My little cousin is 8 years old he lives with us and most of the time a joy to babysit but when he was younger he as a premature and small or short and he used to put his hand in my back pocket or my butt when i walked around with him outside or grab on to my leg. He tends to do this now and its not cute in church last week he started massaging my butt and it was embarrassing. When i am around guys in particular he starts doing this too any advice?
2006-10-14 09:58:56 · 8 answers · asked by Sabrina c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He has also taken to jumping on me and he is way too heavy?
2006-10-14 10:00:20 · update #1
I have told him too stop!it has not worked!my parents say it a stage he will grow out off!
2006-10-14 10:01:41 · update #2
Tell your aunt, because I believe your young cousin has an innoccent crush on you.
However, this could really freak him out later, so you better "nip this in the bud" soon before he becomes mental.
Don't babysit him anymore if his mom isn't going to do anything aobut it...
2006-10-14 10:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by The Mac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's spanking your butt? Take him aside, smack his little hand and tell him that what he's doing is embarrassing to you and is not good behavior. If he does it again, smack his hand a little harder and say, "What did I just through explaining to you... It's not good behavior, now behave like a good little boy.. I don't want to have to spank you in front of all these people, but I will if you keep it up."
If he does it again... Grab his little arm, take him to a quiet little area, throw him over your knee, and say, "I gave you two warnings and you wouldn't listen,,," Hit him on his butt because you can't hurt anything but his pride if you use your hand on his fleshy parts of his buttocks...
2006-10-14 10:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a stage and he need some one to help him. Your parents and his if they are in his life need to have a talk with him and help him understand. He should be told about private parts and what is appropriate and what is not. If that doesnt work then he needs to see a therapist.
2006-10-14 10:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by burpsmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smack his F'n hand you dingbat. What you are teachign him is that it is okay for him and others to grab and squeeze your butt. So if you could give me directions to your house I would like to get to work on that.
2006-10-14 10:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by cannon1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap his hand away and make sure he sees that it makes you unhappy when he does it. If other people start laughing and talking about how cute it is, set them straight. Make sure you don't allow him any inkling that what he is doing is acceptable or cute. Stop him everytime.
2006-10-14 10:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he should probably be seen by a counseler.. just to see if they can get an answer..
2006-10-14 10:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never had experience like that , must be something wrong. I can't tell you to punished him ........... to stop it.
2006-10-14 10:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop... why is he touching your butt?
2006-10-14 10:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋