My husband started working for a roustabout crew about two months ago, and he finally quit about a week ago because he has been diagnosed with general anxiety disorder and the job was too stressful because he was getting yelled at for everyone elses screw ups and tools were being thrown at him. anyway, when he quit the ex-boss and his wife went around town spreading rumors about him and about me. and they don't even know me. i barely even met them about two weeks before he quit. now, i am suppose to go and pick up his last check on monday and i am not sure if i should confront, just get the check, keep my mouth shut and walk away or what i should do. help me out guys, please. because i am not one to start a fight or really finish a fight unless i have to. what should i do?
2006-10-14 03:02:02 · 10 answers · asked by glamour girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah by the way did you know your husband could have filed a lawsuit for uncomfortable work environment? Yes and he could have gotten a bundle. Stand up for yourself tell the bosses wife if she keeps spreading rumors then you will file suit for deformation of charecter and that you will win. Because all those ppl she keeps spreading rumors too you are going haul into court through a subpenia and then they will have to tell everything she said to them . that should be enough to shut her up ,if it does'nt then do it file a lawsuit against her and her husband . Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-10-14 03:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go get the check and leave it alone why bother. It would bother them more if you kill them with kindness I always do it and people hate it. They will realize they cant break you. And about the rumors obviously you and your husband are that important if people keep talking about you guys and they don't have anything better to do.. funny that that guy is a boss of anything being the a$$hole he is.
2006-10-14 10:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by irishprincess69 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if i were you i would pick up his check then check the ex-boss and his wife. if they want to fight i say lets get it! but on the real the reason they are talking about you all is because they are not pleased with themselves and if they are talking about you it just lets you know that they are thinking about you. don't sweat it.
2006-10-14 10:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by lovenicci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm...
Do you like to be involved in drama...?
Usually those that spread rumors have CONTROL in the group in which it spreads... They know that they can win in this group.!
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lawsuit???
I wouldn't... Usually rumor spreaders have the legal system on their side in that group as well...
I'd ignore them as tho I didn't know that a rumor exist. And if I was asked about it I'll say something like," I don't comment on rumors except to acknowledge that they exist and there are more than one of them." Then leave whoever was asking me that question free to return to the group from which they came... ...With no further comment from me!
But then in my group of friends there is very little drama!
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2006-10-14 10:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, DO NOT confront, for it says in the Bible just to strive for peace with everyone. I mean don't say a word and mind your own world, as far as they may be concerned, since you do not know them anyway.
2006-10-14 10:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by farack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry Glam, take with U two most ferocious looking male cousins.
2006-10-14 10:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he's already the EX boss, threaten a lawsuit...what does your husband have to lose?
2006-10-14 10:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by maccrew6 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't stoop to their level honey, kill um' with kindness, walk away knowing they are redneck trash and you ROCK because you are better...
2006-10-14 10:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep....What Mac said.
2006-10-14 10:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by Use another Nickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call legal aid and ask a lawyer what recourse you have........then proceed!!!
2006-10-14 10:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by doereen69 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋