Hi. Basically 3 weeks ago my girlfriend got very irrational behaviour. Now this isn’t new. She has been prone to pretty strange and difficult behaviours over the course of 3 yrs of going out. We’ve been living together for about 2 yrs. We haven’t been having sex for 5 months either because I felt the conditions haven’t been right i.e. She hadn’t wanted to or she was tired or she was sick or just didn’t want to. I have no problem as in the sense that if she was all these things I’m not going to argue or be pushy. Also I didn’t want to make love either for the reason of her difficult passive aggressive behaviour and was very off put by this. One mood would run into the other then she’d come back and be in a good mood while id be still wondering what was wrong and then it would go on like that all the time. The problem is I love her. Her sister got engaged over this period of time and it seemed she wanted a mirror image of what she had and this has caused numerous outbursts. she says that I don’t want kids or marriage that I’d prefer the single life, she says that she’s lonely and would a child fill the gaps for her and her job is in the mental health area. I’m worried that she might be depressed and want to help. 3 weeks ago she stormed out over something so trivial it’s laughable and said I and my mother were gossiping about her. She slated my mother and she’s done nothing to her and sent abusive texts while knowing my Aunt was after dying and she wasn’t there to lean on while I was feeling sad. Since then she’s moved into her own house. I heard down town then from a 3rd party that it was off between us and I confronted her there was inevitable shouting and she telling me that she doesn’t want to see or hear or any contact with me again and showed me the door. We swapped keys and I told her she could pick up the rest of her stuff when she gave me back the €600 that she owes me. Since she hasn’t come to me and im anticipating another row. What do I do or what can I do in this situation in other words help
2006-10-14
10:21:36
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