I have a friend and she's nice, but she sometimes tends to get bored while im with her...as we are two12 year olds, we're not allowed to go on a walk together or anything and she hardly goes to the pub , (they allow kids)... and i've also had a sleepover and it wasn't awfully exciting.. what can I do to build up a bit more excitement between us? and what fun things can we do?
2006-10-14 03:06:21 · 19 answers · asked by ♥HELLO♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hiya honey, u could have her stay over and u can give each other facials and paint each others nails etc. Watch a scary film while stuffing your face with chocolate and sweets!! or tell each other scary, spooky stories with all the lights off and just a flashlight for company! Go out, go bowling....go to the pictures....swimming....maybe see if theres a dance class or something u could go too together after school? I used to go to a kickboxing class with my friends at a local social club after school, but thats not for everyone!!! Good luck, and remember be happy!!
2006-10-14 03:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by sausagejockey 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hi as somebody else has already said be yourself as thats the reason she hangs around with you ,because your you!!
Ask her questions about what type of music she likes , what type of boy she is interested in , what she likes to do in her spare time ,the food she likes!
get a funny DVD to watch , that will get you both laughing !!
Try getting some craft things from the shops such as making your own cards , see who can make the most creative ones .
I hope this helps .
Also the more mates you have at a sleepover the better it is !!
2006-10-14 10:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by TRUEBRIT 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
join a club together, it will bring you closer. Also, if there is an indoor activity centre near you, it is a great laugh to do that once in a while. If none of these things interest you, you should mabye talk to her, ask her what she enjoys and find out more about her! That way, you will feel you know her better and you won't have to try anymore! :)
2006-10-14 12:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi there my suggestion would be find things out about each other, like things you both enjoy and share a great interest in, kids should not be going to pubs at your age you should be having great sleep overs with girlie night with dvds and goodies, see if you share the same music you could have loads to talk about, ask her over and talk things through
2006-10-14 10:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by tina b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are so many different and fun conversations you can have, its all about you you connect with each other, dont seem like your trying, but actually talk to her and do things with her as if you always knew her
2006-10-14 10:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by See ya later aligator 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bring the pub to your next sleepover.. one of the best times I ever remember involved a bottle of tequila and a couple of 12 year olds.
2006-10-14 10:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by thatotherguy 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
nothing! stop worring about pubs! gurl you are only 12!! and way under age!!
be yourself,if she dont like you for you,then you'l just end up living a doudle life to please others for the rest of your life..
add that plus TAX now thats exhasting
dont cha think?.lol
take care
2006-10-14 14:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to try and listen to her and find out what she is interested in then find some common ground. If you spend too much time just talking to her and not listening then she will get bored.
2006-10-14 10:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by H 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Get into what she is and then you and her will have something together and this should bring you and her closer. Good luck.
2006-10-14 10:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no hard work darlin just be kind keep a smile and don't force yourself on him or her and if that don't work just tell the person and if it don't happen he is just not interested in you.
2006-10-14 11:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋