2006-10-14 03:18:25 · 14 answers · asked by Bubbles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do men pay for sex? Why do women pay for lattes? Because they want it. This is tough for you I can understand. However there are a variety of ways to look at it. Did he cheat or did he buy something? When a man pays for sex it is a sign that they want nothing more then SEX, not the emotional attachment that goes with it. The tough part is some people get addicted to this like a drug and then it harms the entire situation.
Yes he cheated, but he came home a few bucks short. If he was smart he used protection if he did not he was dumb and you should leave him, because not only did he give up some money but he put you at risk. Best of luck on this one, it is still in your hands I just wanted to give you a fresh prospective.
2006-10-14 03:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men AND women pay for sex, but usually men. As a guy who has been around a little, I figure it is because there are thousands and thousands of hookers, advertising everywhere, the whole world pushes sex with ads, TV,etc. They can't sell a car without a bikini in the ads. And we men are supposed to just ignore all this p**sy? Get real! By the way, the idea is to NOT get caught by wifey. Just to make things equal, I've been paid six times by women, all married and all were attractive. No, I didn't ask why, none of my business. So, once again the guys take all the heat. I used the same prostute for 12 years, then I divorced her.
2006-10-14 10:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its called the oldest profession and it does go back. There are even films of apes exchanging sex for food. I have never seen anything wrong with it. It should be legal, like it is in many places in Europe. The girls do not need agents, they get to keep all their earnings, nobody beats them up, they can be safe and healthy, and the clients are safer too. But America likes to condemn everything, make everything a crime, force it all under ground so the mob can make money off it and we can fill our prisons.
2006-10-14 10:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by jxt299 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no you shouldn't forgive it. ask what he was paying for that he wasn't getting @ home. then if you want to continue with the relationship , you will never have that problem again. but it would be very hard to forgive , when he has pd. for someone who has been around the whole city block an back again,
2006-10-14 10:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very interesting question.Best idea will be if: instead to pay for sex,all those men should be marry , have a wife,children and, have a normal life as many people have.
2006-10-14 10:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is an insane persons question.
men pay for sex because they want to get their rocks off, quickly, with no strings or conversation attached, or no other emotional attachment.
and HELL NO, that is NEVER forgiven. If it's my brother?......... then I scold him and tell him that he should never be desperate enough to pay a whore for something like that. He is better than that. If it is my co-worker........I laugh my azz off at him. If it is my HUSBAND or BOYFRIEND????? Someone is getting a shoe booted up their...........AND i'm dumping them in a PUBLIC way and TELLING EVERYBODY what a freak and LOSER he is.
2006-10-14 12:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I'm not going to place myself at risk because a man is horny and can't control himself. I might eventually forgive him, but the relationship would be over and he'd never be in my bed again!
2006-10-14 10:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should be legal in every state... as it is in germany and many other countries of the world... think of the tax dollars it would free up and the number of law enforcement officers that could now concentrate on other areas of law that require more attention...
Also the number of rapes and forced attention would surely diminish tenfold... etc...
2006-10-14 10:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
men shouldnt sleep with prostitutes and forgiveness is devine
Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-10-14 11:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you know there will be no emotional attachment between them. Just one thing and one thing only. This takes some of the "work", as some woman put it, off of you.
2006-10-14 10:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋