!!!!! If she's hurting over the break up, and she still loves you,... having sex with her will hurt her even more if nothing more comes it. If its just a sex thing for you.... then find someone else for that... and let her get over you.
2006-10-14 03:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if your trying to separate from her you have to leave it alone. I had a girlfriend whom after we broke up I continued to have sex with her. The problem was it confused things for her then it started causing problems for me again... So if you want to break up leave her alone even though its very hard to do!!!!!!! Trust me
2006-10-14 03:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by da_leeda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hearing you out made no difference. It's still none of your business to get your ex divorce papers. It's up to him to make the decision to divorce his wife, not you. He's said you can't be friends. Stay out of it and let him deal with his own problems. If he is unhappy but chooses to stay, it's his fault.
2016-05-22 01:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by Carissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you were wrong to break up but you need to make a decision and stick with it
Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-10-14 04:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with her unless you want to get back with her, it's as simple as that.
2006-10-14 03:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your ex for a reason but if both of you are ok with the sex only thing hell go for it
2006-10-14 03:11:02 · answer #10 · answered by lcox65 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋