Does she like as a friend or more??????

Question

there is this girl and im like really close friends with her but i want to make it more and i dont know if she is into me or not. here are some details....she is 14 i am 15 i talk to her on the phone every night i call her but if she doesnt answer she will always call me back. when we see each other neither of us cant help but smile. I get a ride to school but b4 i did (like 3 weeks ago) she always told me to save her a seat on the bus.we walk together to most of our classes. but the major problem is her boyfriend. this is the part that has me confused.... when i talk to her she always says how he never calls her and how mad it makes her. she also makes fun of him continuously...... i keep on giving her hints that im into her what do u think

Answer 1

here the scoop hun! She like you, your the person that she can count to be there for her......
This always gets me in trouble with the youngens but.......I can live with it!
I will always firmly believe that male's don't see friendship's with females in the same view as the female dose.
males who say they are friends with a girl........I mean the hanging out, talking on the phone.....sharing personal details, that type of freind, not the girl you borrowed history notes from!
" do not want to be JUST freinds with them......unless the male prefers those of the same sexual orientation.
Females can be friends with a male and may not want to step it up to a boy-freind level.
Buttttttttt they can see that person, ( some may say they use that person's love for self-benifit), but if that not want people in relationships do..........then , because in a relationship we use the other person.... and are used by the other person for self-enjoyment, compaionship, to win at card. soooooooo.
(please don't shoot the Pirate)
she is getting the benifit of a security blanket and that's what you give to your relationship!........she will hold on to that "Friend" to get male recognition, sympathy, affection, attention when they are not recieving this from the boyfriend.
Well I put my foot in this far.....ok.......I will tell you more that a 15 year old boy in love dosen'tn' want to hear!
If her boyfreind starts treating her las she would like! ( this won't happen) You would soon become a good old freind, BUt she will always feel love and compassion in heart for you........
.If her boyfreind dumps her..(this will happen).......she may step it up a bit with you.
But .........I am also going to be the mean ol Pirate here again! If another boy comes along that is simular in nature to the type that she sees as "Boyfreind material" she will go after that,
this dose not make her a bad person, just a unaware adolesent!
She, no-matter what in life happens, will love you, for being there for her.......This may not seem significant for you right now because you want her for your girlfriend.
If you see this person as your lifes dream girl. (this can happen)......hold on to it, don't judge her, become angry or upset....but......do.date others and hang on to the freindship if you can........
In another frame in life......... in later years........when you both have matured......you will be the MAN that she never new she was in love with!
Matured women......really so want the man that is going to be there for them, ...the importance of your relationship with her is not yet to be seen.
But......even if life never takes the two of you down that road together......you and she, will always have a beautiful moment in life, to reflex on........You as person cared enough for her to listen to her life's whoa's, doing heroic's by that simple little act of "saving the bus seat" the smile the two of you provoke in the other.
You also maybe lucky that its not happening in the boyfriend -girlfreind arena just yet......Most 15/14 years. don't make it to that forever love......you really love this girl......or you would not be freinds with her, and willing to hear her jabber on about other guy!
She's lucky you are...... its hard to find a man that is willing to listen to other guy whoa's ( do you even see a hint of the special role you have already played in her life?)
You will be highly desireable for women some day and still won't be "Boyfreind Material" you will be. ...........
"The husband material".....hopfully she matures soon......... or she will miss out on a great guy!

Answer 2

I think you are into her... and she knows...
She is treating you as a good friend/.// don't push it any further for now.
Having someone break-up with their bf to be with you can be trouble...
I know she seems needy in some ways(someone to talk to) that is because she is probably very sensitive.. SHe is unhappy with the way her present relationship is going, but hasn't decided yet to give it up. She obviously has a connection of some sort with her bf or she would have dumped him long ago.
I am sorry but you are just the friend to talk to and her sounding board for now..... I think for now I would look in another direction for gf material...She is not ready to make her change... that doesn't mean further on the line if she is single that she won't remember your friendship and maybe act on it... Don't be the guy who made her break-up and don't be the rebound bf...
Both of those positions have very low status on the dating scene.

Answer 3

Maybe she likes you better than her boyfriend, BUT she's still with him. I think that's an issue. If she's that unhappy with him, why is she still with him instead of breaking up with him? You should find out about this before taking any further action. Good luck.

Answer 4

i think that she likes you, and this is coming from a 14 year old girl. i think that she likes you but isnt getting it that u like her too =] so try a little harder, and if shes making funn of her bf maybe she doesnt like him all that much anymore. hope i helped a little bit

Answer 5

dont think much.just go and tell her dat u love her .u knw her better dat she will not feel bad or feel bad .accordingling tell her dat u like her very much and now dat it depends on her dat she wants to be more than a friend of you or just continue to be your friend.however u will respect her decision.watever it is i told u wat i felt ,knw dat it depends on u dat u want to tell dis to her or not .rather than hidding ur felling in ur heart n spoiling ur sleep.ok. go ahead.good luck.

Answer 6

well your on the right direction, just slowly but surely tell her about your feeling towards her.i think she's yours already but to make sure take your time,be caring towards her and she will be yours for sure.

Answer 7

you both really like each other

Answer 8

yea she is, and dont worry about her bf.