Family & Relationships - 14 October 2006

im 18
never had sex
never dated
never kissed
the paradox is i can flirt etc etc get to the border but
can go on, dunno why
i feal so much stressed bcoz i cant predict what will happen
if i hug or kiss or smth like that
i tryd asking friends they told me everything will be ok
after some fails it got worse then sm1 suggested me to go
to a prostitute so i can feal what its like and cure me from my shyness
so should i go or do smth else ?
coz otherwise its nearly imposible

2006-10-14 10:02:36 · 19 answers · asked by newmike_2004 2 in Singles & Dating

At home I am very cold ! I get on with my family ok but I don't like hugs , kisses and getting lovey dovey .... At school I am the exact opposite .. What is wrong with me

2006-10-14 10:02:24 · 14 answers · asked by La parisienne ! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

first thing first sorry about my last one in i srewd tht one up and i can't spell any ways on to the question i like realy like this girl called lucy i don 't no if i should ask her out.if i do she could say yes or no if no i think it may wreck are friendship if yes wel yes or i could leave and just keep wournding.

2006-10-14 10:01:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you communicate with your partner (this can also be non verbal)? What is your communication style, and is it effective? How do you improve, and how do you know you are improving?

2006-10-14 10:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by Badman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

which features do you find most attractive on a woman? be honest! put them in order: no.1 being most attracting/important

~hair
~eyes
~smile
~height
~size
~voice
~butt
~personality
~boobs

and then put these in order, first being best:

figure:
~slim
~slightly chubby
~really fat
~fat
~really slim

2006-10-14 10:00:45 · 11 answers · asked by Shontelle 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 10:00:11 · 3 answers · asked by Abby H 1 in Friends

i have been kinda hangin out with this guy for awhile now..we have messed around and did some other sexual stuff and we jus spent a whole lot of time together but today hes leaving the state to go sumwher else and i m soo depresed because i got attached to him and REALLY started liking him.whereas i dont think he has that same attachement..and he will proly go ther n play around n meet other girls while i m here feeling so sad n crying..and hes leaving today and i thot he wud cal me to meet him one last time or something but he didnt..i gues he jus had his fun then..and its really tearing me apart that hes leaving...i dont want to tell him my real feelings bcuz i feel embaressed..cuz he dusnt seem to care so why shud i let him knw how i really feel..so how do i handle this...he is leaving today and I am so depresed...TELL ME HOW TO HANDLE THIS..plz...shud i just say bye calmly and let him go....and not look back..n jus forget him...plz tell me how to handle his departure...

2006-10-14 09:59:14 · 20 answers · asked by mani 1 in Singles & Dating

My little cousin is 8 years old he lives with us and most of the time a joy to babysit but when he was younger he as a premature and small or short and he used to put his hand in my back pocket or my butt when i walked around with him outside or grab on to my leg. He tends to do this now and its not cute in church last week he started massaging my butt and it was embarrassing. When i am around guys in particular he starts doing this too any advice?

2006-10-14 09:58:56 · 8 answers · asked by Sabrina c 1 in Family

My bf of 2 years lives in Ohio, I'm in South Carolina. More and more he keeps complaining about spending money on plane tickets and gas money to come see me. He says i never appreciate it, but no matter what i do or say its not enough.

I just dont know what to think. Im a college student, i make enough money for food and thats about it. he's already out of school and has a good paying job. I never ask him to buy me anything or let him buy me anything besides the $200 plane ticket once a month.

The last time we fought about this, i told him i didnt want him to come see me anymore until i could pay for the tickets. That means we'll get to see each other once every 3 months. But, is that what has to happen? I want to see him, but im tired of him complaining. what can i do?

2006-10-14 09:58:56 · 12 answers · asked by Freaked out 3 in Singles & Dating

If someone that you have had a history with but you are now just friends with is nice to you and states: YOU ROCK......what does this mean in your opinion?

2006-10-14 09:58:07 · 10 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-14 09:57:00 · 11 answers · asked by Darren W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

whoever answered "ask sadam hussein"

2006-10-14 09:56:35 · 1 answers · asked by caseelectricom 1 in Friends

there is this girl i think is proper fit.
i like her i think i should ask her out
she likes me as a firend duno if she like me other thn friends
so should i ask her out and risk it.or leave it out and let it annoy me to death
what u think i should do?

2006-10-14 09:56:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

pls don't wannt to invest money.

2006-10-14 09:56:08 · 13 answers · asked by petito10 1 in Singles & Dating

She looks like a horse and I've spent a lifetime trying to keep the trollop from marrying him, but now its done, whenever she comes over for tea, I just want to smash the china over her head.... but I just put on my best cold smile..... how can I make this more bearable for me?

2006-10-14 09:55:19 · 47 answers · asked by Hobnobs 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 7 months, is nothing but good to me and would never hurt me, this I know. He tells me he loves me but I feel it's more of a friend love than partner love, just the way he has been acting latley, I have a sick feeling he is falling out of love with me. For example, he seems to have lost interest in sex, he plays his xbox 360 like a madman after work, never comes to bed with me anymore, never seems to want to talk to me, i dunno, maybe I am being paranoid, but something has changed with him and im worried. I ask him what's wrong but he says nothing, he has been working tons latley, so have I, but is this any reason to shove me in the corner?...Does anyone have any suggestions/advice, thanks in advance

2006-10-14 09:54:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Home alone tonight and I'm feeling a little flirty!
"So what do you do, where you from, and what do you like doing for fun?"

2006-10-14 09:54:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I now of a webiste that is offering you the chance to see if your loved one or celebrity loved ones are a Perfect match. total score is a percentage of 100, obviously. Now I have searched this site and want to know if I should continue with my search for a this elusive party member or just go about things in the "normal" fashion. i think that I should go for it and my gut feelings say that its possible but so far no one has decided to help me, have put my quest on 360 and on spaces (msn) but so far no takers. Need some help, my current situation is just not working and I need to re-create as a matter of life and death. Not just emphasising. He would obviously be rich, can anyone out there help me, view my page on 360/msmessam or 360/dawnmessam or what do you think@spaces.

2006-10-14 09:53:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 09:53:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a bully and i began bulimia, weight gain, smoking, depression, and i lost half my vision in my right eye, and this person didn't even care!

2006-10-14 09:53:14 · 3 answers · asked by Infinite 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

pick good

2006-10-14 09:52:28 · 9 answers · asked by alexandria b 1 in Family

I was fearful of them and had a TRO against them. I forgive them but I feel trepidation in even thinking of being in their presence. I was told did I really forgive them because I don't socialize with them. What kind of Christian am I -I supposedly forgive them so therefore I should be okay being around them. They are relatives.

2006-10-14 09:52:13 · 6 answers · asked by puakenekene42 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like girl?
im a guy who likes this gurl but her parents are divorced and she is a year younger than me it was a movie night at my church when suddenly she decided to sit next to me so she did and when she sat down her hand rested on mine i was startled and jerked it away also i got sum popcorn from the snack stand and offered her some she accepted a couple. i don't kno wat i should do should i tell her i like her should i flirt more also her twin bro is my frend so is this an awkward position i think it is. help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

also my parents don't let me date wwhatttt do i dooooo???
where would be a good place for us to hang out sumwere private or out in the open plzz i neeeed heeelppp pppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ HHHHHHHHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!

2006-10-14 09:51:56 · 9 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating

it's really hard for me to have fun because i've been through lots of problems lately and i suppose the pain is written on my face, people look at me with something like pity and all i want to do is forget about my problems and have some fun

2006-10-14 09:51:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-14 09:50:58 · 12 answers · asked by ludwig29@btopenworld.com 1 in Family

I have been with this guy for a couple of months everything was perfect, it moved kinda fast and we moved into togther right away. One night 3 months ago some guys robbed our house and to make a long story short he got shot. I was by his side the whole time in the hospital and still am. Ever since the hospital he has been acting different. I had to move out bc we didnt think it was safe for me and my son to live there with the guys not caught. He doesnt want to move back in with me bc he thinks my son is too much for him right now, we dont talk everyday, he doesnt show me any affection, and i found out his friends told him they are mad at him for not calling them or hanging out with them anymore. Even though i never said he couldnt. He stills says he wants to be with me and still says he cares but i just dont know. I moved here from NY and ive been wanting to go back, all my friends are there but ever since i met him hes what is keeping me here. PLEASE HELP!!! What should i do?

2006-10-14 09:49:47 · 28 answers · asked by mmmkjd 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 09:48:57 · 13 answers · asked by Widget 1 in Singles & Dating

Which would you prefer to marry?

2006-10-14 09:48:44 · 12 answers · asked by IshotJR 2 in Weddings

I really like this guy and we talked all the time and hang out as much as we can, with him playing travel soccer and me cheering and playing soccer. I refuse to make the first move though, and I think he thinks he can't because im going to hoemcoming with his best friend, but strictly as just friends. How can I get him to make the first move.

2006-10-14 09:48:40 · 3 answers · asked by swthrt4eva91 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a really nice boyfriend, I have been dating him for a year and a month, and we have been living together for three months. But there are a few problems, he thinks we are already married and that I am his house wife. He never helps with laundry, dishes, cleaning the apartment, taking care of the cat, or anything to make it easier on me. I work all day just as well as him and he thinks I have to do everything. On my days off of work, I do laundry and chores... on his days off, he goes hunting. I have told him once already that I am not his house wife and that he needs to help around the house. It was ineffective. What should I, what can I, do to get him to help me? He got mad at me when I bought a purse with a matching walet. But he thinks its ok for him to buy a fishing rod for $250. My stuff was $50 put together. And he asked me to buy him a pop-up blind for deer hunting, so I did. I asked for a new phone (cheaper) and he said no. Is he selfish or am I? Am I asking too much??

2006-10-14 09:47:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating