ok i hava a bf. and i told him that if hu ever hangs up on me that , that would really hurt my feelings right . so 2 days ago he hung up on me .in da beginning of our relationship i told him what will happen if he did(witch would be not talkin to him 4 lika a couple of months or mayby a year depending on the person). he said he hung up because he was tired of what i had kept saying. but i told him theres other ways to deal with dat .. so i plan on calling him on da 1st of november. so is he wrong or am i wrong
2006-10-14 02:54:58 · 24 answers · asked by beautiful 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well you told him and he still hung up on you so you have to live out the consequence if you want him to take you seriously. He knew how to hurt your feelings and he purposely did knowing that he would...it was his decision, so don't talk to him as you said you would. If you do, he will know he can walk all over you and it will happen again...gauranteed.
2006-10-14 02:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by __Shele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agreed it was a little childish for him to hang up on you, that probably could have been handled differently. On the other hand, I think you maybe are overreacting a bit. Tell him you are sorry that what you were saying wasn't what he wanted to here, but he really upset you when he hung up on you. Then give the guy a break, he is a GUY after all. They can be stubborn and pig headed at times. If you truly care about him, then don't wait too long to talk to him. Think about it carefully because he might just have moved on and found someone else by then, because like I said he is a GUY!!!
Good luck to you, hope things work out!
2006-10-14 10:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by F-1 says KISS IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in ways i think you both are wrong not to be mean but you should discuss your issues about him hanging up on you and why he did, if he hung up on you because he was tired of what you were talking about in my personal opinion he should have changed the subject. if you wait till the first of november it could be to late call him sonner and sort it out. i hope i can help!
- cj miller
2006-10-14 09:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)learn to talk properly
2)never tell anyone what really annoys you they will do it to annoy you
3)Don’t keep repeating yourself that is so annoying he probably heard you the first time and didn’t like it.
4)Grow up
5)Either call him now or risk loosing him if he means that much to you then call if you’re not going to call until 1st November you’re playing him.
6)Be a good girl and go and play with the other kids.
2006-10-14 10:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ian S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be very young.Or atleast I hope so.Maturity will help you with relationships a lot.Learn along the way.Why would you want to Punish someone you care for?Talk it out or get out.
2006-10-14 09:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
childish...call him,girl!
call him now and make up!
u'll just give another the chance to take him..and u;ll be talking and talking..alone!
and if the boy said that he was tired to hear u saying something..stop doing it!talk something else..make your conversation more...private..if u understand what i mean..keep his interest alive...and he won't hang up ever again..!
2006-10-14 10:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by floricica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like both of ou have problems with one another why dont you try just dating other people so you and he can find out what your looking for . Maybe you will find each other
2006-10-14 10:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by lcox65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean what are u like 12 . Get over it people do things when there upset you should talk to him now!!!! If you want to keep him.
2006-10-14 09:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by ms hot and sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wasn't nice to hang up on you, but a year? oh come on! you will like so miss him!! i bet that you will call hm in a month, or sooner. if he apologizes to you i think that you should forgive him. everybody should get a second chance
2006-10-14 10:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Ywanica ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right.
2006-10-14 10:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by ladyvincicode 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋